A Demonstration Of Love

 

Of course I want to be loved, who doesn’t? But too often people sacrifice self-respect for the security of feeling loved. I say, “feeling” loved because that what it seems to boil down to, the emotions of being loved, the need to be loved, and the high of thinking you are in love. But it really is true that love is an action word…and not just a single action; it’s behavior over time that leave no doubt that a person has your back and will not threaten the relationship just because you have differences or fight. Real love doesn’t require you to lose control or lose your appetite to confirm that it’s real. A better way to put it is, real love is not only felt and spoken...it’s demonstrated. I know people like to hear the words, “I love you,” and that’s understandable, we’re emotional creatures but we need to be more focused on what’s being done as opposed to what’s being said. So the next time you start feeling butterflies and get all carried away, take a step back and observe if what a person says matches up with what they’re showing you. It’s easy to be blinded by emotions, and sex, and neediness, but a person’s true feeling will always be reflected in their actions…over time.
~ Michael Baisden

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My perspective: Communication about Love  between the sexes has always been  a problem when One had one thing  on their mind and the other has something completely different in mind.  When it comes to Love men see it as your outstanding aesthetics as the ultimate turn on . while women see it as actions, gestures of most sincere  kindness, thoughtfulness, intimacy without insistence of having sex. Folks we have a long long long  road to travel before we get to the point where we see thing  exactly the same way, on the topic of L-O-V-E. Do you LADIES remember how much preparation you went through before that first date with your version of "Mr. Right" your hair was just right after a visit to the hair dresser, the nails were freshly manicured. even the toes we perfectly pedicured the dress spoke volumes with the perfect length, V-cut showing just enough cleavage..... the shoes were the right high to best accent  the legs. He exhaled and said "You are soooo beautiful"  So he was In-love with your special aesthetics image Instantly, this is what  you presented to him.  His eyes were glazed over, and you knew he was under your spell.  Well at least until the spell was broken or wore off, especially if he went home alone, after taking you home.  Smart Guys are  on there best behavior to avoid blowing the first date.... Just be a gentleman don't do the stupid things, that will destroy your chance to have second date.  So we do all that we can to make sure the lady feels as special as she looks. When a man is boxed into a corner he will say those words of "I love you" or "I'm falling in love with You" the truth is he is looking  at your perfection in temperance  and so the words just flow without stuttering.  He may actually mean it.. but is not because of  the same things a woman believes his I love you means. 

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 Well don't forget he is under your spell, a man will kiss your feet for days on end when he is in-love (under your spell.)  But he will wake up any minute now, so you better enjoy it while it last. Unless he goes through a few sleepless nights thinking about you, Where he awakens every morning hugging his pillow  after dreaming about you that is when he knows the Spell will last for awhile longer..... when he kiss your picture, that is on his night stand, first thing in the morning and the last thing a night. A man knows when he is caught in the web and is entranced by your SPELL for the long run.
accept  it for what it is...... ladies... Our male Love meter start  registering and increases with time.. once it set based on a good start he can feel this way for many many years, hoping that you don't change. the first impression can last for long time.  Things like....How do I live with out you? You are all that I need... I just keep  thinking  about  KISSING YOU!