So, who's your Daddy?

As more people have their DNA tested and as the results databases grow, you will have an increasingly better chance of connecting with your birth father by genetic means. While it is true that you are unable to trace your father's identity through his Y-DNA (the traditional male paternity signature) because a female does not inherit it, do not despair: There is another method. Autosomal DNA testing looks at the 22 pairs of chromosomes that do not determine gender. This can be very useful in identifying relationships within five generations of yourself, without being limited to only maternal ancestors.

It is true that your results will be most useful if your biological father or one of his close relatives (preferably his brothers or sisters or his first cousins) also had genetic data registered with the DNA testing company you use. Companies like23andMe (through DNA Relatives) and Family Tree DNA (through Family Finder), as well asAncestry.com and Genographic, can compare the data from these autosomes for shared segments. You should take tests with each of these companies as their databases are proprietary -- that is, they are not shared or overlapping.

The closer the genetic relationship you have with a person in one of these databases, the more identical segments of DNA you will share. And these companies even determine, through the lengths of these segments, if you have a brother or sister in the databases or, indeed, if you descend from a parent. But we stress that this is a very long shot.

According to the 23andMe website, "DNA Relatives uses the length and number of these identical segments to predict the relationship between people." If your birth father himself has contributed his DNA results, you will be able to tell [if] he is your father. A 30 percent to 40 percent match with someone probably indicates that the person is your half-sibling. 23andMe and Family Finder both display predicted relationships between you and the people whose DNA aligns with yours to some degree. This means that by submitting your DNA results, you would be casting a net and hoping that a relative on your father's side has contributed DNA as well. Should you find any such people, you can contact them through the company you have both joined.

Men in your family are like these boats they're anchor pretty close together!

The Alpha male and others versas the Alpha female.

The female these days has choices between 2 types of Alphas and 2 types of Beta men!

She just need to point her arrow and hit the target of her choice!

Men can always find a Beta and Omega female so I'm not going to  cover them in this post, if you are looking  for a Beta female just look around an Alpha female because they are hanging with her if they are in a group.

Omega females are wall flowers.... I will leave it at that.

The alpha plus+ ,male- these are the highest ranking type of male. Men who fall under this category have had multiple partners both long term and short term. Most think that men like these  are incapable of maintaining a long relationship. this is not true. these guys are very much in control of their lives, they don't let women or anyone for that matter dominate then because they are the ones in charge.

The Alpha Minus-, these are second highest types of men. They usually attractive and although they look like Alpha plus men, but many of them lack the intelligence, because of this lack of intelligence these Alpha minuses rely on charisma and other personality traits to get ahead of the group. Due to their high male social ranking status, many of them are often distracted by the amount of beautiful women that are easily available to them and this is what separates them from the Alpha pluses. Alpha minuses are usually jocks, athletes and some are musicians. Bare in mind that they are  very much alphas despite they are  being  ranked slight lower that the Alpha pluses.

The  Alpha Male body language says it all. He is strong but strong doesn't mean a lot of muscles. it means a male who gets around in the World on his own power and gets what he wants thought confidence, courage, intellect and high determination. He moves slowly and deliberately with no wasted motions. he stands proudly erect, relaxed--- but alert- in all situations. they are generous, outgoing and cheerful with everyone, for they seldom worry about petty stuff.

The Beta Plus +, this group may have the potential to become alpha pluses or Alpha minuses, unfortunately, they lack the drive, willpower or direction. they are intelligent but they are socially inept.

The Beta Minus- Aside from the constant need for approval from others to feel important, they reflect the negative traits of the Beta plus. They usually have a distorted view of the World they enjoy reveling in victim-hood while constantly complaining and blaming others for their failures and gross short comings. they dwell on self pity as self improvement is a term that is alien to these guys.

Nowadays men have easier access to sex partners because Beta Females are more likely to give up sex easily. women are still the gatekeepers of sex therefore it is and has always been up to women as to who gets laid and who does not.

The Alpha Female, an alpha female is a dominant female in a group. she dates who she wants as she wants, is strong and confident and a are hard workers are usually very busy. because they go-getters and are playful at times. Alpha females are intelligent, intellectual  problem solvers, being a alpha female is often  terribly misunderstood. because they see their Alpha status as state of mind more than a physicality.  Alpha females are confusing to Beta men, as evident by the fact when they can't get her attention the y call her a "Bitch." 
or maybe she might be and A-sexual female you should know one if see one  click on the following.  

Many have not heard about Asexuals!

The 90 day rule and the $200 minimum date!

 here is one of my favorite statement. 

As some folks  think of New Rules, dating can take great strides backward or forwards by creating new rules or changing old rules...

Example: Rule #1
Steve Harvey came up with a New Rule: "The 90 day Rule" We men are still secretly planning to execute him for having the nerve to talk about dating after he got married. When did a comic become a relationship Guru.... OK it sold books .. Act like a Lady, Think Like a Man ( I alway say the title is to catch women who want to  have the greater advantage. because women don't want to think like men) If They  understand how men think they win, Harvey suggested women  treat men like an employer would  a new employee by placing them on a 90-day probationary period before a man can have sex with her. Does that really work? the jury is still out! Though the premise makes sense logically (men think logically), matters of the heart and body often aren't treated the same as matters of Finance and livelihood. Is it sensible for women, to punish men for each realtionship that failed in the past.
Dating in my book a  is process of elimination if you don't impress me,  you will be scratched from the list. So the longer you hold out  (keeping the cookie) the less chance you have of becoming the "Special One" in my book.
 
You might be sitting at the edge of the bed, 90 days later wondering what went wrong, while I go to sleep, because I have nothing I want to share with you ( it was not worth the wait.).
So a guy needs to wait like a new employee but still spend $200.-- on a first-second-third date?
OKay, Now I have your attention.  Remember now a guy is entering in the area on probation.  Who can afford to spend that kind of investment in this economy just because someone  came up with a silly rule.
Example of Rule #2.
The US$200.-- Date rule.
Apparently, a date isn't a proper date unless a man spends at least $200.--.


 Maybe "KISS--- Keep it Simple Stupid" might be less costly but  more impressive, if you have  maximum privacy, to talk and get to know each other.
I'm pretty sure it's been picked apart on Twitter at least one million times.In any case, the debate is baseless and everyone has varying expectations of what a date is or isn't. Location, cost of living, profession, personal preferences and standards all determine what a dat should be. An initimate conversation over coffee or tea at a coffee house for one woman is the equivalent of dinner and drinks at five -star restaurant of another. Here is where I stand on the subject: New rules on dating  are created to make  movie... and sell fictional books.

The best Rule is be honest and straight forward with the person you are trying to establish a relationship with. 

This should also apply to Real women, be honest and tell the truth don't hide the truth just so that you can keep a guy interested.