A majority of women I've talked to admitted to engaging in consensual sexting even though they weren’t feeling it. Their justification: wanting to fulfill their partner’s needs and be flirtatious. So you are not making her feel you in the right way!.
Unless you’re in a long-distance relationship—a situation that necessitates a little digital foreplay—you’re better off leaving the crotch-shots to the..... Anthony Wieners of the world.
Instead, consider these 10 ways to keep things hot—without resorting to your iPhone usage.
1.
For one
week, agree that one of you can grab the other at any time for sex, and the
grab-ee has to go along with it. Not only will it make sex more exciting,
you’ll become more aware of your partner’s desires—the when, where, and how of
her sexual inclinations.
2.
Start
out with notes: tame and complimentary at first—“I can’t get over how stunning
you look in the morning”—and amp up the heat with each note. Cap off your paper
trail with a message in her purse explaining exactly what you’ll do to her when
she gets home from work.
3.
Agree
to engage in 20 minutes of foreplay every day for a week, with the only rule
being that you can’t have sex. People want what they can’t have. So making
intercourse off-limits will crank up the desire. If you break the rule, well
that’s not really a loss, is it?
4.
For 1
month, agree to test out at least one new sex position each week. The twist:
Use your imagination—not the Internet—to discover new ways to utilize your
flexibility. “Since your brain is one big muscle, exercising it regularly with
new techniques will keep it healthy and strong,
5.
Role
playing can help your partner feel free under the covers, because she can put
herself in a different mindset. If
you’re just starting out, arrange to bump into each other at a bar outfitted in
ways you wouldn’t normally dress, OK, fellahs do a whole lots of pushups and then wear
shirt open to the last button with a
muscle shirt under it. This will make her picture you without a shirt on, with a
barrel chest will her turn on. Ladies remember that dress that is just the tease.
Show enough inner thigh to drive him crazy, Cross your legs first left to
right, then right to left. Over and over.
6.
Deep,
tender, passionate kissing is one of the first things that couples abandon—but
it’s one of the best ways to make her hot
Grab her in the kitchen while you’re preparing dinner, or the moment she
walks in from work. She’ll probably be expecting a peck, but she’ll be
pleasantly surprised when you don’t let her go after the initial lip lock. The
K.I.S.S is still the basic move that still works.
7.
Shower
play: Having a loved one lather you up is not only erotic, it taps into
deep-seated sensations of being cared for, . Soap her up, shampoo
her hair, and run your hands all over her body. By the time you’ve finished
rinsing off the suds, both of you will be ready to take it to the bedroom.
8.
“Sometimes
it’s the little things that leave the biggest impression on your lady. Slip
something fun into her lingerie drawer—a few new pairs of sexy underwear or a
couples sex toy she’s wanted to test out. “You’ll be surprised how quickly
she’ll want to pay back your thoughtfulness—in other ways.
9.
Caressing
her body may be among the fastest ways to turn her on, but long-term couples
tend to skip directly to their tried-and-true grope. Mix it up by slowing
things down. Before you kiss her, gently caress her cheeks, ears, and temples
with the pads of your fingers. Or instead of going straight for her clitoris
during oral sex, warm her up by slowly by kissing and licking little sections
of her inner thighs.
10.
Messages
are always useful when she claims she has a headache, Start at the top….. temple
rubs, then shoulder rubs, Neck and Back
massages, followed by a butt massage and then the back of the thigh massages ,
followed by calf and then feet massages. If she still says “NO” start over from
the bottom up.
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