Things we men ADORE ABOUT our WOMEN

I love it when you do that

Love is a strange emotion that is beyond human wisdom. Although relationship therapy has made strides in redefining love, there is a lot that is yet to be discovered with regards to this complicated emotion. When a man is in love with a woman, there are certain things they adore in them that a woman may or may not be aware of. The following are some of the attributes that men adore in the women they are in love with.

• Loving

When you attend relationship counseling, your counselor might ask you whether you show enough affection towards your man. Men like how you pamper and appreciate them. Sometimes referring to him by names like ‘honey’, ‘darling’, ‘sweet heart’, will make him feel wanted.
Old school couples  have this down to the max, this is why those relationships last way longer than  current relationship... when folks do the things to and for each other without expectation... it  becomes more about giving and gratitude... than excepting and demanding. 

• Sense of Humor 

Men love it when they can exploit your sense of humor. He loves it when he makes you smile even if he is cracking dumb jokes.
What do you consider funny about him? his humor is his own, unlike anyone else, this  is what make it  unique. try understanding  word Porn!    

• Clear View

He loves how you display clear thoughts regarding your future. He likes your maturity because you are both ambitious and have a clear plan. This quality gives men assurance that you will get him back on track when he is lost. Women are told by their mother or aunts and even friends .. find a strong man with goals and vision... Men appreciate the same qualities in women  these days, even if their father's did not tell them to find a strong woman..  

• Physical Contact

Men love being physical with  their women. Men enjoy physical acts of affection more than sex. This includes little things like when a girl sneaks in random kisses on the cheek, random hugs, places their hand on their man’s knee or their arm around their man. Hmmm! more than  sex? Lets Think about this one, in our minds, the only time we are not thinking about sex... is....... during those brief few seconds between our sex thoughts.   

• Secret Glances

Men love attention and like it when you sneak a glance at them. It proves to a man that they are attractive and that you long for them. He likes catching you eye balling him. When You turn and look him in the eye, it's even better than a secret glance, it  will make a man just melt. 

• Funny Gestures

Relationship counseling will reveal that a man loves it when you do certain funny gestures like crinkling your nose when laughing and playing with their hair when you are nervous. These are the attributes that distinguish you from all the other women he has ever met. Let's assume he still has hair to play with, if he doesn't..... then  rubbing his head, this  might also do the trick. 


• Respectful

He will be more accommodating and nice to you when you speak with a soft and low voice. This proves to us men that you consider us  respect worthy and as your main  source of security.

• Sensitive


He adores it when you are reserved, sensitive and shy. But while you are in that mode, you are secretly thinking about ways to surprise him with your... 'I need you to service me'......

• Independence and Emotional Strength

One of the most common relationship advice is that men do not like it when a woman is insecure and lacks confidence. He likes the substance and confidence you display. Self confidence is one of the features that men adore most in a woman. Let's face the facts, men also want to hear  'I have your back'  so if  you are an emotional wreck then he will have doubts that you can accomplish that.

• Improved Looks

Men are attracted to what they see. He cannot resist your beauty. The way you walk, talk, act and dress all factors in your general physical appearance. One thing you will learn in relationship therapy is that he likes it when you surprise him with new looks. change a few things now and then, and surprise him... but don't do the things you know he does not like.. If he like long hair don't cut it all off and expect him to jump for joy. 

• Attractive Body


He adores your attractive body and sharp features. He is proud of dating an attractive woman and likes being the envy of other men. That's right if you have it all together he will be your body guard... because your body is worth guarding. 

• Beauty with Brains

Another piece of relationship advice is that he loves beauty with brains. He considers you to be complete because you are both beautiful and intelligent. Men need support and guidance when making important decisions in life. This is the reason they like you for your intellect and wisdom. Guess what a man's  greatest joy is knowing that a smart woman is in his corner.  A+ woman who can help a man excel is the woman who will not have to worry about him making moves without her... think about the Obama husband and Wife team.