A kind word a gentle touch, compliments that make her feel special. The list can be short or long. A real gentleman knows the lasting effects of these things, and will not shy away from doing them!
Many women have strong reasons to avoid havng sex to early, if they are not sure if they are dating the wrong guy, or even the right guy, who might judge her incorrectly. But if the right guy is doing the right things, then sex becomes "love making" and she will trust herself and her feelings.
Final thoughts
When you (as a man) meet someone and the first thing they asked is what you do for a living?
Although, it sounds like a thoughtful good question but it also shows what their priorities are.
You have to understand most people are concerned more about their future financial security not about you. The red flags is there from the beginning, don’t ignore it
If you make between 55-60K you are GOLD
If you make 80k you are PLATINUM
If you make 6 figures or more you are DIAMOND
Whichever way you fall, you are valuable but
1. You need to define your value and how you want to feel in a relationship. So many of y’all are going through so much in your relationship, you know this ain’t right but seems like you’re stucked
Do not let anyone make you feel less than, your value is not tied to the size of your pocket, that’s what they want you to think so they can take all your value without you noticing
2. Don’t confuse compatibility with chemistry.
Compatibility takes some time to know when with someone and this is why so many people eventually settle for chemistry. Most men settle for chemistry instead of compatibility
3. Stop seeking validation from women, be proud of what you do to earn a living. If you are a tailor, Uber driver, farmer, teacher, barber. Stop looking down on yourself, that’s how they want you to feel when you don’t have a white collar job.
The next time she ask
“What do you do for a living?”
Take a deep breathe and slowly tell her what you do for a living is providing and protecting your loved ones.
For most women, a ambitious man is one who can provide an extravagant lifestyle even if it cost his nostrils
Don’t get it twisted, there are so many people earning good income in white collar jobs but living from paycheck to paycheck not because we don’t have enough but in wanting an extravagant lifestyle beyond our means
You value is largely in how naturally inclined you are in providing, protecting your loved ones, being disciplined and creating a conducive & supportive atmosphere for relationships to thrive.
That’s the most valuable asset majority of women are unable to get from their man.
Keep your head up, stay disciplined and focused, you are more valuable than you thought. And don’t forget to walk pass any woman who say you need to make millions in order for you to be their man
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