No pain, no gain! You can't just let someone else steal your mate.

"OMG! You look so good today, better than yesterday! If don’t mind me saying, you are one beautiful and classy lady. Any man would be proud to have you on his arm for life." This is what happens when men stop complimenting their women. Other guys see what we may take for granted. Being in a long term relationship has a few minor problems. One is that  men and women become mind-game  players. Ask yourselves, do you still think she is beautiful...? So if you do, tell her. This goes both ways: She should also tell her man that he is still everything she fell in Love with. Failing to do this will result in dysfunctional relationships

 

My simple take on this is that men should treat their women like they do their special classic cars. Keep her shining and sparkling... bright, well service and well maintained. If you take care of your car your car will take care of you, the same applies to the woman you chose to be with if you made the right choice...

Okay, maybe a car is a bit of a stretch, to use as an example. You polish and wax your car, wash. it and detail it, by detailing your woman (giving her the attention she needs) you are making sure that she feels the    'Tender Loving care'  you are capable of giving her. President Obama  is a perfect example he never misses an opportunity to compliment the First Lady, in public. I think she is smiling at him because he may have said something  like this: "I'm a lucking man, and I really appreciate you being front and center  in my life and that you do so very  much  for me every day....." Now that is not so hard, is it ...? Try it sometime and don't forget you need to have 'date nights' now and then to take her out for a spin and show her off. This will keep you both remembering the days you were dating and she looked so good and smelled so good..... every time you went out on a date you could not wait to get her back to your place.

You don't need to worship the ground she walks on, to make her feel like you do Love her. Act the same way you did when you were trying to get her to commit to being your woman, the mother of your children, your life's partner.  

 

Ladies, he may no longer look like that dashing guy that caught your attention many years ago, but he needs to feel like you would still pick him over anyone else. It's no secret I'm a little old school, I recall grooving  to this song, back in the day. The word are very strong, "No pain, no gain." So if you put in the work and gained good benefits through your hard work and pain... why would you let someone else benefit from your hard work, by neglecting to do the little things that can keep your relationship solid? I've realized some time ago that was in part what caused my marriage to become a divorce relationship today.  So take it from a guy who knows..... Avoid becoming the guy who will be writing a blog like mine, blogging about the things he wishes he had paid attention to, a few years ago. The little things are major things in every relationship; Positive compliments bring positive responses and may result in a return compliment. Negative comments bring out the worse in someone.... Now you might be thinking what if 'I just don't say anything.’. In this case "silence is not golden" These days 'Uncertainty is the new normal.' So you may be thinking why start doing something that might change things.... then you are making an even bigger mistake. Because she/he will believe you just 'don't care.' Neglect never works well if you want a relationship to last. If you don't  want it to last then just keep doing what you have been doing, this is a proven way to cause  things between couples to  end, neglect her/him and watch her/him smile because someone else is paying her  compliments.

If you let that be the only compliments she hears, You lose! 
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Remember you were not her first choice. so be the best choice.