"It's A Shame You're Still Single!" think about it!

"It's A Shame You're Still Single!"

There is nothing wrong with being single. Case closed. 
It's more of a shame that you are listening to others who think they know what is right for you... they may not even have a clue as to what you are dealing with ... but they assume you should not be "single" 

"Have You Tried Online Dating?"

Some have luck with online dating. Others, not so much. Don't pressure your friend to look in the land of swipe left or right for someone who might or might not be the man of her dreams. Who said there was anything wrong with an old fashioned meeting anyway?
The Idea that what worked for someone else could work for you is B.S.  you were "born an original "... So why would copy another copy  who copied someone else and follow their advise?

"I Can't Wait Until We Can Double-Date!"

Ahh yes, that's the best reason to find a significant other--to go on a double date! You shouldn't encourage your friend to find someone just so that you can expand your couple friend circle. That's just selfish.

When did anyone ever look to have your company to help you without thinking that your company could enhance their World. Only a fool  would ask you to double date with them  if they thought you would attract the best of best for yourself and they will be left with "also-ran...... " 

"It'll Happen Soon!"

Thanks but no thanks to this empty encouragement! Telling someone that something will happen soon is not a good idea. Your single friends know you mean well but unless you have a crystal ball telling you the when, where, who and how "the one" will appear in her life, don't assume happily ever after is right around the corner for her. Instead. just say "I look forward to when your time comes too."

My experience has been that you first have to "FIX" what is dispelling good folks from being  attracted  to you.. before you can receive them, you have to welcoming them based on your Aura!

"I Know The Perfect Guy To Introduce You To!"

Unless your friend asks for an introduction there's no need to put your matchmaking skills to the test! What if they don't hit it off? What if things become so awkward it ruins friendships on both ends? Call yourself Switzerland and remain neutral.

So he is the perfect guy for who... most likely he was not the prefect guy for her or one of her other friends. Well New flash there are no perfect guys for you out there. There are just "imperfect guys" willing to meet you halfway and bring the best that they can offer to combine with your best that you can offer. Two imperfect people can workout way better. 

"A Makeover Might Help Attract The Right Guy!"

Never, ever, ever tell your friend that the reason she's without a man is because she has to dress or look like someone other than herself. You might as well just slap her in the face!
What a Damn shame that an "original" would become a copy to attract, the so called , Mr. Right!  Originals are copied everyday but a copy can never become an Original. there are many copies walking around out there... Why in heavens name would you want to become another "Copy?" 

"Well, Are You Trying Hard Enough?"

Yes. She's trying hard not to kill you for asking her if she's devoting enough time to finding a man. Steer clear of uttering these words -- forever.
Tying to do what others think you should be doing has never had great results! When you are trying hard to find someone you are walking around with a sign on your forehead that reads " desperate!"

"Why Aren't You Dating Anyone Right Now?!"

What if your friend loves being single. What if they aren't looking for anything serious, just a good time? Have you ever asked what they want instead of just why they're not looking for it?

"Right now" is a moment in time....  if you were dating some one at that very moment in time  you would not be talking to her about her perceive thought of why you are not doing what she thinks you should be doing.... If her Moment in time" was occupied with total happiness she would not have time ti be questioning "why you aren't dating Anyone Right now!"

"Maybe If You Hadn't Wasted Your Time With X..."

Everyone has an ex that should never have happened. Bringing up past mistakes isn't helping her stay positive for the future. She might still be healing or have completely moved on but don't pour salt on an old wound because you want her to find love faster.

"X" marked the spot ....."Y" questions why"X" is still referred to as My "X"  and that person has to deal with the fact that they will become  "Y" following "X" and may even become "Z" .