A woman May be Using The silhouette of semi-nudit

 A woman May be Using The silhouette of semi-nudity, to overcome some fears!

The most say it is provocative look a woman can dispayl not nudity! It’s the silhouette of almost-nude!

Her thoughts: “OK I just wanted to test his reaction!”

Never mind how things start out with a new love interest, as a man you will have instinctive fears of wanting to run away from love or become hooked on just falling in love. This is the time to work on your unhealed feelings. When deep feelings come up you would be very wise to seek help from a therapist. When deep issues come floating to the surface, we project our feelings onto our new love interest. If we did not feel safe to express our feelings to that person or a past love partner, all of sudden we cannot get in touch with our true feelings in the presence of our present love interest. At this point, no matter how supportive your new partner might be, when you are with this new person you will not feel safe to share every detail of your fears. 

It’s a paradox: 

because you feel safe enough with your new love interest,  your deepest fears have a chance to surface. When they surface you become afraid and unable to share what you are feeling.

This is when having a counselor ot therapist is tremendously helpful. When you are with someone you are not projecting your fears on, you can process the feelings that are coming up, way better.  If you are only with your new love interest, you may feel numb. This is why people who are in new very loving relationships may inevitably need the help of a therapist, to overcome fears. Sharing in support groups also has this liberating effect. Let me emphasize  by saying this;  women usually have support conversations with their B.F.Fs. Whereas we men keep our issues a secret. When our unresolved feelings are being projected on our intimate partner, he or she is usually powerless to help us. All our partner can do is encourage us to get professional support by understanding how our past continues to affect the ebb and flow of our love emotions. We begin to trust love and its healing process. Which is essential to keeping the magic of love  alive, we must be flexible and adapt to the ongoing changing seasons in our lives. 

   

Will he ask me about my tattoo on my hip? And why did I put it where I have it? 

Final thought A provocative look a woman can display can drive an army of men crazy

We can dream that they are doing this just for use individually, but they may not be thinking about us as  men at all.! During COVID-19 I saw a dude enter a strip club and pickup 2 women  each on his shoulders and carry them off to a safe location. Now I am sue he thought they would be liked but they were not! He thought he would rescue these women from COVID-19 but they were not scared of COVID_19 they were scared of him.