Evaluating a woman that you never want to let Go

 

Evauating the Behaviors of A Woman That You Never Want to Let Go! 

The following  indicate that your woman is the right person for you:

Why am You still single…? I’ve been asked a few times here of late… so I asked who would be a  perfect woman for me… these were some of the responses I received. 

I’m a bit of a cynic.  So just picture me (smirking) on most of these. responses 

She has the following good points: 

 

She “radiates” sweetness

There are tough and strong women out there which can also be sweet at the same time. A woman in love is not afraid of showing how she feels. She will express her love by kissing your cheek or holding your hand without being shy about it.

If she is kind to other people, whether it is your friend, mother or a distant relative, not just you it is also a very good sign.

These types of women are hard to find these days, many good women hide their good nature, and shield themselves…. out of fear of being hurt by men who seldom appreciate them, for who they are naturally. The good women with strong moral character  become self protecting of their feelings, their good hearted-ness makes them vulnerable in this World of predators. After being hurt once or a few times, they may retreat into a harder  cover shell…. Not letting others get too close!  

She makes you smile without much effort

A couple that does not laugh together is not a happy couple. You have probably noticed at least one couple that seems…. too formal and distant.

You should always seek to keep the one who makes you smile and laugh often. Being able to laugh together makes you feel connected more which is something you should take care of.

Contrary to the old saying “Opposites attracts.” The  good natured women is most likely attracted to male who shows her his good heart. It you seem like  a hard, seldom warm  man,mostly cold with little emotions  BAD-boys, she will most likely avoid you like the plague. If you seem unkind, or fake kind, she will not let you get anywhere near her. 

You want to spend more time with her

We assume you have been at least in one relationship where spending time with your partner seemed like a chore. Don’t worry because you are not the only one.

A woman who makes you count the minutes until the next time you see her is the one you should keep close to you. It is always a positive sign if you always look forward to your dates.

Each encounter with someone worthy of being your life should have the possibility of being  remembered and categorized as a special event, 

She gives you compliments

No matter how horrible you think you look in your stained sweaty-shirt with your sweat dripping messy  face, while doing the lawn…. she will still find something she likes about you. Even if you are not making enough money she will compliment your devotion and hard work.

Here is where we men get a bit uncomfortable, unless the woman is in our scope we don’t feel the comfort level with compliments as real coming our way, without having worked for it . Unless she is compliment a man on his good taste in clothing, car, home etc....   Not making enough money is usually a deal breaker. 

She is willing to change her plans for you

The couples that stay together their entire lives are those who are willing to sacrifice for each other. She does not mind coming over even if it is 3 a.m. to make you soup because you have food poisoning. She doesn’t mind driving 1 hour to pick you up because your car broke down. She will also do little things that will show how much she loves you.

Really? Sorry, I have never experience  this one! Her plans are set in granite unless your plans are so fantastic that she just could not resist.But after a minute her plans in her head become better than yours. Even if she is being spoiled by your generous offer!

She doesn’t ask for too much

Having a low maintenance partner is one of the important things you should be thankful for. If you don’t expect her to demand something any time you walk through a mall, she is definitely a keeper.

Women that don’t ask too much from their partner are also more responsible and self-reliant. However, even though she doesn’t ask anything from you it does not mean that you shouldn’t surprise her with gifts from time to time.

Really? Sorry, I have, once again, never experience this one! Too much is a matter of interpretation  men see a request, on sticky note on the fridge,  to take out the garbage as too much trouble to comply with… So don’t expect any man to ever feel like it’s not too much, whatever it is …. If you feel like you have to ask more than once . However , it’s not too much, if he does it without being asked, at all, or just once.  

7.You can trust her

Even though this one is last on the list it is probably the most important. Being honest with your partner is the key to a meaningful and intimate relationship. In case your partner has never made you doubt her faithfulness, then you are very lucky.

You might also never suspect she has hidden motives because she actually does not have any. And if she tells you more than you need to know, she really trusts you, so never let her go.

Really? Sorry, I have yet to experience this one. either I may be  a too cynical but everyone I know have hidden motives… when they are not revealed up front……. they are hidden…….but when they are revealed your mind takes you back to asking ‘when did she start feeling this way?’

Final thoughts.

 

I'm honestly surprised by the majority of the answers  that were given 

The first thing my mother ever taught me about women is: "they function with emotions, they overthink more often than not, even when you don't think it will be (A) she is already considering (B), ©,(D) (E) and (F.)  They  act using with Junction points (what are those, they are connectors) and  are linked to an emotion  with  all sorts of chemicals in the brain associated with bonding, love, reward, and pleasure. When you add to that the fact that what  women want  is intimacy with  options that is dictated by their fantasies, you start to realize that it's impossible to have consistency without triggering a temporary  bonding/rejection response, that can be overridden at a moments notice, scratch that. you will not even see it coming!