Call her beautiful or you might loose her.

 Call her beautiful or you might loose her.

Women of this 21st-22nd century want to be referred to as BEAUTIFUL no matter if they still feel beautiful or not. The feminist movement brainwashed them to believe that  it should be this way.

Now men are in a vice grip if the man does not praise his wife or the woman, that  he used to admires most, by affirming that she is BEAUTIFUL. She may not feel like she is sexy anymore, but she wants you to tell her that she is. A man can’t win in these cases, 

 

“You stopped calling me Beautiful after our first couple of years together! Try and explain why!”

I was once forced to explain why I did not reference to her as beautiful any longer. I blamed it on my father’s example, who only once referred to my mother as beautiful.Well I almost never heard him say things of that nature.Even though many people referred to my mother as beautiful,(in her younger years) my dad only said it after she died. You see my parents were older when I was growing-up my mom was 44 years old when I was born so I did not see them as an romantic couple. That was a problem I thought we men dialed things back when we were older.., during the years.

MY mistake. women want to be adored for the duration of the relationship. Telling women they are the love of your life is what they want to continue hearing, from the man. When men start preferring to admire younger women, it gets complicated, you may love the older woman in your life but you may desire the young tender sweetie you are seeing pass in front of your eyes often.. 

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

So behold!

Final thoughts

We all know our looks change as we get older, however we want to think we remain desirable, to others, though out our history.

Go figure how often do women go get a face lift, a tummy tuck, and lipo when they get a bit older and fatter? They want to hear they still look good, sexy and desirable.

Men may go to the gym to try and keep ourselves looking as young and strong as possible

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You still turn me on,baby you are still very sexy!

But father-time doesn’t always do what you want. I spent years in the gymn when I was in my 50s and early 60s to stay looking somewhat youthful but I still aged a bit even though I was still strong for my age…… A female friend I love dearly told me she was expecting to see me with all grey hair after not seeing me for years, she saw some grey but not as much, because I cut my hair short, I did age but I did not turn completely grey yet .she on the other hand got fatter and her face had aged a bit. So neither of us saw we where we expected.