She is selfish and does not want to share her stuff with you!

Why did I not see you for who you were  from the beginning?

Many men wonder what happened to the mindset of a women who said their vows and then a few years later demands a divorce, as their values change. 

1. First the vows are not a contract. They are just words to the ears of the other person. 

2. If a woman want out of the marriage because of financials reasons then you know she had an agenda to take what you have, and deny you the opportunity to take anything she has. 

3. Many men who have some wealth will try to protect it from the women who they choose to share their lives with. The woman will only get what he will allow her to get if they spit, and nothing more. 

4. A contract written before the marriage is always a good idea if you (the man) have doubts that the relationship  will not last. Most often it is driven by insecurities and lack of trust that the woman is sincere. 

5. The behavior of these spouses are often selfish, self serving. The behavior of some is based on “what’s in it for me,” I want more than my share, if you let me.. get access  I will take all and leave you out in the cold, if you are careful. 

6. Until death do us part, does not always mean physical death of one of you  in many cases it often means until the death of the relationship do us part. Which can happen at any point in time.

7. If a woman loves you unconditionally she will do all that she can to make things work, if she does not, she will dump you like you are yesterdays garbage, when she has had enough. 

8. She will stop caring about you, unless she can’t really make it on her own then she will tell herself that she is the first wife and therefore act like she is entitled to all that you leave behind to make sure she will have, more than the second or/and third  wife. 

9. Men who don’t really understand how a woman was raised will struggle to understand her, and the cultural influences that are her road map. Example if she was raised to get all that she can get Aout of you, that is what will motivate her to stick around until most of her needs are satisfied. 

10. Be aware of the women who want to know about all that you have and all that they can get. They will fight to gain access to what you have. 

Her hand is on the man’s pocket while her focus is on the camera lense!

 This is her mindset on getting what she thinks is now hers!

Final thoughts

The term gold diggers is often used as they refer to women. Why? Because these women do not dig for Gold, they wait until Gold has been discovered and dug up. They want the end product. The Shiny and polished Treasures, not in its raw form all cover with dirt needing to be processed and made beautiful. She wants to show off her shiny discoveries, that is now community property.

You men need to realize how cultures played an important role in how women acted in the beginning and how they acted in the end. If you get hooked by some of these types. The woman who has had 3 marriages, and was the woman that went after the men that were husbands to  women who were perceived to have the golden rings and want to be the trophy women that took the men away from the wives who had what she wanted.

   

You got it right, dude, I’m now the queen Bee in your world.

Women who now are single will want new entanglement that will satisfy the other needs they have. 

Do not be fooled men have been doing for centuries. Leaving women in their age groups for much younger and sexier women. So women have seen this progression want to have the benefits with men who can satisfy their needs. The may refer it as an entanglement. So that it does not seem to outrageous, to their friends and families.

After she dumps the man who gave her  everything…. she will most likely want an entanglement with a younger man.

Final thoughts

A Wise older man once told me: watch out because everything you believe that you saw happen to others may happen to you.