Love is a learning experience

 For some of us ¨Love is a learning process¨, it feels like a love Ballard to some of us, to other it may feel like a power trip.

Just be my Lady,I do understand what you want.

                                  I want you to do more than understand,I need you to commit to us.

Lets try to understand that Love feels different to all couples.Dont assume that what you and your partner are experiencing is the same that every couple is living wirh.

 

 To some folks it start and ends with them

Hey, Why are you not home yet? I have been waiting to suprise you! 

 If you are in a relationship or even a marriage, demanding your man to spend time with you will not make him do so.  A man musr willingly spends time with you because you give him peace and he enjoys your company. Attract him the same way you peacefully and warmly attracted him when he was thinking about pursuing you.

There is no power in the  Silent treatment, it will not solve anything. If your man hurts you, learn to speak about your hurt and teach him to love you better. The best couples have mastered the art of conflict resolution

I have been waiting all day for you to get here

A man who is  very  serious about you will not avoid accountability, will operate outside a grey areas and will nor hide his  feelings for you. You will always go very far with him. Serious men like being kept accountable, they take pride in what they commit to and are not afraid of responsibilities.

If you do know yourself and you get married to a man who does not  know himself, he will frustrate you, and you will frustrate him. Be very careful in him being lost he doesn't make you lose yourself. When marriage are heavy on the woman and the man.

There are good men in this world, just like there are good women in this world. You will not encounter those good men if you keep entertaining the wrong ones and frequenting where the wrong ones dwell. 

During dating, if you want to see the caliber of man you are getting to know,try to understand that previous experiences do not always prepare you for the next experience not all men or women are created equal.

 

eRelationships/marriages don't always end in a struggle because of the man, sometimes you women  are the problem. Learn to be honest and objective to see when you are wrong. If you two work together, your love will grow stronger.

  A secure man will findand recognise  everything that is good about you; from your successes, your career, your beauty, your personality, your education and he will not blame you for his own issues of him failings.

 Disagreements or even a bad day in your relationship or marriage doesn't mean it is breaking apart. stay calm. Don't panic, il can blow over and the clouds will go away.

I wish he would see me as a model. 

 No matter how much your husband loves your beauty,, he might not see your dreams or even support you the way you expect him to. You have to learn to defend and nurture your dreams even if he doesn't get it. Complaining and nagging will never give you the desired results, it will only push your man away from you and make him stop tolerating you instead of enjoy you. If you want to inspire him to do more for and with you, appreciate him, have pleasant conversations with him, be easy to talk with.

Don't be hard on yourself, or be mad at him, if it not going your way . Recognize that it is not always easy to  understand  that you have come very far, .and the journey is not over.