How deficult is it to Love someone for a long time who gave you an STD the first time you had sex with them

 

Getting an STD from the very first time you had sex with someone is a relationship killer(for most) from the start for some people.

You might think that you are beginning a relationship with a new person in your life, however the reminder of that first time together lingers and lingers for years maybe even decades.

Think about it this way, you might forgive but you might never forget.

Why don't you tell me what is bothering you

The new person of interesting may be an amazing wonderful person/lover, until they call you, 

the next day and they tell your that you need to go and see a doctor and get yourself checked for an STD,  or COVID-19 or worst of all HIV AIDS.

.Pump the brakes this is major bad news.

You surely did not expect  to receive this kind of bad news.

Experience like this is the worst teacher in the beginning of mistrust of soemone.

In an Era where people are learning new things about someone new in their lives, this kind of thing is definitely a big whopper!

        We need to get to know each other on a higher level, before we have sex.Should the mode of beginning an affair!

Final thoughts.

Most folks are sometimes careful, but if the encounter,of a new nice looking person  is new and exciting

For many people they may throw caution  to the wind. And never remember to ask the tough and touchy questions.