she is an overthinker so come correct.

Sorry, I don’t have  time for  your B.S.

The men who get into a relationship with women who are overthinkers better be ready to come direct and correct. 

Here is why…. Women who are overthinkers do serious Analysis considering more than just a few scenarios.

Guys, You have to be extremely direct and forthcoming with over-thinkers, here is why, their minds think of too many different scenarios and they start analyzing each of them, one after the other,

I’m not over thinking this, you should have given 

it more thought before talking to me about it.

Behind every great relationship are difficult and uncomfortable conversations we rarely get to see. Great relationships don’t just fall into our laps.They require people to move through their fears and insecurities and do the hard work to move wounds into healing. ~Vienna Pharson

Deep conversations with the right person are priceless. So having a conversation with an overthinker can be very cost effective. You will get an in depth analysis on the subject matter. A worthwhile investment in time. 

If you don’t have patience to deal with an overthinker then just bail before you even get started.

You can’t convince her to come along just to get along.

Final thoughts 

Women are often better communicators than men. Women just practice more therefore making them better at it. If a man is not a good listener then he better not start a conversation with an overthinker. Here again is the problem, you don’t get to look and see an overthinker, because she is not presenting that label on her forehead. A man’s best bet is to study her interactions with friends, from a distance, before approaching her because she is almost never very transparent, her thoughts are her weapon that she will use against you if she has the option.

Assuming what we see is the truth.

What we see in our World is a mirror of what we have in our minds. ~ unknown

“nice, hot and sexy,”

Let’s picture for one minute that what we are seeing is not what it really is. Men and women see things differently, Without a doubt men are visual, we see, we like we chase,period. While women see what they like, and then hope they will attract what they have just configured in their minds. 

-A man will see a woman and thinks “nice, hot, very sexy,” and he goes after her with a hunter’s mindset, maybe he has  a chance with her but he has little or no idea if she will accept his advances or reject him.

- A woman will see a man and think” tall, well built, looks daching” and she sets her attraction vibes in motion. She is not sure if he will be attracted to her or not. 

“I guess that 'come get me' vibe worked”

That assumption is what makes women seem like they want to be chased and hunted.

The laws of nature are so complicated.

The mirror of what both gender see is so different, because our minds are different.

As we try to figureout what is the best approach is to meet eachother in the middle, we have to first understand what it is that makes connect and why making the wrong moves can be fatal to a potential connection. A jokercard  has no counter part.He may connect for short period of time but will not last, because the Queen want a King…. And do not want to waste time with a joker. King wants a King and does not want wast time chasing an illusion.  

The RTL(Ready To Love) series on Youtube  

actually mades  a complicated situation, seem like it is so very easy.

Final thoughts

Hallucinations are sensations that appear to be real but are created within the mind. Examples include seeing things that are not there, hearing voices or other sounds, experiencing body sensations like crawling feelings on the skin, or smelling odors that are not there.

 

    

I hate the term Ride or die!

"I'm your ride or die , boo"

Is there "really" a blessing in every lesson?
People each want to have power. Men and women. If a man chooses a woman, he is telling her you are "the one" however in the 21st century women want to also choose who they want, Are you RTL Ready To Love, If you are not ready to receive Love then just being chosen, has no value. You are energy (Vibe) so how you are shaking is what will attract the right energy. Women read men and men chase based on looks. Being on the market for a long time makes it even harder, for some women.

where has she been  all of my life.

He has the greatest looking package

                                  

But when you bring the right energy to the mix you can have what others have with someone you  chose, women are not going to wait for you forever. Warning  women tag situations as "red flags"  Let's face it times have changed and when you hesitate  you might lose just because she "assumes" you  can't make up your mind you don't know what you want.  When you got it together you might see how receptive  she might be. Her body language is telling you she is a RTL woman. If you are sceptical then talk to her in real live situations leave the drama on the back burner. She will not tell you "her life history" until she ready to share with you. Men want to know, so men, don't ask unless you are ready to listen without judging.  If you work on your question... ask yourself how would you react to the question if it was asked of you.

We came together after a process, of give and take

Women keep "tabs", Fellows, if you say things that women can go back and check out what you text, she, can read it again. voice msgs will come across with  tone and voice inflections etc.  emotions that she can hear  and there will be thought that you might even be ware of because of her history. We men find ourselves ad a disadvantage because "times have changed" women are not "Naive", men need to learn how to understand what women may have experienced in their past will come into play in present time encounters. some are "Orange or yellow flags," if you don't recoginze her discomfort  they will become "red flags" overnight and you will not understand what happened or why! 

Damn I can't blame it on autocorrect. She is right...

Final thought 

women are far better communicators than men will ever become. Women may not like a guy that speaks  and say too much. Men may want to be a mystery. someone who needs some over the counter medication, does not need ICU treatment.... women can't automatically read all your vitals. If she does not know  you  she needs to understand what you are about, instantly, try to meet each other half way.  When you both chose each other you can have harmony.  You  to understand each other. Everyone will think what they think, but getting the other person to understand what you are about without communication...... you will not understand each other. Emotional intelligence is key!

Is it really a broken heart or a bruised ego?

women are players , now! Like dudes were/are.

Are  you feeling  hurt  as a dude or  you have just been  getting  played?
OK women can play games as good as men can. But men can't handle being played!


Would you like to become the man that every beautiful woman is dying to have?

Would you like to have women chase you for sex, love and commitment?Would you like to become the man that women secretly have fantasies about?Sounds impossible? 
Instead, I went out consistently to meet as many attractive women as I could!
A female player has no problem asking for what she wants. She may take a smooth indirect approach or a very direct one. Either way she will get the point across and you will have to decide if you are willing to give her what she wants. If you choose not to she is likely to get very upset with you. This may be done in a loud and harsh manner or she may use the silent but still strong approach. She will have you feeling that giving in to her demands is the only way you can expect to keep her around. She may not even be your girlfriend yet but she knows how to play on your desires to get her and she will use all of this to her advantage.
When a woman genuinely embraces having a relationship she is willing for an emotional attachment to occur. When she decides she is going to be a female player she already perceives emotional attachment as her enemy and wants no part of it. That’s why an emotionally detached woman who is dating may be a red flag. She dates to get the benefits she is looking for but she isn’t interested in the emotional risks that come with truly trying to be with anybody right now. She also understands it is easier to maintain this position dealing with multiple men vs. dealing with just one man consistently. She is the woman capable of having sex with you and not requiring any “cuddle time” afterward. Essentially some may view her as “like a guy” when it comes to her approach to relationships and sex.
~STEPHAN LABOSSIERE.

My skills got better, and during my journey I was honored to meet some the most talented and realest players in the game. I learned everything about female attraction from watching and speaking to these powerful women.

From that time forward, 

When a woman is a female player she is not with you for your benefit. She entertains you for her benefit and at her convenience. If she gave you more than she received then that would defeat the whole purpose of keeping you around. So her goal is to milk you for whatever she deems appropriate. Now a really smart female player may still do things for you here and there but don’t be fooled. She might buy you lunch but you will be buying her groceries.  She might get you something nice for your car but she may have you paying her car note. One way or another she is going to make sure she is getting the much better end of the deal.

I hope this helps some of the men wondering what to look for when trying to avoid the female player. Don’t be so quick to let her beauty blind you and be willing to take a deep look at who she really is as a woman. If any of these signs come up always be willing to properly address them and talk to her about it. Sometimes it may not be that she is trying to play you but you will get a clearer picture after you properly express your concerns. If you do happen to fall victim to one don’t hold on to bitterness and negativity. Just because one woman hurt you doesn’t mean you have to turn around and take it out on every other woman after her. Stuff happens and you just have to learn from it, grow, and focus on being the best man you can be.
When women refer to receipts these days they are not talking about shopping receipts. They are talking about facetime and texting communications, they had with you, fellahs. Watch what you say and text. It will be used against you! Your "Miranda rights" do not apply here. You have the right to remain silent, because anything you say or imply will be used against YOU.


Final thought

So what is the difference? Are women establishing the upper hand now?

damn dude, I'm late

Why do these simple words spoken, by a woman, strike the fear of God in a man 

"Dude, damn I'm late?" 

Laws governing abortion continue to be debated in many parts of the world. 

Argentina’s Senate on Thursday narrowly rejected a closely watched bill to legalize abortion. Voters in Ireland this spring struck down a 35-year-old constitutional ban on abortion, one of the strictest in Europe. In Poland, politicians are making a renewed push to restrict abortion.

And in the United States, the departure of Justice Anthony Kennedy and President Trump’s selection to succeed him is expected to redraw the well-established legal battle lines over abortion rights.

Behind the roiling public debates are deeply personal experiences: an unintended pregnancy, rape, family influence, a medical crisis, feelings of loss.

Even in places where the practice is legal, abortion can still be hard to talk about. When we invited readers to share their own stories earlier this year, more than 1,300 responded from over 30 countries, showing the vast range of reasons, means and outcomes for abortion.

So will this become permanent?

Final thoughts

I've personally never had a discussion with a female partner about having to have an abortion. I'm one of those guys who believe women have the right to decide what to do with their bodies. So prevention was always first discussed before we engaged in sex. If she was not going to protect herself, using the pill or some kind of contraception, then I would haven to take the lead... I never wanted to have the discussion of  her needing to take "the morning after pill"

If we just act like mature adults then we need not try to "Unring" that bell about "the morning after pill" Levonorgestrel is a hormone that can be used for emergency contraception. Emergency contraception should not be used as a routine method of birth control.

Levonorgestrel can prevent pregnancy after unprotected sex. People sometimes call it the "morning after pill." But you don't have to wait until the morning after sex to take it. In fact, levonorgestrel is more effective the sooner you take it. It is a one-dose regimen: you take one pill. The pill contains 1.5 milligrams of levonorgestrel, which is used in lower doses in many birth control pills.

Aren't you glad we no longer have to worry about getting pregnant,
and using contraception ?

Living Vicariously through others is just total crap.

Do the people who live on this Island really love it 52 weeks out of the year?

Social Media is causing folks to want what they just can not have, when they want it!

When we grow up we need to learn that we can’t have all the things we see and think we want.  Men and women are losing their minds over what others have and what others are doing. Social media was  designed to share things. But it has become a maximum force to make others jealous. If you go somewhere exotic you use to have a photo album, where you could show those who visit you, at your home,  that you had a good time. But now your Instagram, Facebook, even Youtube it to make others who may not even know you, jealous, your friends get these pics in their stream and they don’t have to even do anything for their friends to start tripping. Hell what are we doing? The next generations will not even be able to see what is real and what is fiction. Men see women as dream objects, and women see many man as the guy who could have given them what they wanted if they wanted to be with him. SMDH. Jealousy is poison!

They look like they got it going on! 
I can't believe she is posting these picture for everyone to see. 

When a man'as ex shows pics of another guy on social media, with her.  

The Jealousy meter registers  off the scale like crazy. It's not fun. 

A couple on vacation may have serious issues,
not even happy anymore!

Could it be too much information..... if we read their post and we get all up into their business, just because Social Media has given us so much access to other people's lives… they might be discussing a divorce and we will think they are happy together.   What seems to be the case may not be what is factual, because months later we find out that they have split up. They may even run off with other people?

I have a little too much going on in my life to speak of for myself, so the most excitement that I get is not talking or reading over what could be have been happening with complete strangers.Some things are Sad? For sure. But it is not always been the case what we see is not always what we get. I looked like they were having fun and it’s just a distraction I may need before I jump headfirst into the long day of word that is ahead of me. 

Never mind the smiles and the look of excitement on their faces. They might just be acting like that for the photo opportunities. One never knows!

I'm having the best time!

I'll make my move when I'm sure the coast is clear

When you see these post you may read something that might cause you to have some interest to go and visit. 

After time spent relaxing on the sand, you”ll want to discover what else the Island has to offer. Beyond the beach there are  paths, fringes by indigenous wild flowers, that lead the way to areas where snorkeling is possible. 

So where are they visiting in Africa? There are many countries none are exactly the same. 

Some don’t even have giraffes.

So what is the difference between dating and target practice.

From a man’s point of view. 

Women who are subjected to “target practice” may not even be aware of the reality in which category they fall in as men are in hot pursued. Please allow we to explain. Having seen this over and over for years. We men see women in categories. Having lived in diverse communities, where guys pursue women based on what's in their minds as the category, for example, 

A hot Latina female, a very sexy White woman , a Black Goddess, even a Indian queen.  She is not in the category for target practice if she is seen as a Goddess, or a queen. However if she had reputation of having had sex with multiple men in her past. Then she is most likely a subject for target practice. A man will see her and think only about having sex with her for his pleasure, he might change his mind and change her classification, in his mind, but the label as a connection link to her past will continue to swirl around in his head. Men do not see a queen or a Goddess in that way. We want to date her in pursued of marriage or at least long term dating her with the end result in mind being a forever after. Men do make exceptions but generally men do not change their internal classification of women permanently. Take for instant a man who got together with a woman and she gave him and STD, he knows she did not get it  from just sitting on a toilet seat. He might get treated and forgive her, but him trusting her based on that experience will always negatively linger, in the recesses of his mind.

Final thought

When men have had locker room conversations about a female, and suddenly someone points out that she had a for example  consensual sex with multiple guys (a gang bang) at the same time, that whole picture of her with multiple guys will never go away from the recesses of the men's  minds. Men think about the many ways she and he had sex and what she enjoyed most that it was based on her previous experience with multiple guys at the same time. He will not be able to get those images out of his head. We can thank Porno stars for having created those images, and now men are projecting them onto the women wants to chase. Having a woman of a culture that projects Latina Hotness, of dance hall sexyness is a classification that will linger long term. Remember that ladies when you are projecting yourselves as this or that, and whatever the latest fantasy classification comes into play on social media.