You are a very good man, but you are not the right man for me.

If love is blind how   can it be at first sight,
and how can we trust what we
don't see?

It is natural to have disagreements and even arguments in a

relationship, but there is no reason to make things personal,

become insulting and never, ever to become abusive.

A good man will remain calm and focus on the topic at hand.

Women often have a dream guy in their heads

(floating on a cloud)

and they want to hold out until he magically show up.

Fairytales have screwed women up big times....

the following point are just some of women's requirements

these days. These May Seem Like Small Things

That Are Actually Big , Things To Her

When it comes to dating and new relationships,

women often find themselves

wondering how certain people end up with others.

Wondering why they don’t

walk away if they don’t get what they deserve and hoping that

they truly appreciate their teammate if they are getting what

they deserve. I think a big part of the problem blurring this line is

that many people aren’t even quite sure what a healthy

relationship looks like these days or how a “good man”

(or woman) should act towards their partner. To help clarify,

I have put together this list of how a good man should

act while in a relationship, based women's definitions.

A good man never lets you forget how much he loves you.

I cannot tell you how many conversations I have had with women

who tell me that there is no affection, to not much in their relationship.

The man in their life does not make them feel loved, wanted or

appreciated. This is a profoundly important piece of the puzzle —

a good man will always remind you how much you mean to him.

If someone truly loves you, you will know it and feel it. If they don’t,

you’ll be wondering all the time if they do. Let me explain what

these women are missing, many men were raised in single parent

households and did not see much affection between their

parents, or their mother's partners, that were in their live for short

periods of time so they have no clue how to be what women want.

2. A good man always supports you.

Regardless of whether you want to go back to school after 20 years to

get your Master’s degree, start a singing career or stay at home to raise

a family, a good man will always support you and what you want out of

your life. He will never discourage you or make you feel as though you can’t

do what you set out to do. He will be beside you every step of the way,

cheering on your victories and comforting you during your defeats.

Many guys have trust issues, based how the grew up.

Trusting a woman to finish her education on his dime might be a stretch..

A good man will inspire you.

This goes one step beyond supporting you, which can be more passive.

To inspire someone takes effort both in how one lives their own life and how

they encourage others to live theirs. A good man’s drive and ambition will rub

off on you as he pursues his own passions.

Let's not assume the impossible, for most guys supporting a woman that is not

family is foreign to them.

4. A good man will work to gain your trust.

A good man will want you to be comfortable and confident in your relationship.

The very cornerstone of this is being able to trust someone, and he will realize

that. Without trust, there is no foundation for love or respect. He will understand

that trust is not just handed over to someone — it has to be earned, and then it

has to be kept.

How is he going to get a woman to trust him if he can't be trusted anyone, if he was

ever hurt by someone he will not know how that emotion feels. Furthermore he sees

trusting anyone is a weakness.

5. A good man will always make you feel beautiful.

He will understand that making you feel beautiful does not just mean saying

the words to you. It will mean truly making you feel beautiful. In the way he

looks at you, touches you and treats you. He will notice details when you put

effort into your appearance and remind you how attractive he still finds you,

even when you don’t. A good man will understand that whether you

are in your sweatpants on the couch or in your evening gown heading

to a gala, when you love someone for who they truly are, everything

about them becomes beautiful.

This is slippery slope, because lying to women has become easy,

but being sincere about complimenting a woman about her beauty makes a man

vulnerable. He will not let her see him as vulnerable, very often.

6. A good man will make you feel safe.

I have always said that I believe one of the best compliments a

woman can give her partner is telling him that she feels safe around him.

Regardless of how attracted she is to you or how funny she thinks you

are or how much money you have, if a woman cannot sleep soundly

by your side at night, none of it matters.

He might think of her safety as someone else responsibility.

so don't expect too much.

7. A good man does the little things.

Do you need a prescription filled, but have to stay late at work?

Did you mention an art exhibit coming to town and he made plans

to take you to see it?

Regardless of how small certain things seem, he will

understand they are really the big things that matter most.

The little thing might be way more than he is will to do, so do not expect

what he has not told you he would do.

Conclusion:

The small things you do to and for  a woman are the ones that mean

 the most. Why? Because those are the things that show her you’re willing 

to put effort in for her, just because. No holiday or special occasion

 needed.

A good boyfriend or husband knows that any man who waits until Valentine’s

 day to romance the woman in his life is missing the point 364 days out 

of the year. He also understands that while grand romantic gestures are 

great, the thought put into everyday activities is even better.

Why do women now considering what their mothers never would

Girl let's advertise the Assets.

Over the past decades, anal sex—or at least, talking about anal sex—has become significantly less taboo, perhaps because "butts" have taken on an entirely new status (thanks, mainly to social media!)...or because society has become more sex-positive overall (Wow!). But still, actually having anal sex remains ~controversial~ among women, no matter how often it's discussed.

We can do it once, if you don't like it
we don't ever have to do it again!

"Unfortunately, there is still a tendency to stigmatize acts that might be considered 'non-traditional' for some people, due to lack of information," explains Alexis Clarke, PhD, a licensed psychologist who specializes in sex and relationships. But the thing is, anal sex can oftentimes become the preferred method for women who don't have vaginas, for those for whom vaginal penetration is especially painful, and for women who simply experience more pleasure that way, Clarke explains.

For some women, it's is the cherry on top of a sexual sundae: a little extra treat that elevates something that was already delicious on its own (talking about sex here). But for others, butt sex is more like pâté: intriguing, worth a try, but absolutely not up their alleys (as in, a penis will probably not be going up that alley ever again).

If you've yet to add anal to the menu but are curious to taste test it, there are some things you should know first:

1. Try anal training. If you're worried about tearing or pain, you can work your way up to full-blown anal by starting with a butt plug, anal beads, or fingers. "If you're comfortable with any of these things in your anus for about 15 to 20 minutes, there's a good chance you're at a point where you can successfully insert a penis" or a dildo, explains Shawntres Parks, a licensed marriage and family therapist in San Diego. The biggest challenge, she says, is getting the sphincter to relax enough for something to penetrate it. Don't stress, it's not unusual for it to take a few tries. But when you feel your sphincter relax whether it's a toy, finger, or penis coming through, you'll know you're ready.
2. Lube, lube, lube. To make things way more comfortable, remember that lube (and lots of it) is your best friend. "The anus is not self-lubricating in the same way that the vagina is," says Parks. So it'll need a little extra help from a store-bought friend to make the experience smoother. Parks recommends water-based lubes since anything petroleum- or oil-based will break down the materials in your condom (if you're wearing one) or a silicon strap-on.
3. Prep the pipes. Anal douching is always available to you, but your best bet is just going poop before the act. If you're having trouble, Parks says to try an herbal supplement or tea such as Smooth Move that goes easy on the stomach. "If you try it the night before, by the time you wake up in the morning you'll probably have a bowel movement" and again later that night, says Parks.
4. Talk it out. Be sure to communicate with your partner about how you're feeling when it comes to anal. If something doesn't feel right: stop! Even after the act, Parks says the conversations should continue. Check in afterward and ask your partner what they thought of the experience, how it made them feel, and what they might like to do differently next time.
5. Cleanliness is key. If you're planning to transition from anal to vaginal sex, be sure to thoroughly clean yourself in between, especially if you're not using a condom you can change, says Parks. "There's a big increased risk of STIs when you're transitioning from anal sex to vaginal sex because of that transfer of fecal bacteria into the vagina." When shopping for body-friendly wipes, Parks says to "look for things that don't have harsh chemicals" and try them out for a few days. If you find you're able to use them on a day-to-day basis without irritation, then they're probably a good bet for a post-anal wipe down.
6. 
   

   

   I want to feel really clean before I try it

   
   
7. Hop in the shower after. In addition to wiping yourself down, you and your partner should take a shower to clear yourselves of any bacteria. "The challenge sometimes with showering happens when couples are trying to build up arousal," says Parks. The time spent in the shower might kill the mood for a round two of vaginal or oral sex. She recommends showering with your partner to keep the sexy time going during the transition. It'll get you both clean and ~prepped~ for the second act.
8. Clean the place up. It's not just your bodies you should clean post-butt sex. Make sure you immediately get rid of condoms and throw any towels or sheets that may have gotten a bit messy in the laundry. You don't have to go overboard with buckets of bleach or anything, says Parks. Just be sure to pay special attention to anything that might have fecal bacteria on it and get it in the trash or washer ASAP. Otherwise, "general practices for keeping your space clean are enough," she says.

9. 

   taking an outdoor shower will make a woman feel free mentally

   
   
   
10. Conclusion.

Before your first go and do it, you'll also  might want to peep  stories from women who have dabbled in butt sex and lived to tell the tale. 

Young folks may never have heard about "Da Butt"

 

So why are beards so special NOW

 

When I saw a post. It got me thinking about my two sons, and me and my father. My dad never grew a beard or a moustache. Because my mother did not like the look. My mom and Dad RIP believeA man with a beard comes with baggage. He’ll be accused of harboring bacteria and grossing out women." I've had a moustache for decades, but I grew it when I started dating an older girlfriend  because I looked so very young , I'm not sure who liked it or not because none of my EX(s) comment on it much. But both of my sons have full grown facial hair. their ladies seem to like their looks. Indeed, the popularity of beards has held steady because they make men look sexy and stylish, They garner a ton of compliments and are appealing to potential partners. In a 2016 a study published in the Journal of Evolutionary Biology, Dixson discovered that women find men with facial hair more attractive than those without.

The real reason men grow beards.

You might think all the facial hair you’re seeing on the street is a way of attracting a mate. It might not be so simple.

What is the point of a beard, evolutionarily speaking? Children, women, and a whole bunch of men manage just fine without one. But take a walk down some streets these days and you’ll be confronted with all sizes and shapes of groomed (and less groomed) facial hair – from designer stubble to waxed moustaches and hipster beards.

When we see men paying attention to their appearance, it’s easy to assume that they’re just angling for partners. But  research on beards and voices shows that beards probably evolved at least partly to help men boost their standing among other men.

Compared to males and females of many other primates, men and women on average look very different from each other – partly thanks to men’s facial hair. And when we see differences between males and females, the explanation often boils down to evolution through sexual selection – the process that favors traits that boost mating opportunities. But interestingly, women don’t seem that interested in beards. While some studies have found that women like a bit or even a lot of facial hair on men, other studies have reported that they prefer the clean-shaven look. The lack of consistent evidence means we can’t conclude that beards evolved because women were  more attracted to them.

So Are beards going out of style 2021?

Beards are still absolutely in style in 2021. However, it is not as plentiful as you may have seen in the past few years. ... When men keep their beard neat, they make other guys look like wild animals. Shave daily, clean and trim, and keep your beard in shape, because beards aren't going anywhere.

Beards Probably Don’t Have Poop In Them (But They’re Still Dirty)

First, gross. But past reports that beards were laced with fecal matter were based on a single, solitary local news report, not rigorous scientific study. Although a spokesperson from Quest Diagnostics lab in Albuquerque did tell a reporter that a few bearded volunteers had trace amounts of fecal matter in their beards (how? HOW?), these observations were not a part of any national trend. In other words, just because a couple of guys in New Mexico have poop in their beards doesn’t mean you do. But more recent research has found that beards have more bacteria than dogs do, so having a beard may warrant some extra time in the shower or an extra wipe.

Beards May Protect Men From Skin Cancer

Beards can protect men from exposure to about 90 percent of harmful ultraviolet rays, according to research from the University of Queensland in Australia. As a result, bearded guys may be less prone to skin cancer, at least on a very specific patch of their face and neck.

Are there Any Good Reasons Why Women Go Commando.

 

We Men may wonder why, but we are happy when women go commando

The following reasons women go commando  might surprise you. 

1. BETTER WORKOUTS

Many women choose to workout without underwear as a way to keep things breathable down there. Some wome  have active lifestyle, this concept has literally never crossed my mind. In fact, I have always thought the opposite in that wearing underwear will keep her lady parts comfortable, breathable and protected.

Aside from my own opinion on the matter, it is a very common thought process to ditch the underwear during a workout.

some women prefer to go commando during running, elliptical, spinning, kickboxing, etc., which affords less chafing, less visible lines in tighter workout clothes, and gives a sense of more mobility and flexibility."

2. VPL

“I love a visible panty line” said no woman ever. In fact, despising a VPL is a common rumination among circles of women. In all honesty, panty lines are a thing, no matter how much women don’t want them. Not every woman is interested in solving the issue by wearing thongs, I guess it’s hard to find a fabric that is full coverage and truly line-less.

The next best option, as some would think, is to ditch the panty entirely. Especially when wearing a figure fitting pair of pants. But to be honest, it’s not only in tight clothing where you can see the dreaded VPL. You can also see those lines in that loosely fitting satin slip dress you bought a few months ago, too.

The effort to diminish the VPL this is the number one reason that women go commando and I get it. No lines are better than panty lines. Plus men stare at the lines and pictrure what's under her clothing.

3. GOOD FOR TRAVEL

Less underwear means more room for packing while traveling. When she is using  carry-on bag is literally stuffed to capacity and women realize they can save a little bit  more  space for your shoes by taking out the couple pairs of underwear for your trip, their priorities are definitely put to the test.

Am I insinuating that shoes > underwear? Possibly!

But space-saving is a real reason that is just a minor detail from the perspective of the female traveler. Benefits to saving on space means more room for the things that will make you happy while away from home.

Additionally, the commando concept while traveling results in less laundry while mid-travel or even worse, upon returning home from days or even weeks away from a washing machine.

4. MINIMALIST LIFESTYLE

Going commando as a minimalist produces two benefits:

Cost-savings

Stuff-savings

 

By staying within a minimalist budget, some folks choose to save a few bucks and opt out of wearing underwear entirely. Lessening consumption is a golden rule for most minimalists, and why spend money on underwear when your goal is to pursue a life of less stuff while still saving money.

For some people, underwear is not that much of a  priority, and for a minimalist especially, it’s just more stuff. While navigating the world embracing a minimalist lifestyle, one has a lightness about themselves that creates happiness. A comfortable space is a safe space, even if that means living a life sans underwear and for women going commando.

5. FOR YOUR S.O.

Another popular reason for women going commando is to add some excitement to their relationship with Someone Special. It’s a fun, flirty and exciting moment when you’re on a date with your SO and you lean over to whisper that you’re not wearing any underwear, hmmm. A bold move that might end up being a decision that leaves you feeling a bit breezy down there, but it’s also one that will lead to an evening of intrigue.

 I suddenly got a flash back, about the Bomarang  Movie when                                                                 Eartha Kit told Eddie Murphy, "I'm not wearing any Panties !"

Here are  some Reasons Women Should Not Go Commando.

 

1. SKIN IRRITATION

You can expect a range of skin irritations and even some skin damage when opting to go commando. Without that protective layer between you and your pants, there are some things you’d be putting at risk that you might want to think wisely about before opting for no panties.

Skin chafing is one of them. It’s the annoying and unfortunately painful result of skin rubbing against your clothing causing rashiness and discomfort. Who wants that? This can leave your skin vulnerable to infection, and that is not a pleasant side effect of the commando lifestyle.

As if that was the worst of the skin irritation issues! Going commando can also lead to friction blisters. I’ve experienced these on my feet after wearing not-the-best-fitting shoes for a night out. Hands down, I do not want to feel that as a result of the chafing after going commando.

After all is said and done, and chafing leads to blisters, next you will find yourself with possible damage to the blood vessels. It is here during this phase where you will find blood inside of the friction blister.

2. YOUR CLOTHING WILL GET STAINED

When rocking the commando vibe, an inevitable mess of stains will end up on your clothing due to vaginal discharge. Although a completely normal part of being a woman, your clothing should not have to be compromised when lacking the proper protection between your vulva and your undies.

Stains are especially challenging when wearing light colored clothing because they will become more apparent and harder to wash out over time. Especially if you have been sitting in your pants while panty-less and building up a myriad of female discharges.

Simply put, if you want to properly maintain your stain-less clothing for some years to come, its smart to treat your garments right and opt for moisture absorbing underwear as a protective barrier between you and your clothes.

3. VAGINAL FISSURES

When there is a constant, irritating motion of clothing on your skin, painful micro-cuts can develop in the labial or vaginal areas, called Vaginal Fissures. If you are one of the many women going commando while working out, walking to work, or anything in between, you could be causing some serious damage to a very sensitive and sacred part of your body.

These micro-abrasions are painful splits, cracks and breaks in the delicate skin that you should be protecting. As a result, bacterial infections could surface, leading to some uncomfortable symptoms such as burning, itching, pain and discomfort that you would not wish upon your worst enemy.  

For the most part, Vaginal Fissures can heal pretty quickly, but they're as painful as a paper cut and super annoying to deal with. Especially since they can become infected without even knowing they’re there.

4. PERIOD PROTECTION!

Whether your menstrual maintenance methods involve tampons, pads or a diva cup, I think all women can agree that anything can happen at any time. Who hasn’t had their period begin a few days before planned?

It’s good to have that extra layer of protection, even if your trusted period tracker has proven to (mostly) be on point. You can run the risk of staining your underwear during a heavy flow, or even when your timing is off for changing your tampon.

During your menstrual cycle, going commando is just not practical, and it’s definitely a best practice to wear some comfortable, breathable, protective underwear.

5. INCREASED RISK OF INFECTION

UTIs, Yeast Infections, and Vaginitis are just a few of the infections that can surface after not wearing a natural, breathable pair of underwear. Many people think that going commando is the best solution to these common problems that are part of being a female. If we were to choose this option, our free flowing vaginas would be hanging out some of the more common clothing items that we wear, which are A) not absorbant materials and B) mostly synthetic.

Nylon, lycra, polyester and other elastane fabrics found in everyday clothing such as yoga pants and leggings, are petroleum or coal based synthetics. They do not have breathable qualities and each of these fabrics are a nasty breeding ground for moisture collection that leads to bacterial growth.

Do not go commando in these fabrics, especially if you are prone to infections already.

6. UNPLEASANT ODOR

Natural vaginal fluids and discharge can build up in your not-so-protecive or moisture absorbent pants, resulting in a nasty smell that starts to develop. Don’t get me wrong, vaginal odor happens, and regular vaginal odor is normal. But these unpleasant odors are gross and offensive, so don’t ask questions when you’re not invited to happy hour bowling with the crew.

Unpleasant odor is not normal, and it can be a signal from your body trying to tell you that something is wrong down there.

So if you are not putting the pieces together and you end up calling the doctor because you smell down there, don’t be surprised when it’s due to going commando.

7. MORE LAUNDRY

The more you go commando, the more you will have stinky clothes, resulting in less clothing wears per wash. Going commando will definitely up your laundry frequency, resulting in lots of water use and potential breakdown of the fabrics you’re wearing.

On average, you can wear a pair of jeans ten times before washing. That definitely feels like a good time frame because I try and stretch out the number of wears until there is a smell, a stain or if I catch a cold while wearing said clothing.

Dress suits can be worn 3-4 times before washing and natural, and cotton or linen pants can wait a few wears to be washed as well.

CONCLUSION

Ladies, you don’t want to have to face any of the repercussions associated with an irritation or an infection due to joining "the commando tribe." As convincing and hyped up as it may seem for women going commando with no panties, can we just agree that the negative outweighs the positive. Most importantly You are not Men.

Sure, try and workout sans undies to see if it’s for you or even dip your toes into the commando game for a little excitement with the hubby. But if you choose to go commando, don’t let it be a regular thing.

It’s always safe to take care of yourself, and that means practicing good hygiene and choosing the right fabrics when wearing underwear. Now that we have covered the good and the bad, what is your opinion on girls going commando?

"Giving you the best that I've got"

Ladies, there are Ways to Show Him Your Softer Side Without Feeling Weak

Ladies, Do you have issues showing your softer side? 

why are you so cold on a chilly night?

Okay, let me dispel this myth right away: Ladies. Showing your softer side in a relationship does not make you weak!

I was scrolling on IG (i.e. avoiding doing real work) and came across Tammy Rivera’s (Wife to rapper Waka Flocka) page.  She posted a clip of her and her husband on Marriage Bootcamp (on WE tv) where they were arguing. Waka said something to the effect of, “why are you talking so aggressively?” to which Tammy replied, “When I was talking softly, you didn’t respect it.”

Okay, I get it.  At some point in your life you overextended yourself to someone close to you and they responded by taking advantage of the situation. So, you vowed "NEVER" do that again and now you are more guarded, more straight forward, and people can either take you as you are or leave you.

But the problem is…they will leave you, if you take it too far.

“Well if they weren’t man enough to take me I don’t need them anyways.” might be your standard answer.

But from one neck rolling, teeth-sucking, slick-mouthed, I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T *do you know what that means* ….YOU ARE VERY WRONG, SIS!!

The truth of the matter is you cannot make your current and future relationships pay for your past mistakes.

We’ve all been hurt at some point in time or two…or six. However, if women take steps towards healing, women should get to the place where they engage in relationships without fear.

Yeah, there are some male jokers out there who may want to take full advantage, but this is where discernment and guarding your heart (which is TOTALLY different than being guarded) come into play.  Take time to see what a man is all about to determine if he’s even worth the investment of your time and emotions before you start giving them out like a fish plate in the church rec-room after Sunday service.

So here are a few ways to show him your soft side, without feeling weak:

1.       Indulge him a little

I feel like I’m coming out the gate with a hard one because if you are anything like my

protective K-9, you don’t have time for the “dumb” stuff. But, men desire attention too, and it can come in

convenient ways. For instance, when men so much as sneeze a little too hard their world crumbles.

Her first instinct is to roll out at you aggressively. However, instead, tell him to rest, bring him a blanket,

make him some soup, and touch his forehead a couple times.  Everyone needs a little give sometimes. 

Being harsh and disregarding your mate will only create barriers overtime.

2.       Ask him for advice

Men’s advice on non-male related things can be just…tragic.  They try but sometimes our advice

misses the mark. However, you can ask advice on things he may know more about or general

problem-solving. Asking for advice requires a level of humility and vulnerability,

but you may be surprised by how he responds.  He may offer a perspective that you didn’t think

of and in the process, he’ll feel helpful and considered.

3.     This one may be hard but it’s necessary. 

Sometimes as women you can be flippant with your mouths without

considering how your words may land. If you take more moments to carefully craft

and artfully form your words, I guarantee you would establish a culture of mutual respect and consideration in your

relationship. Proverbs says,

“A soft answer turns away wrath” and there’s an old saying that says “You can catch more bees

with honey than vinegar.”

I’ll leave it at that.

4.       Compliment him

Give your man compliments without cracking a joke behind it.  Sometimes in relationships that are more

friendly than romantic compliments go like this: “Don’t you look cute with your big head.”

You both may laugh, but you took the genuineness out of the compliment. 

However, if you instead say,

“You look really handsome today, babe!” you not only boosted his self-esteem, but you showed

him some softness. You can also send him a nice note or text of appreciation telling him how much

you love and appreciate him. If you don’t like doing things like this it may be hard at first, but at least

give it a try!

5.       *bonus* Switch it up!

If you’re married, one of the easiest moments to be soft is during sex.  If you’re normally aggressive,

be more submissive! I promise you submission is just as sexy as aggression (if not more).

Add some dainty lingerie, let him know he has full control, and watch how he responds!

Just be sure to invite me to the baby shower!                

 

Imma leave the door open

He proposed in dramatic fashion

After a women's 200m T11 qualifying heat, guide Manuel Antonio Vaz da Veiga of Cape Verde proposed to the athlete that he partners, Keula Nidreia Pereira Semed

Back in the dark ages, marriage proposals and proposal ideas were the domain of men. All women had to do was look surprised and say "yes." But like many things that are now more equal, the proposal landscape has become a little less cut and dry. Both partners can do the proposing, but there are now twice the options (and sometimes twice the pressure). With the push to make even the smallest parts of our lives go “viral,” it can feel like you need to make something as big as a proposal Instagram-worthy. If a proposal happens but isn’t in your Instagram stories, did it even happen at all? Is it still a proposal if it’s not in a hot air balloon?

Proposing can be a big, outlandish, emotional experience played out in front of a crowd of thousands at a Red Sox game or at the Olympics. Proposing can also be a small, intimate, emotional experience played out in your living room in front of your pets. The point is for two people to make a promise to one another. So whether you got engaged on a gondola in Venice or the produce aisle of a grocery store, a proposal is always just about two people. The mechanics of a proposal are deceptively simple. One partner asks another partner a question. The second partner answers. Ta-da! You have proposed! And if feminism is your jam, neither partner is surprised by, “Hey I want to marry you.” So the where and when and how are just window dressing.

LOVE cAN BE AN ADVENTURE

1. Galactic Lovers: Plan a stargazing picnic and ask under the constellations.
2. Sunshine of My Life: Sunrise and sunset make for stunning colors in the sky and the perfect backdrop for a proposal. Find a magical spot to enjoy the view!
3. Disney Magic: Make your love story into a real-life fairy tale and propose in a Disney Park. (Pro-tip: You don’t have to go for Cinderella’s castle. There are plenty of picturesque spots around the park.)
4. Written in the Snow: Write your proposal in the snow and ask from a ski lift, or the warm interior of the ski lodge.
5. Handwriting in the Sand: Write your proposal in the sand on a sunny beach. Pop the question before the waves wash it away.
6. Room with a View: Stop to catch your breath at the top of a peak. Get down on one knee and ask them to turn around.
7. Pictures Are Worth a Thousand Words:  Decorate a room with TONS of photos of the two of  you over the years. Make another moment worth capturing.
8. #TBT: Revisit your relationship’s greatest hits—or just the site of your first date. Propose in the place where it all began.
9. Rollercoaster of Love: Propose at the top or during the photo on the ride. (We recommend keeping that ring locked up or in a secure location during the actual ride.)
10. Ferris Wheel: Take in the views below as you propose from the very top of the Ferris Wheel. Have your family and friends waiting at the bottom!

The answer should be yes and yes.