there are ways A Good Man handles his Relationships Differently

10 WAYS A GOOD MAN HANDLES HIS RELATIONSHIPS DIFFERENTLY

A GOOD MAN 

 KNOWS THAT HE NEEDS TO ACT AND NOT JUST SPEAK, WORDS OF TRUST.

A good man has unique qualities that sets us apart from the rest of 

the men in the world, and the difference is clear. If you notice the following things 

about a man, he might be a good one to keep around.

Being a good man doesn’t require making lots of  money, a perfect 

appearance, or being extremely smart. Instead, it requires various positive 

characteristics that are realistic for any man to achieve. When you recognize these 

traits in a man, you can trust that he is likely a good man.

HE LOVES AND RESPECTS HIS women FOR WHO THEY ARE

Good men love their partners for who they are on the inside. A person’s

sensibilities, personality, and ethics are more important to them than anything else.

 Plus, a good man will accept what a woman believes in and her goals for life.

A good man will treat his partner with respect always, even during arguments 

and disagreements. He expects the same from his partner, too, though.

A GOOD MAN TAKES INITIATIVE

Whether the decision is big or small, he will step in and handle it without 

being asked. He is decisive and doesn’t leave all the decisions up to his partner. 

While he makes decisions, he factors in the views and needs of his partner, too.

He doesn’t step in to make the decisions to be controlling. Instead, he does it 

as a way to make the situation better without putting it all on his significant other. He 

isn’t afraid to speak up and hold his own when he needs or wants something to get

 done, either.

 HE IS ALWAYS SUPPORTIVE

No matter what their partner’s goals are, he is supportive and encouraging. 

He won’t talk down to his partner or make them feel like they can’t do what they 

set their mind to. As they go through your journey, he will be there to cheer them 

on and comfort them along the way.

While some men might be jealous of their partner’s achievements, good men 

don’t get that way. They will be proud of their partner’s successes and do 

everything they can to help them continue growing.

HE willing to COMMIT

A good man doesn’t play with the heart and mind of others, and he doesn’t 

do things to betray them. When he is in a relationship, he fully commits 

all of the time. He doesn’t cheat physically or emotionally and is always loyal.

Plus, this type of man understands that relationships take hard work and 

dedication from both partners. He will work to maintain a strong and healthy 

relationship as he nourishes the bond continually. Trust won’t be an issue 

because he shows that he is dedicated and committed.

HE IS NEVER ABUSIVE

Abuse isn’t always physical, and emotional abuse is commonly an issue in 

relationships. With a good man, abuse of any kind won’t be a concern 

because it will never cross his mind. Abuse is never okay, and a real man 

would never put their partner in this position.

Looking for signs of abuse requires that all of the man’s relationships

 are examined. The way he treats his family members and friends shows 

what he is capable of, and a good person won’t abuse them, either.

HE INSPIRES HIS woman

A man that inspires those around him is a good one to spend time with. 

He takes control of his life and encourages others to do the same.

 His drive and ambition will be contagious to those around him, 

and it will rub off on his woman.

This behavior is mutually beneficial because as his partner pursues their passions, 

he can continue doing the same in his life. When both partners are working 

toward their goals, neither feels forgotten, left behind, or held back.

HE KNOWS THAT HE NEEDS TO ACT AND NOT JUST SPEAK

When a man does what he says he will do, it shows that he is a positive person 

to be around. He will not break promises, and he stands by his word even when 

it is hard. His words will never be empty because he doesn’t say things that he

 doesn’t mean.

He will always prove that his words are the truth, so his partner never feels the 

need to question their relationship together. Plus, he will stand up for his

 relationship whenever it is necessary. When people say or ask inappropriate things,

 he will speak up and put an end to that kind of discussion.

He will make the integrity of his relationships known and never holds back in that 

regard. Even when he is around his friends, he isn’t afraid to speak up on behalf 

of the relationship. It shows that he can express himself and protect his partner 

and their relationship.

 A GOOD MAN HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR

Good men tend to have a good sense of humor and can laugh at themselves. 

He will make his partner smile and laugh, creating happiness even amidst issues. 

His sense of humor makes him a beneficial person to be around when things aren’t 

going perfectly, and it helps bring comfort to the relationship.

People with a sense of humor make obstacles and setbacks easier to handle. 

They bring joy to any situation, and it creates resiliency in their relationships.

Having a sense of humor is one of the best things to look for in a partner for the 

reasons mentioned above. It is a sign of positivity and emotional strength that 

indicates a good person to spend your time with.

 HE BRINGS A SENSE OF SAFETY

An ideal partner will make those closest to him feel safe when he is present. 

He will make his partner feel more peaceful knowing that they have someone 

they trust nearby to help with their safety. His partner’s awareness will 

allow him to understand what they need at every moment, contributing to the 

sense of safety. Bringing a sense of safety doesn’t indicate that he attracts people 

that need rescuing or constant reassurance. Instead, it is just an added layer of 

feeling safe that his partner will find comforting.

 HE MAKES TIME FOR HIS PARTNER

A good man understands that spending time together is essential in any 

relationship. He also understands that time is precious and that you can never 

get missed experiences back. Since he knows these things, he makes sure to

 give time to his partner no matter how busy his life. When life is busy, it is harder 

to find that time, making it an even bigger priority to make plans together. 

He will never make his partner feel neglected because all of his time and energy 

is going to other things. The dedication and hard work he puts into keeping

 the relationship strong is a sure sign of a good person.

When he knows he won’t see his partner that day, he makes time to call

 them on the phone. He wants to hear his partner’s voice and let them know 

they are on his mind even amidst a busy schedule. Making dates ahead of time

 will also be a priority to him and further shows how much the relationship 

means to him. A good man makes his relationships a priority, and he never 

makes those  he cares about feel unworthy. He makes sure his partner knows 

how he feels, and he makes time to spend together.

When a man is there through the good and the bad, it is a sign that he is 

a good person. He will support his partner through the entire journey, 

being their safe space and cheerleader along the way. 

His encouragement and unwavering belief in his woman will strengthen 

their relationship, too. No matter what is going on in his life, his stays focus 

is on giving his all in his relationships. Look for these signs in a man if you are 

trying to get a good read on his qualities. If you recognize the characteristics

listed above, he is likely a good person to spend your time around

The fact that people think you should act your age, is rediculous.

 

She may have grey hair, but she does not act old.

If you’re a Baby boomer reading this, well I'm sorry in advance. But I have no choice but to inform you that a lot of the things you’ve been doing for, well, forever, are pretty uncool, these days. And although you may think otherwise, these trends are never coming back in style, so you have to accept the changes.

-There are many things that seem to repeat themselves in fashion, but high-waist skirts are something that doesn’t deserve condoning. They are simultaneously uncomfortable and unflattering, and the days of them being in style is long gone

-While there are so many opportunities for growth amongst the Baby Boomer generation, so many choose to be stubborn in their old ways, torturing generations for years to come. Here are the most unforgivable trends Baby Boomer still think are cool, but need to stop immediately.

-While the mall was once an escape for retail therapy and socializing, the malls of today’s America have only decayed. Society’s online shopping availability has eliminated our need for malls, as common sense shoppers know the inventory and crowds aren’t worth it.

-Cable may have once been necessary to watch TV, but that’s no longer the case, and Boomers need to get with the times. Not only are satellite and cable outdated, but streaming is cheaper and provides tailored options for the things you actually watch. Cut the cord!

-If you’re still writing checks in this day and age, you’re clearly stuck in prehistoric times because no one even accepts them anymore. Plus, banking apps process them with real-time photos, and with digital transfers available, we wonder why you’d want to writing one anyways.

-While looking at a men with a briefcase,  let’s point out the obvious – we work on computers now, and literally everything lives online – what could you possibly be carrying around in a briefcase? Pens and paper? Time to retire it.

I don’t care if you signed up years ago, there’s literally no point in catalogues anymore. Companies feature their promotions and entire product line online, and you’re going to have to go there to order things anyway. So save the Earth and ditch the traditional catalogues.

For the love of all things Holly, why on Earth did anyone ever do this? The entire point of sandals in the first place is to wear them without socks. It just looks absolutely ridiculous.

Yes, we know how precious these diamond jewels are to older generations, but the reality is that many young people today don’t care about diamonds. People have become more simplistic, or just find cheaper alternatives.

For whatever reason, Boomers think it’s necessary to have their cell phones attached to their hip, as if they don’t have purses or enough pockets already. Not only does it look tacky, but they should learn to actually use their phone before worrying about missing a call or message.

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I rest my case.

gravitational pull persona

 

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Someone people with a magnetic personality can make you feel like the most interesting person in the room. They don't do this by tricking you or faking interest. They show genuine interest in what you're saying, because they are genuinely interested. Charismatic people are curious about others.

They don’t force their personality on others. They work on themselves for the benefit of those they care about.

And when people see that and feel its effects, they want to do the same.

 Natural Curiosity

Someone with a magnetic personality can make you feel like the most interesting person in the room. They don’t do this by tricking you or faking interest.

They show genuine interest in what you’re saying, because they are genuinely interested. 

Charismatic people are curious about others. They have an insatiable interest in other people’s stories, knowledge, and experience. 

They can work a room and  not only learn but retain fascinating details about every person they talked to. And they make a point of remembering people’s names. 

 Sincere and Honest

The magnetic personality has no use for lies. They know the value of sincerity in any relationship, however long it lasts. As authentic people, they see only harm in being deceitful or dissembling. 

So, they’re always honest about their intentions, their values, and their beliefs. 

They don’t pretend to feel something they don’t. Nor do they hide what they’re feeling to protect their own ego. Ask them what they’re thinking, and you can expect a sincere reply. 

Doesn’t mean they’ll tell you everything. But they won’t lie.

 Committed to Personal Growth

Someone with a magnetic personality is always looking for ways to become better people and to do more good in the world. 

In every growth opportunity, they see not only how it can help them but how it helps others. Because they value others’ learning and growth along with their own. 

If you’ve met an old soul, you were probably drawn to them for this reason above all. They know what’s at stake and what’s truly important. 

And they never stop seeking the true, the beautiful, and the good.

Final thought

n everyday life, magnetism typically means being a center of influence. ... You've probably heard of a person having a magnetic personality. If something or someone is magnetic, the object or person has an extraordinary power or ability to attract. We tend to attract people most like ourselves in our daily encounters.

Do not provoke me anymore.

 What is the psychology behind provocative behavior? Why are some people provocative and how did they get like this?

I will provoke you until you cant resist me anymore.

Behaviors such as overly provocative and often inappropriate dress, language, and sexual behavior can stem from a number of personality disorders, such as Borderline Personality Disorder, their causes I highly recommend your reading about and researching further.

Along with individuals with personality disorders, we sometimes see this behavior in people who have been sexually molested or exposed to sexual activity or media at a young/inappropriate age. They may begin to act out sexually later in life, from how they dress to engaging in risky sexual behaviors. This stems from a warped view of sex and sexuality as a result of being exposed to sex in the wrong way and at too young an age.

There are also those women who dress and act this way as a means of garnering attention or affection from men. We sometimes refer to these women as having “daddy issues.” Call it a self-esteem issue or a lack of self-worth. These women are often missing either a crucial father figure role in their lives or perhaps have other emotional deficiencies that they are trying to make up for by soliciting the attention of men through overtly sexual dress.

There is no one simple answer to this question. But, this is a little insight into more common psychological causes, and will perhaps give you a good start to research more on the topic.

From personal experience(pseudo-psychology) every person with such behavior has at least one tale that confirmed for them why that was the way they should behave. Once someone has been provoked, they can hardly unlearn what they have learned without assistance.

Why would someone constantly try to provoke others? Get a rise out of people? Pushing their buttons and looking to create unnecessary dramas?

Most of the time it's a form of attention seeking. When people rise to their drama, stupid comments or actions it gives them a sense of satisfaction and power, and the attention that they so strongly crave. They crave attention because they are either bored, it's a coping mechanism, they get rewarded for their behavior or they have very low self esteem and if they can get a rise out of someone, it makes them feel better about themselves. The trouble is ,this kind of behavior is self destructive and it can also hurt others around them. In the end, people start to ignore that person so the person ups the ante ,hurting themselves and other people even more. These sort of people need structure and routine. They also need boundaries because they are used to getting what they want.

How should one be dealing with those people who are trying to provoke you to get into quarrel?

I consider people who are deliberately trying to provoke an emotional response from someone for ANY reason to be severely lacking any real Emotional Maturity. They are behaving with the mentality of the “playground bully” when you were 10 years old.

Our bodies will mature, and even our education will grow, but our emotions need to mature as well.

Before I retired, I worked alongside many “brilliant minds” who had earned their degrees, only to discover that when their emotions came to the surface I was dealing with a child. Not as often as the “blue collar” and “white collar” environments. Mostly because we all knew we worked with highly educated and trained People, who would be observing and analyzing the behavior. Containing your emotions is a form of self-defense in that case.

You’ve gotten some good opinions, well worth considering. It sounds as if you are looking at two choices.

My approach was to first not allow anyone to have any control over my emotions but myself. If someone in your life can manage to evoke anger from you anytime they choose to, you have given that person actual control of that emotion in you. I prefer to keep that power to myself.

I created what I called my “answering machine recording” as my response once I knew they were just being provocative. I suppose it’s better called a “voice mail “ recording anymore.

The idea being to give the EXACT SAME RESPONSE every time. Using the same exact words and tones of voice each time. You could even phrase it as if it IS a voicemail. Basically letting them know if they have something important to say to please leave a detailed message and you’ll get back to them when you are available.

If your phone has a recording devise, just prerecord your message , and without even looking up, play it for them every time they try to provoke you, while not uttering a single word, or even acknowledging their physical presence.

It’s sure to just suck the fun right out of verbally poking you.

Either way, simply staying in control of yourself will usually make a bully give up fairly soon and find another bear to poke.

If they do this to others a united effort performed in concert with each other will have a very solid impact. Perhaps even the same recording on the phones of any other targets of their “fun” will let them know quickly they no longer have individual targets and back off completely. It would at least be interesting and entertaining, and worded politely can avoid being said to be offensive.

If you can’t beat it, have fun with it. Making a person the butt of their own “joke” is sometimes worth the extra effort.

Good luck my friends in all you do. Stay focused on your path.

I'm done argue with you.

Final thoughts

People who provoke you to get into quarrel, first of all, aren’t normal. The root of this disease may be that something may be wrong in their family itself. Their parents might be very dominating or these type of people might be very submissive in their childhood, and consequently, must have been exploited by others in their formative years. As they grow up, they drive relief from provoking others which is a very sick and flawed behavior. This is their way of taking revenge.

They sort of take revenge in this unreasonable way because they are afraid of provoking stronger people fearing retaliation from them. They love to victimize mild people. The best way to handle them is to ask them straight, “Why do you provoke me?” This way, they would immediately realize that you know them inside out and you have rightly diagnosed their ‘malady.’ You would also experience that such type of people rarely take liberties with stronger, powerful and dominating people.

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The term for these people is called 'passive aggressive'. It is tricky to deal with them because if you call them out directly they may shift the blame on you and play innocent, in which case you may come across as obnoxious or paranoid. So, initially give them a benefit of doubt and answer their questions straight, but if they still continue to try to provoke you call them out subtly and leave the place without any anger or aggression. See the deal with passive aggressors is that they are afraid to call you out openly and that's why they try to do it in a very subtle way. Their main aim is to see you get worked up. So, how to deal with these type of people? Simple, tap into their fears and don't lose your cool.

Just do the smart things often

 

You are so consistently thoughtful

In your relationships, you must consider whether a person is good for you or not. Good relationships will fulfill you and make you happy, whereas negative relationships will do the opposite. The ones that uplift you are the ones you should keep around, and there are signs that you should never let someone go.

These signs will help you embrace the good people in your life and limit your time with others. When you know you should never let someone go, you will invest in the relationship whenever you can. Once you have decided not to let them go, embrace the relationship and allow it to make your life worthwhile.

Remember your self-worth and consider if your partner values it, too. They should want what is best for you and want to see you do well. You will know when you have found the person that can do this for you in your life.

No relationship is perfect, so of course, there will be hardships, but the best people will stick around. You should never let someone go if they try to make things work positively no matter what has happened. There are additional reasons that you should never let someone go, too, and knowing them will help you with all of your relationships.

 THEY PRIORITIZE THE RELATIONSHIP

Your partner should always value and prioritize your relationship. If they do, it is a good sign, and you should keep them around. When you and your relationship are valued, you will feel your true worth.

They should be committed to the relationship and put it before work, friends, hobbies, and anything else. Doing so will help keep the relationship healthy, and it will be a sure indicator that you shouldn’t let them go.

THEY COMMUNICATE OPENLY

Communication is the key to a relationship. Without communication, you won’t have any solid foundation on which to base the relationship. If your partner freely expresses themselves and tells you how they feel, it is something to be happy about.

As they communicate, though, they will be kind and direct. Communication should never leave you feeling bad about yourself or like you aren’t valued. Your partner won’t be passive-aggressive, as that isn’t a form of open communication.

If they can avoid manipulation and stonewalling during a conversation, it is another bonus. Your partner should want to get things back on the right path in your relationship rather than making it worse. If your partner believes issues can be worked out through conversation, you have found yourself a good person.

 THERE IS EMOTIONAL INTIMACY IN THE RELATIONSHIP

Emotional intimacy is vital to keep a relationship going strong. If you share emotional intimacy with someone, it isn’t something you should take lightly. This connection can help you develop security, trust, transparency, and openness for one another.

If you have emotional intimacy in your relationship, you will connect with your partner on a deeper level. You will feel respected, accepted, and worthy when it coms to having them in your life. Plus, your partner will be more in tune with your emotions, needs, fears, and wants.

YOU SPEND VALUABLE TIME TOGETHER

A relationship can’t flourish if you never spend time alone together. Prioritize one-on-one time to enjoy one another’s company and share experiences and memories. If your partner makes your time together a priority, you shouldn’t let them go.

In your relationships, you must consider whether a person is good for you or not. Good relationships will fulfill you and make you happy, whereas negative relationships will do the opposite. The ones that uplift you are the ones you should keep around, and there are signs that you should never let someone go.

These signs will help you embrace the good people in your life and limit your time with others. When you know you should never let someone go, you will invest in the relationship whenever you can. Once you have decided not to let them go, embrace the relationship and allow it to make your life worthwhile.

Remember your self-worth and consider if your partner values it, too. They should want what is best for you and want to see you do well. You will know when you have found the person that can do this for you in your life.

No relationship is perfect, so of course, there will be hardships, but the best people will stick around. You should never let someone go if they try to make things work positively no matter what has happened. There are additional reasons that you should never let someone go, too, and knowing them will help you with all of your relationships.

THEY PRIORITIZE THE RELATIONSHIP

Your partner should always value and prioritize your relationship. If they do, it is a good sign, and you should keep them around. When you and your relationship are valued, you will feel your true worth.

They should be committed to the relationship and put it before work, friends, hobbies, and anything else. Doing so will help keep the relationship healthy, and it will be a sure indicator that you shouldn’t let them go.

THEY COMMUNICATE OPENLY

Communication is the key to a relationship. Without communication, you won’t have any solid foundation on which to base the relationship. If your partner freely expresses themselves and tells you how they feel, it is something to be happy about.

As they communicate, though, they will be kind and direct. Communication should never leave you feeling bad about yourself or like you aren’t valued. Your partner won’t be passive-aggressive, as that isn’t a form of open communication.

If they can avoid manipulation and stonewalling during a conversation, it is another bonus. Your partner should want to get things back on the right path in your relationship rather than making it worse. If your partner believes issues can be worked out through conversation, you have found yourself a good person.

THERE IS EMOTIONAL INTIMACY IN THE RELATIONSHIP

Emotional intimacy is vital to keep a relationship going strong. If you share emotional intimacy with someone, it isn’t something you should take lightly. This connection can help you develop security, trust, transparency, and openness for one another.

If you have emotional intimacy in your relationship, you will connect with your partner on a deeper level. You will feel respected, accepted, and worthy when it comes to having them in your life. Plus, your partner will be more in tune with your emotions, needs, fears, and wants.

 YOU SPEND VALUABLE TIME TOGETHER

A relationship can’t flourish if you never spend time alone together. Prioritize one-on-one time to enjoy one another’s company and share experiences and memories. If your partner makes your time together a priority, you shouldn’t let them go.

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While both of you might have different interests and commitments, setting aside time for each other is essential. Develop interests and hobbies together that you both enjoy if you need a new idea for something to do.

 THEY SPEAK KINDLY TO YOU ALWAYS

Even during times of disagreement, your partner should speak kindly to you. They shouldn’t seem detached, irritated, sarcastic, or demeaning. Of course, no one is perfect, and mistakes are bound to happen, but it shouldn’t be all of the time.

If you have found someone that speaks kindly to you, then you shouldn’t let them go. Don’t take your partner for granted, and work on reciprocating the kind words.

THEY ARE AFFECTIONATE

If your partner hugs you, holds your hand, kisses, and cuddles with you, then your relationship is more likely to be healthy. Regular physical affection can foster happiness and satisfaction within the relationship. Plus, you can recover from arguments more quickly, too.

THEY INSPIRE YOU AND SUPPORT YOU

Your partner should be inspiring and supportive. They should not only voice their support, but they should show it through their actions, too. If your partner does this, then don’t let them go.

Your partner should want to see you succeed and reach your goals. They will help you along the way, wanting all of your dreams to come true. A positive partner will want you to reach your full potential and always want what is best for you.

THEY ACCEPT YOU AS YOU ARE

No one that loves you should want to change you. Your partner should love you just as you are right now, even with your weaknesses or faults. You aren’t a reflection of your partner, so they shouldn’t try to make you like them.

Instead, they should embrace what makes you different and special. A partner that is accepting of you is one that you should stick with.

 THEY LOOK FOR WAYS TO SHOW YOU THAT THEY CARE

A good partner will want you to know that they care about you. They won’t just want to tell you, but they will want to show you, too. Surprises like flowers or love notes might be normal, but small things can mean the most.

If your partner knows you like your coffee first thing in the morning and they wake up first, they might make it for you. They might warm your car up before you have to leave on a cold day. Or, it could be as simple as bringing you your favorite snack.

There are so many ways that your partner can show you that they care. If they are worth keeping around, you will notice the little things they do to make you happy.

 THEY LISTEN TO YOU WHEN YOU SPEAK

So many relationships end because one of the partners didn’t feel heard. Your partner must listen when you speak and doesn’t get distracted looking at other things. They shouldn’t be thinking about other things as you talk, either.

Communication is essential in a relationship, and your partner should know how to listen. They should try to see things from your perspective and fully understand what you mean.

It is even better when they reiterate what they have heard so that you know they listened. Having a partner that can listen is a good thing, so don’t let them go if your partner listens.

 THEY GIVE YOU SPACE

You are both still individuals, even though you might have merged lives. Your partner should respect this and give you space to take care of your needs, desires, and interests. They should also recognize your boundaries and know when you need space.

Needing space away from one another isn’t a bad thing. Instead, it’s giving both partners a chance at focusing on themselves. Once you come together again, you will feel refreshed and interested in one another.

 YOU HAVE FUN WITH ONE ANOTHER

If you have found someone that you can have fun with, keep them in your life. Everything in your life can become overwhelming sometimes, so you need a way to let loose and relax. Even if the fun isn’t as spontaneous as it once was, you can still have a good time.3 – THEY DON’T CONSTANTLY BRING UP YOUR PAST MISTAKES

A supportive partner won’t keep bringing up mistakes you made in the past. Once they say they have forgiven you, they begin to move forward and don’t look back.

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