damn dude, I'm late

Why do these simple words spoken, by a woman, strike the fear of God in a man 

"Dude, damn I'm late?" 

Laws governing abortion continue to be debated in many parts of the world. 

Argentina’s Senate on Thursday narrowly rejected a closely watched bill to legalize abortion. Voters in Ireland this spring struck down a 35-year-old constitutional ban on abortion, one of the strictest in Europe. In Poland, politicians are making a renewed push to restrict abortion.

And in the United States, the departure of Justice Anthony Kennedy and President Trump’s selection to succeed him is expected to redraw the well-established legal battle lines over abortion rights.

Behind the roiling public debates are deeply personal experiences: an unintended pregnancy, rape, family influence, a medical crisis, feelings of loss.

Even in places where the practice is legal, abortion can still be hard to talk about. When we invited readers to share their own stories earlier this year, more than 1,300 responded from over 30 countries, showing the vast range of reasons, means and outcomes for abortion.

So will this become permanent?

Final thoughts

I've personally never had a discussion with a female partner about having to have an abortion. I'm one of those guys who believe women have the right to decide what to do with their bodies. So prevention was always first discussed before we engaged in sex. If she was not going to protect herself, using the pill or some kind of contraception, then I would haven to take the lead... I never wanted to have the discussion of  her needing to take "the morning after pill"

If we just act like mature adults then we need not try to "Unring" that bell about "the morning after pill" Levonorgestrel is a hormone that can be used for emergency contraception. Emergency contraception should not be used as a routine method of birth control.

Levonorgestrel can prevent pregnancy after unprotected sex. People sometimes call it the "morning after pill." But you don't have to wait until the morning after sex to take it. In fact, levonorgestrel is more effective the sooner you take it. It is a one-dose regimen: you take one pill. The pill contains 1.5 milligrams of levonorgestrel, which is used in lower doses in many birth control pills.

Aren't you glad we no longer have to worry about getting pregnant,
and using contraception ?

Living Vicariously through others is just total crap.

Do the people who live on this Island really love it 52 weeks out of the year?

Social Media is causing folks to want what they just can not have, when they want it!

When we grow up we need to learn that we can’t have all the things we see and think we want.  Men and women are losing their minds over what others have and what others are doing. Social media was  designed to share things. But it has become a maximum force to make others jealous. If you go somewhere exotic you use to have a photo album, where you could show those who visit you, at your home,  that you had a good time. But now your Instagram, Facebook, even Youtube it to make others who may not even know you, jealous, your friends get these pics in their stream and they don’t have to even do anything for their friends to start tripping. Hell what are we doing? The next generations will not even be able to see what is real and what is fiction. Men see women as dream objects, and women see many man as the guy who could have given them what they wanted if they wanted to be with him. SMDH. Jealousy is poison!

They look like they got it going on! 
I can't believe she is posting these picture for everyone to see. 

When a man'as ex shows pics of another guy on social media, with her.  

The Jealousy meter registers  off the scale like crazy. It's not fun. 

A couple on vacation may have serious issues,
not even happy anymore!

Could it be too much information..... if we read their post and we get all up into their business, just because Social Media has given us so much access to other people's lives… they might be discussing a divorce and we will think they are happy together.   What seems to be the case may not be what is factual, because months later we find out that they have split up. They may even run off with other people?

I have a little too much going on in my life to speak of for myself, so the most excitement that I get is not talking or reading over what could be have been happening with complete strangers.Some things are Sad? For sure. But it is not always been the case what we see is not always what we get. I looked like they were having fun and it’s just a distraction I may need before I jump headfirst into the long day of word that is ahead of me. 

Never mind the smiles and the look of excitement on their faces. They might just be acting like that for the photo opportunities. One never knows!

I'm having the best time!

I'll make my move when I'm sure the coast is clear

When you see these post you may read something that might cause you to have some interest to go and visit. 

After time spent relaxing on the sand, you”ll want to discover what else the Island has to offer. Beyond the beach there are  paths, fringes by indigenous wild flowers, that lead the way to areas where snorkeling is possible. 

So where are they visiting in Africa? There are many countries none are exactly the same. 

Some don’t even have giraffes.

So what is the difference between dating and target practice.

From a man’s point of view. 

Women who are subjected to “target practice” may not even be aware of the reality in which category they fall in as men are in hot pursued. Please allow we to explain. Having seen this over and over for years. We men see women in categories. Having lived in diverse communities, where guys pursue women based on what's in their minds as the category, for example, 

A hot Latina female, a very sexy White woman , a Black Goddess, even a Indian queen.  She is not in the category for target practice if she is seen as a Goddess, or a queen. However if she had reputation of having had sex with multiple men in her past. Then she is most likely a subject for target practice. A man will see her and think only about having sex with her for his pleasure, he might change his mind and change her classification, in his mind, but the label as a connection link to her past will continue to swirl around in his head. Men do not see a queen or a Goddess in that way. We want to date her in pursued of marriage or at least long term dating her with the end result in mind being a forever after. Men do make exceptions but generally men do not change their internal classification of women permanently. Take for instant a man who got together with a woman and she gave him and STD, he knows she did not get it  from just sitting on a toilet seat. He might get treated and forgive her, but him trusting her based on that experience will always negatively linger, in the recesses of his mind.

Final thought

When men have had locker room conversations about a female, and suddenly someone points out that she had a for example  consensual sex with multiple guys (a gang bang) at the same time, that whole picture of her with multiple guys will never go away from the recesses of the men's  minds. Men think about the many ways she and he had sex and what she enjoyed most that it was based on her previous experience with multiple guys at the same time. He will not be able to get those images out of his head. We can thank Porno stars for having created those images, and now men are projecting them onto the women wants to chase. Having a woman of a culture that projects Latina Hotness, of dance hall sexyness is a classification that will linger long term. Remember that ladies when you are projecting yourselves as this or that, and whatever the latest fantasy classification comes into play on social media.