Most TV shows and movies portray women as conquests, ready to be submissive to the guy. Most hip hop lyrics involve the words “B****s and H**s when speaking of women. So what? This is the Western World "this how we do it!" But do we really like to see other men disrespect women, we admire?
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Where am I going with this?
Ever heard the Lenny Kravitz song “American Woman.” It goes something like this: “American woman stay away from me…”. Well, I tend to think that the Western women are the ones who need to be concerned if they are falling for Foreign Muslim men. Why am I writing about Muslim men? Obviously, I am not a Muslim. So, I’m talking mostly about Muslim men who pursue Western women (non Muslims,) and have the audacity to get upset when Western men pursue the woman from their countries. I know non Muslim Westerners misbehave when it come to respecting women. Heck, some Westerner men treat Westerner women like sexual objects often.
Men can always say "I'm sorry," after the fact, but the damage is already done.
Many foreign born men do not respect Western women either and view them as some sort of plaything. The liberated women are viewed as promiscuous and even foul mouth Equals to Western men. Maybe this contributes to the way the Foreign Muslims views Western women, but this also makes Western women most desired by Muslim men (which is in contradiction to their religion.)
Dating Muslim Guy.. No Sex Before Marriage! Why am I mainly talking about Muslim men? It all comes down to pure and simple lack of R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
Muslim men should know better! They should behave better! And follow the teachings of the Quran!
On to my point of though, I can not fathom the rudeness that foreign born men have shown to Western women and then dismissed it by saying “Oh, she’s a Westerner.” They say things to women that they would never dream of saying to a woman from their own countries ( maybe they do but we Westerners will not hear about it.) I know this because I have witnessed it first hand. I see Muslim men lowering their gaze in front of women from their country but looking at Western women as brazenly as they please. I have witnessed Muslim men opt to not even speak to a woman from their country but then turn to a Western woman and make an attempt at flirtation. Then, if or when they are scolded they respond with: “Oh her, she’s an American.” Makes me wonder if they watched commercials for No tanning lines Bikinis. Do they react with cat whistles...... bark like Dogs like Western men?
Another thing, foreign born Muslims are always looking to marry Western women. Often they could care less if she is a Muslim or a non Muslim. They just want to marry an American. Why? I guess some of them want citizenship, money, or Permanent Residency status. Actually I'm sure that is the main reason. Maybe some of them like the Western sisters and don’t care what her beliefs are (Not likely).
What I do know is, there are many lovely sisters who are born in their own country and are being passed up for marriage simply because the Foreign Muslim men want to marry an American (again Muslim or non Muslim). After which she is forced to become a Muslim woman. Many Western women often get marriage proposals just by walking down the street or in a halal grocer. In other words, Western women are in high demand! Well, this is where it gets downright ridiculous they are being treated as an object and often that is the reality of how they are viewed. My reaction to Foreign Muslims is,
Find another “Match.” I'm amazed that many Muslim men live in counties like South Africa that have Bikini Parades (see below) for worthwhile causes like Cancer, I guess they must freak-out on the days when a parade of women walk by them on the streets dressed only in bikinis.
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This isn't to say that all Muslim men behave disrespectful to Westerner women. In contrast, I have met several Muslims who are very respectful around women. As with any other religion, or culture you are sure to find both good and bad in the bunch.
The fact is as I said before, Muslims should behave in accordance to their teachings. Those Muslims who do act disrespectful should fear Allah and treat all Women with the respect they deserve. It doesn’t matter what a woman’s race or religion you are to lower your gazes (Muslim religious instructions from the Quran it doesn’t say “lower your gazes for women from Saudi or Egypt but look brazenly at the
Western women.” It says lower your gaze, period. “(O’ Prophet!) Say to the believing men that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts - that is purer for them; surely Allah is aware of what they do. And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks…”
Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things). Verily, Allah is All-Aware of what they do.
I hope these suggestions will help Muslim men in their searches, this may prevent them and the Western woman's family from going on the war path....... Western families are not going to accept you disrespecting Western women no more than you would accept Western men disrespecting Muslims.
I don't think there will be many Muslim men walking around on St. Martin's topless and all Nude beaches this season....
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