1/14/2024

wining and dining a lady has its advantages

The definition of a real gentleman is the willingness to do the extras.

What's most sad these days is that most women will go their entire lifetime and never experience the meaning of actual true love. 

We unfortunately live in a generation with men who have no idea what it takes to be a real gentleman. 

A real gentleman asks about your day and genuinely cares about a woman's answer. 

A real gentleman respects your boundaries and never forces you to do anything you're not ready to do. 

He makes time for you, and takes that time to learn and understand who you are as a person. 

A real gentleman consistently shows you the definition of effort with every day that passes.

He will call you randomly throughout the day just to check on you and your mental health. 

A real gentleman is undeniably committed to you and looks for new ways to fall in love with you with every day that passes. 

He makes protecting your heart a number one priority.

A real gentleman never makes permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

He never confuses you on where you stand in his life.

A real gentleman apologizes when he is wrong and stays true to his character. 

He doesn't mind hurting other people's feeling to protect yours.

A real gentleman gives you affection without sexual expectation. 

A real gentleman refuses to entertain many other women 

Final thoughts

In life when we are looking for love it is important to note that no one is perfect and no one will be that exact perfect match. Instead we must look for someone that treats us as we should be, as the only one. Real love forces us to love everything about a person, including their flaws. Keep an open mind and don't expect anyone to be perfect, just expect that they love you with everything that's inside of them. Don't search for someone that will solve all of your problems, they won't....Find one that won't let you face them alone.


1/08/2024

a woman who cooks while others sit and watch shall attract the men who appreciate her talents.

Well that sure smells good......what is it?
When do we eat?

So often in today's Social media World we forget  what a good woman brings to the table.... we see the glamorous presentation and we assume that this as men that it is what really attracts us until we get hungry, then we remember what our mothers brought to the table, after hours of cooking and preparing our meals.

Final thoughts
Our mothers did the best jobs that made us who we are let us remember all that she did. Not just selecting what we want to remember.