7/18/2023
7/12/2023
What Science Says About Men Who Have Beards
Why do men grow beards?
According to a survey done on behalf of beard-care company Honest Amish, men feel more confident with beards. In fact, the survey showed that one in five men would give up making love for a year to achieve the perfect beard. This survey is might be spot-on. Any scroll through social media photos can show you that men’s facial hair is in.
Even if most men would not give up sex for the perfect beard, it doesn’t mean that a large majority of them don’t desire manly facial hair. To men, their facial hair is similar to how women feel about their hair, weight, skin, or “bodily assets.” A beard can make or break a man’s self-esteem.
It’s interesting how a little facial hair can change a man’s opinion of himself.
Psychologists explored this phenomenon and explained why beards are such an important part of a man’s image. Keep reading to find out what they discovered.
1 – Having a beard is a sign of manliness
(at least to some men).
Darwin suggested that beards were used to intimidate other male foes in ancient times. It indicated power, strength, social status, or even wealth. These days, a beard may not equal all of that, but it gives the appearance of all of that, which is what’s important.
It makes sense that the presence of a beard makes a man feel more manly. After all, facial hair is a side effect of testosterone, the male hormone. This hormone is responsible for many masculine functions in the body, such as muscle-building, sperm development, and healthy erections. Scientifically speaking, a beard really is an indicator of masculinity. This is precisely why women don’t usually have facial hair unless they have a testosterone imbalance.
One societal side effect of beards and masculinity is that people view men with a beard as being more aggressive than men without them. There are plenty of studies that show this. In fact, in a study done by researchers from the University of New England and The University of Queensland, it was shown that people could recognize a bearded man’s anger faster than they recognized his happiness.
It seems that society sometimes relates masculinity to aggression.
However, appearances can be deceiving.
Although having a beard may make men feel more manly and dominant, it doesn’t necessarily make them more aggressive, even if they appear that way. According to Mark Travers, Ph.D., a psychologist, and writer, beards have a duality to them. They may command a more dominating presence but adding a smile can soften this, making them appear more trustworthy, helpful, and friendly than someone with no facial hair.
Based on all these findings, it shouldn’t be a surprise that men feel more manly when they have a beard. Society also treats them like they’re more manly, which can influence how men feel about their beards on a subconscious level.
Women seem to be more attracted to men with a beard.
The word seem,is what can gett a man in trouble with women, one big reason men may feel more attractive with a beard is that…well…they believe it! Many studies have shown that women are into men with a beard. Men may feel more masculine and powerful with a beard, but women seem to see them that way also. A beard is almost like the perfect replacement for a pickup line.
The beard is in, but it is not only a fashion statement. There may be an evolutionary purpose behind the beard. For one, beards are unique to the human male. There are plenty of animals whose bodies are fully covered in hair, but none of them grow hair on their faces like humans. Apes and monkeys come close, but the hair around their faces are attributed to their body hair, not facial hair.
Darwin suggested that for human males, growing a beard started as an ornamental feature to attract the other gender. It’s like how animals grow certain feather colors or developing certain sounds to attract a mate. Since prehistoric women were more attracted to mates with a beard (like they are now), prehistoric men were more successful at procreating.
This success likely trickled down the generations, turning into self-confidence at some point. It’s no secret that women love a confident man, which adds to the man’s attractiveness
If you’re a man, or you know a man who wants to attract more women, growing a beard is a great suggestion. Of course, keep it neat to get the maximum benefit from it.
3 – A beard can MASK features that a man doesn’t like about himself.
For men, facial hair can be what makeup is to a woman. It can be used to hide things like acne, scars, chubby cheeks, discolorations, or anything else that a man doesn’t like about his skin. They can go as far as connecting their beards to sideburns for ultimate coverage.
Being able to hide the parts you don’t like will enhance self-confidence and make you feel more attractive. However, it doesn’t stop there. Beards can also function similarly to cosmetic surgery minus the surgery.
If men keep their beard maintained, especially by a professional barber, it can be used to frame the face, enhance the eyes, and even reshape the face to a more attractive shape. When a person has this level of control over their appearance, it’s no surprise that they would feel extremely attractive.
In some religions, cutting a beard is a sin.
At first, it may not seem that religion has anything to do with a man feeling attractive, but if you need proof, simply attend any church service in the world. Religious men are some of the most confident men you’ll meet. Their spirituality uplifts them in a way that allows things to roll off them without affecting their self-esteem. They put it in the hands of whichever higher power they believe in, and they strut away with the confidence of royalty.
In many religions, facial hair is sacred, so men (and women) don’t cut it. A man with a shaved face may be shunned in their communities, causing their confidence level to take a big hit. After all, the idea of being out of favor of the divine can cause serious anxiety.
In the religious world, sinning can strip a man of his position or authority. Losing this type of power can cause a man’s self-confidence to take a hit. Therefore, it’s safe to say that a man’s beard contributes to his success and confidence in the religion in these religions.
This leads to him being more attractive to women in religion. Women are naturally attracted to successful, confident men with power. Just because the power is spiritual doesn’t make it any less attractive than other types of power.
Men with a beard are often more regarded as more competent, especially as the head of the household.
This concept is purely an opinion and isn’t necessarily true. Facial hair doesn’t make someone a better man than a clean-shaved man. However, perception is often everything when it comes to certain situations. Two examples are when a man is seeking a job or when a woman is looking for someone to settle down with.
A man with a beard may be treated differently than clean-shaven men, even by family members and friends. The beard gives the perception of intelligence, confidence, sturdiness, strength, and superiority. Who wouldn’t like the way they’re treated when people are constantly putting them on a pedestal?
Most men wouldn’t let this treatment go to their heads (unfortunately, there are always a few narcissists out there), but it can give their confidence a significant boost and make them feel more attractive.
Why do men grow beards?
According to a survey done on behalf of beard-care company Honest Amish, men feel more confident with beards. In fact, the survey showed that one in five men would give up making love for a year to achieve the perfect beard. This survey is might be spot-on. Any scroll through social media photos can show you that men’s facial hair is in.
Even if most men would not give up sex for the perfect beard, it doesn’t mean that a large majority of them don’t desire manly facial hair. To men, their facial hair is similar to how women feel about their hair, weight, skin, or “bodily assets.” A beard can make or break a man’s self-esteem.
It’s interesting how a little facial hair can change a man’s opinion of himself.
What Science Says About Men Who Have Beards
Psychologists explored this phenomenon and explained why beards are such an important part of a man’s image. Keep reading to find out what they discovered.
1 – Having a beard is a sign of manliness
(at least to many males).
Society may be modern, but the importance of manliness (at least in the minds of many men) has not changed much over the centuries. Men are territorial creatures who want to assert their dominance over their dominions, and for some, a beard is a symbol of that dominance. It gives them strength and conviction, almost like armor does for a soldier.Darwin suggested that beards were used to intimidate other male foes in ancient times. It indicated power, strength, social status, or even wealth. These days, a beard may not equal all of that, but it gives the appearance of all of that, which is what’s important.
It makes sense that the presence of a beard makes a man feel more manly. After all, facial hair is a side effect of testosterone, the male hormone. This hormone is responsible for many masculine functions in the body, such as muscle-building, sperm development, and healthy erections. Scientifically speaking, a beard really is an indicator of masculinity. This is precisely why women don’t usually have facial hair unless they have a testosterone imbalance.
One societal side effect of beards and masculinity is that people view men with a beard as being more aggressive than men without them. There are plenty of studies that show this. In fact, in a study done by researchers from the University of New England and The University of Queensland, it was shown that people could recognize a bearded man’s anger faster than they recognized his happiness.
It seems that society sometimes relates masculinity to aggression.
However, appearances can be deceiving.
Although having a beard may make men feel more manly and dominant, it doesn’t necessarily make them more aggressive, even if they appear that way. According to Mark Travers, Ph.D., a psychologist, and writer, beards have a duality to them. They may command a more dominating presence but adding a smile can soften this, making them appear more trustworthy, helpful, and friendly than someone with no facial hair.
Based on all these findings, it shouldn’t be a surprise that men feel more manly when they have a beard. Society also treats them like they’re more manly, which can influence how men feel about their beards on a subconscious level.
2 – Women seem to be more attracted to men with a beard.
One big reason men may feel more attractive with a beard is that…well…they are! Many studies have shown that women are into men with a beard. Men may feel more masculine and powerful with a beard, but women see them that way also. A beard is almost like the perfect replacement for a pickup line.
The beard is in, but it is not only a fashion statement. There may be an evolutionary purpose behind the beard. For one, beards are unique to the human male. There are plenty of animals whose bodies are fully covered in hair, but none of them grow hair on their faces like humans. Apes and monkeys come close, but the hair around their faces are attributed to their body hair, not facial hair.
Darwin suggested that for human males, growing a beard started as an ornamental feature to attract the other gender. It’s like how animals grow certain feather colors or developing certain sounds to attract a mate. Since prehistoric women were more attracted to mates with a beard (like they are now), prehistoric men were more successful at procreating.
This success likely trickled down the generations, turning into self-confidence at some point. It’s no secret that women love a confident man, which adds to the man’s attractiveness.
If you’re a man, or you know a man who wants to attract more women, growing a beard is a great suggestion. Of course, keep it neat to get the maximum benefit from it.
3 – A beard can mask features that a man doesn’t like about himself.
For men, facial hair can be what makeup is to a woman. It can be used to hide things like acne, scars, chubby cheeks, discolorations, or anything else that a man doesn’t like about his skin. They can go as far as connecting their beards to sideburns for ultimate coverage.
Being able to hide the parts you don’t like will enhance self-confidence and make you feel more attractive. However, it doesn’t stop there. Beards can also function similarly to cosmetic surgery minus the surgery.
If men keep their beard maintained, especially by a professional barber, it can be used to frame the face, enhance the eyes, and even reshape the face to a more attractive shape. When a person has this level of control over their appearance, it’s no surprise that they would feel extremely attractive.
4 – In some religions, cutting a beard is a sin.
At first, it may not seem that religion has anything to do with a man feeling attractive, but if you need proof, simply attend any church service in the world. Religious men are some of the most confident men you’ll meet. Their spirituality uplifts them in a way that allows things to roll off them without affecting their self-esteem. They put it in the hands of whichever higher power they believe in, and they strut away with the confidence of royalty.
In many religions, facial hair is sacred, so men (and women) don’t cut it. A man with a shaved face may be shunned in their communities, causing their confidence level to take a big hit. After all, the idea of being out of favor of the divine can cause serious anxiety.
In the religious world, sinning can strip a man of his position or authority. Losing this type of power can cause a man’s self-confidence to take a hit. Therefore, it’s safe to say that a man’s beard contributes to his success and confidence in the religion in these religions.
This leads to him being more attractive to women in religion. Women are naturally attracted to successful, confident men with power. Just because the power is spiritual doesn’t make it any less attractive than other types of power.
5 – Men with a beard are often more regarded as more competent,
especially as the head of the household.
This concept is purely an opinion and isn’t necessarily true. Facial hair doesn’t make someone a better man than a clean-shaved man. However, perception is often everything when it comes to certain situations. Two examples are when a man is seeking a job or when a woman is looking for someone to settle down with.
A man with a beard may be treated differently than clean-shaven men, even by family members and friends. The beard gives the perception of intelligence, confidence, sturdiness, strength, and superiority. Who wouldn’t like the way they’re treated when people are constantly putting them on a pedestal?
Most men wouldn’t let this treatment go to their heads (unfortunately, there are always a few narcissists out there), but it can give their confidence a significant boost and make them feel more attractive.
Final Thoughts on Why Beards Make (delusional)
Men Feel More Attractive
A beard is just facial hair that may or may not be neatly shaped. However, to men, it’s like a superpower. It seems to increase their masculinity, strength, success, confidence, and attractiveness.
A lot of the benefits of having a beard really come from society’s views on men with beards and how society treats men. That means that it’s not the beard itself, but the way people react to it. Maybe one day, opinions on having a beard will change, and they will fall out of style. However, today is not that day.
This doesn’t mean that every man should run out and grow a beard. This article was only intended to shed some light on how growing facial hair can make a man feel. For clean-shaved men, hope is not lost. Most women love clean-shaved men as much as they love a man with a beard. Clean-shaven men are successful, powerful, and attractive as well.
A beard is only an icon, not a determining factor in a person’s life. However, it’s trendy right now, just like it has been in the past. That trend is probably not going away any time soon, so bearded men will continue feeling incredibly attractive on top of the world.
 |
| I personally think the beard is an unnecessary smelly annoying itch. It turns grey too soon. I prefer looking younger |
What Is Jealousy
Jealousy is a normal emotion, arising when someone feels insecure about their relationship (whether that relationship is with a romantic partner, a parent, a sibling, or a friend). Everyone experiences jealousy at some point in their lives. But problems can arise when jealousy moves from a healthy emotion to an unhealthy and irrational one.
Irrational and excessive jealousy can eventually destroy your relationship. Learn how to deal with jealousy and insecurities in a relationship so that you can overcome this emotion and strengthen your partnership.
Jealousy is a reaction to a perceived threat—real or imagined—to a valued relationship.1 The jealous partner fears that an outsider is trying to win the affections of their loved one. Along with jealousy, an insecure partner may also feel angry, contemptuous, anxious, and depressed, which is why jealousy can be dangerous.2
A little jealousy can be reassuring in a relationship and may even be programmed into us. However, a lot of jealousy is overwhelming and scary, especially because it can lead to dangerous behaviors like stalking, digital dating violence, and physical abuse.3
There’s no reason to believe that jealousy will improve without being addressed. Jealousy is not an emotion that can be banished with wishful thinking. It goes right to the core of the self and has deep roots, and it takes awareness and effort to overcome these feelings.
Occasional jealousy is natural, but when it becomes intense or irrational, it can seriously damage a relationship. Being able to distinguish between healthy jealousy and unhealthy jealousy is important to the success of your partnership.
In relationships where feelings of jealousy are mild and occasional, it reminds couples not to take each other for granted. Jealousy also can motivate couples to appreciate one another and make a conscious effort to make sure their partner feels valued.
Jealousy also heightens emotions, making love feel stronger and sex more passionate.4 In small, manageable doses, jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship.5
When a healthy relationship experiences jealousy, it comes from a place of protection. One person sees a potential threat to the relationship and expresses concern or jealousy. Together, the couple discusses the issue rationally and comes to an agreement on how to move forward. They are both committed to the relationship and are not insecure about who they are as individuals.
Unhealthy Jealousy
When jealousy is intense or irrational, the story is very different. Irrational or excessive jealousy is often a warning sign of a potentially abusive relationship.
Eventually, jealous people feel so overwhelmed by their emotions and insecurities that they begin to exert control over their partners. They may resort to financial abuse, verbal bullying, and violence in order to maintain control and alleviate or mask their feelings.
Unhealthy jealousy is rooted in fear of abandonment and a worry about not being truly loved.1 Unhealthy jealousy is characterized by:
- Being paranoid about what the partner is doing or feeling
- Demanding an account of where the partner has been
- Displaying unusual insecurity and fear
- Engaging in storytelling and making accusations that are not true
- Excessively questioning a partner's behaviors and motives
- Following or stalking a partner to confirm whereabouts
- Infringing on the partner's freedom or prohibiting them from seeing friends or family
- Reading emails and texts or listening to voicemails expecting to discover infidelity or a lie3
- Texting a partner non-stop when the couple is apart
Causes of Jealousy
When faced with a situation that might provoke jealousy, someone who struggles with this emotion may respond with fear, anger, grief, worry, sadness, doubt, pain, self-pity, and humiliation. They also may generally feel suspicious or threatened, or they may struggle with a sense of failure.1
Jealousy can happen for many reasons, including:
- Being insecure or having a poor self-image
- Fearing abandonment or betrayal
- Feeling intense possessiveness or a desire for control
- Having a misguided sense of ownership over a partner
- Having unrealistic expectations about relationships in general
- Maintaining unrealistic expectations of a partner
- Reliving a hurtful experience of abandonment in the past
- Worrying about losing someone or something important.