5/24/2012

Alpha Female Body Language 101


Here are a few pointer to becoming a confident female. i.e. An Alpha female is a Queen not a princess with silly issues.

Before I get to my points here is what the Alpha animal has that the rest don't...

The alpha animals are given preference to be the first to eat and the first to mate; among some species they are the only animals in the pack allowed to mate. Other animals in the community are usually killed or ousted if they violate this rule.

 Are you an Alpha Female or not? The following will highlight what you need to become one.



She always makes eye contact

First, let’s start with eye contact. Don’t freak him out, but make eye contact, let him know you are confident. In making eye contact, you are not only showing him that you are alpha, but you are making a connection.

Good posture

Keep good posture: In keeping good posture, you are displaying confidence, and health. If you did not have good posture, that would display maybe someone who is a bit older, less confident, or un-healthy. Go ahead and work on that posture!

use space

 Don’t be afraid to grab control of  space. To use the space around you states that you are an alpha female. You can start by putting the hat in the chair next to yours. Show him that chair belongs to you.

stand right

 Stand with your feet shoulder width apart, or more, just try not to look like you are trying to do the splits. You get my drift.

calm

 Alpha females are cool, calm, and collective. They are happy, and confident. Confident is good, but never become cocky. An alpha female doesn’t lose her cool, and is capable of handling the most difficult of situations.

Take center stage

 An alpha female will stand in the middle of a room, and chat with others if she chooses. So, go ahead, and stand in the middle of the room!
Controlled pace
 Don’t make jerky movements; don’t walk fast as if you are in a hurry. Pace yourself and glide across the floor with grace. If you think about someone you know making quick movements, as if they are in a hurry all of the time, it doesn't seem like it’s an alpha female trait, does it?
Don't complain  Don’t complain! An alpha female does not complain about every little detail in their life

keep your head up

Don’t walk with your head down! Keep your head up!

hands

Keep your hands out of your pockets!

speak

Speak at your own pace, and use the right tone of voice. Don’t speak quick, screech, or use gibberish.

Smile often with confidence

 Smile, make sure your eyes crinkle a little, and  show your pearly whites, so it looks genuine. A true flirt smiles naturally but please don’t do it all the time, or you will make us men  wonder.

Traits

Alpha females are intelligent , independent, and happy. They do not get  their feathers ruffled to easy, they don’t slander others, and they are comfortable in their own skin. They attract the right type of people into their life, and are generally successful. An alpha female knows how to be confident, not cocky. She expresses what is on her mind, with grace. An alpha female is on the top of her game, and everyone else's. It is hard to fool an alpha female.
She is someone that can handle herself in any given situation, and knows how to mix compassion into her life, without being weak. She is a true leader. A woman of her word. An alpha female will not break under pressure, and because of her psychological strength, she is often the one others go to for advice and support. She doesn't talk in an awful manner about others. An alpha female is wise beyond her years. An alpha female is true to her friends, and true to herself.
She is well mannered,at peace with her life, and very independent. She has pride, and she is happy with herself.
If you know an alpha female, be glad you met her. Alpha females as friends are true. An alpha female has a bond that lasts in thick, and thin. An alpha female will never betray someone that is close to them. Alpha females are rare, strong, graceful ladies.
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