5/23/2012

How to Date an Alpha Female, are you scared?


My K.I.S.S approach to meeting and dating an Alpha female. Make sure you are ready by following these 4 simple steps. 
Step One: Show her you’re not intimidated
Two of the main traits beautiful women are attracted to in men are power and self- confidence.So if a man is intimidated by a woman’s looks or status, she assumes he’s going to be intimidated by the world in general.  So you can make a powerful impression on a successful woman by simply approaching her with confidence and treating her as an equal. Make sure you leave a lasting impression. 
Step Two: Avoid clever pick-up lines
The less clever the opening line the better.Why? For starters, pick-up lines are unoriginal and usually pretty corny. Plus—if she’s as alluring as you think she is—she’s most likely heard it all before. Instead, open with a question about anything you can see, hear, taste, touch, or smell in the environment, . If you’re at a bar, ask her about what drink she’s having or inquire about other good spots in the area. Anything that gets her to respond is key because it’ll provide instant conversation. Just remember the K.I.S.S approach, Alpha males are never corny, try making her smile with smooth compliments not corny jokes.

Step Three: Don’t put her on a pedestal
If you’re approaching a woman who’s extremely successful, the last thing she wants is to be treated the way her employees treat her. Powerful women want a partner who is going to challenge them and make them feel like a woman, as well as an equal. Translation: Don’t be a suck up. If you’re impressed by her accomplishments, tell her—but don’t ramble on
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Warning signs to look for.
Even if your date isn’t decked in rouge, there are other dead giveaways that show she’s craving your company. Here are two more subtle signs she’ll drop that you need to pick up on, pronto.
She holds your gaze for a few seconds. Her arms are positioned to indicate that she likes you. If her arms are crossed she does not.
Step Four: Don’t put yourself down
Another thing to avoid in conversation: How much more she has achieved than you. “It’s crucial to keep in mind that relationships do not revolve around money, or comparing successes with one another. Putting yourself down or talking about how much more of “X” she has than you do just makes you look insecure.  Instead, highlight your attributes. Are you a killer runner? Bring up the marathon you’re currently training for. Are you a passionate cook? Then talk about that incredible dish you prepared for your friend’s cookout. (Bonus points if you ask her if you can cook for her.) And if you do in fact get those bonus points. Close the deal with signature dish she will never forget. My grilled spicey-chicken-kebab with green peppers never failed me.It will make her mouth water. 

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