Signs You’re Destined To Be Together

 

5 SIGNS YOU’RE DESTINED TO BE TOGETHE

Being crazy in love is one of the most magical experiences in our lives. Questions rise when you meet someone new: 

To stay or not to stay? Is s/he the one or not? Are we compatible? Can this be my soulmate? You don’t always know if you are 

“meant for each other.” So how do you answer those questions? Sometimes the answer is just as simple as stepping back and

 opening your heart to what’s in front of you.

HERE ARE 5 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE DESTINED TO BE TOGETHER:

1. YOU CAN BE VULNERABLE.

When you allow yourself to open up, you are living authentically. You get to be raw and real. There is beauty in accepting 

your flaws and those of your partner. Owning each other’s full stories is freeing. It’s in that vulnerability that

 true love flourishes. If you can share and bear your soul without feeling scrutinized or criticized, this person is a keeper.

“What happens when people open their hearts? They get better.” ~ Haruki Murakami

2. YOU RESPECT EACH OTHER.

Mutual appreciation requires a mature level of trust and respect. Respect requires honesty. The truest form of love is how 

you behave with another in a relationship. In that state of respect, you get to share things that you wouldn’t tell anyone. 

Respect is earned. When you are in a relationship that provides safety and security, you have found someone special.

“The moment you put someone on a pedestal they will look down upon you. The trick is respecting each other equally.” 

~ Teresa Mummert

3. YOU ARE NOT JEALOUS.

You crave time with each other, but also require ample space. There is no jealousy in the relationship because you still 

remain individuals. There is no strain about past insecurities because you feel at ease with (and without) each other all the time. 

You spend time apart with friends, and each time you reconnect, it is rewarding. There is no co-dependency or possessiveness. 

You crave to be with each other, but you recognize it is important to have freedom of expression and separate interests.

“Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their 

dark, starless nights.” ~ Shannon L. Alder

4. YOU LAUGH TOGETHER.

Being silly comes naturally. You can poke fun at each other. Laughter is ever-present in your relationship. Many times,

 these type of relationships start as friendships. You value each other enough to be yourself. It’s a healthy place. 

If you can laugh at yourself with your partner without holding back the sarcasm, you have something that is beyond special. 

These types of relationships are destined to endure.

“No one can be your sun, moon, or stars until you have your own world.” ~ K. M. Docherty

 

 

5. YOU RAISE EACH OTHER UP.

The two of you help each other reach the best possible versions of yourselves. You become explorers and adventurers 

in finding ways to bring joy to one another. You accept everything about each other without feeling judged or judging.

 It’s in these types of relationships that the best is enhanced. If your relationship is based on admiration and inspiration 

for each other, you have found a gem.

What exactly is squirting?

 

One of the biggest urban legends in the history of sex is the concept of “squirting.” This has sparked some of the most consistent inquiries such as: Is it real? Can all women do it? Is it pee? The list of questions is endless. When it comes to squirting people tend to fall into one of several categories; those who’ve experienced it, seen it in porn, or simply heard about it. In fact, according to data collected by Pornhub, from 2010 to 2017 searches for “women squirting” drastically increased. Which means you’re definitely not alone in your curiosity about squirting.

What exactly is squirting? It's not twirking!

So, let’s break it down! There is a lot of debate surrounding what squirting actually is, but one thing that we do know is that it involves the Skene gland. The latest research found that squirting is actually a gush of fluid coming out of the urethra created in the Skene’s gland. The Skene’s glands are located on the upper wall of the vagina, near the lower end of the urethra. 

So now we know why people would ask, “Wait, so is squirting pee?” 

Some researchers say yes while others say no. What’s been proven is the fluid released during squirting does contain traces of urine and other fluids.  

Can all women squirt? 

Well, that’s unclear. It’s estimated that between 10 and 50 percent of women squirt during sex, according to The International Society for Sexual Medicine. Some experts believe all women can squirt, with the right technique, amount, and type of penetration. For a lot of women, squirting often goes unnoticed. Unlike in porn, some women only squirt a small amount of fluid. According to a 2013 study of 320 participants, the amount of fluid released can range from approximately 0.3ml to more than 150ml. That’s anything from a few drops to half a cup.

How do you squirt?

Some women squirt involuntarily, while others can do it on command. Some experience it with every sexual encounter and others once in a blue moon — or not at all. No matter where you fall on the squirting spectrum the key to squirting is the G-spot. 

Stimulating the G-Spot is the secret sauce to squirting.You can find your G-spot by sticking a finger in your vagina and making a “come hither” motion. You’ll know you have located the spot if you feel a small ridged area along the front of your vaginal wall. You can also use a toy. G-spot toys are perfect for both solo or partnered exploration because, let’s be honest, fingers get tired, and rarely are penises enough (just saying). 

G-spot toys are specifically made with a curve that hits your G-spot in a nice pleasurable way.  Being on top also helps when trying to squirt. Woman-on-top positions—whether you’re facing or reverse cowgirl-ing it — helps you control the angle of the penis and helps to hit the spot just right.

Fun fact: 

You don’t always need internal stimulation to make yourself squirt, you can squirt solely from clitoris stimulation. The G-spot is part of your clitoral network, which means that when you’re stimulating the G-spot, you’re actually stimulating part of the clitoris. So when you touch your clitoris you will be indirectly stimulating your G-spot as well. 

Squirting is a fun addition, it’s not the end all be all to sex. It’s important to remember to not get fixated on it if it’s not coming easily for you. Plenty of people have extremely satisfying sex lives to inlcude amazing orgasms without ever squirting. 

final thoughts

Always be careful  who you are trusting  with personal information!

Try Sexting, which  can be a bit awkward if you’ve never done it before, don’t know what to say, or don’t know what your partner likes. Fortunately for you, as your Fairy Sexting Godmother, I have you covered on how to sext successfully. Sexting is indeed a skill, but like most skills in life, it can be learned. In fact, most adults are already doing it. According to American Psychological Association, 88 percent of adults reported sexting in the past year. Sexting just isn’t for teenagers anymore. I am a firm believer that if you’re going to do something might as well do it right. So here are some tips on how to sext with confidence. (You’re welcome.)

Always Get Permission

Make sure your partner likes to sext. Unsolicited dirty texts can be a turn off if your partner is not into it or if it’s an inappropriate time–read the room. If you’re not sure what your partner is up to, send a simple “Hey, you busy?” text to let you know if it’s a good time. So be sure to get consent first. Consent is always key.

‍Use as sexting as Foreplay

‍Sexting is an excellent way to add some spice to your relationship. Sexting can build anticipation until both of you are together in person. Think of it as one long session of foreplay until you get to touch each other. Get the build up going until it’s time to go down. 

Protect Your Yourself      It’s important when sending compromising text or nudes to always protect yourself.  There are multiple apps nowadays such as Snapchat that automatically delete messages after they are read. You can use apps that store your nude pics in a separate folder. Use the “no face, no case” rule to safely send nudes. If you are sending photos, avoid identifying features like your face, tattoos, birthmarks, or unique jewelry.