How Women Can Benefit from What Men Want

You know I want you more and more
when you smell this good

What men should always remember women love words of affirmation... it's their love language. 

What men crave most from women might not surprise you. Many women think that men just want to have sex, and yes, some of us do, most of the time. But there's a deeper aspect to this longing.
So what do men want in a relationship? The truth is that men's and women's needs are very different.
But if both men and women can work together to satisfy their cravings, then we can make this a more harmonious and pleasurable world.

There won’t be a big divide between the sexes.

You’ll find a place to meet in the middle, and everyone will benefit.

You see, I imagine a world where men are the gatekeepers. We are benevolent protectors and hold space for women to claim true sensual and sexual divinity.

Sounds kind of idealistic, but that’s my dream. So, what do men want? What do they crave, and how can women benefit when this craving is satisfied?

Men are often believed to be selfish lovers, and this happened for a reason.

This world has been patriarchal for over the last 2,000 years. The white male has been the dominant authority. The structures and systems in our society have been based on a white man’s point of view, and mainly have only taken his needs into consideration.

With the advent of the coronavirus, the ensuing lockdown, and the literal collapse of society, you're witnessing the ending of this male-dominated era. Things are changing. Structures are changing. Relationships are changing.

The (now old) patriarchy affected sexual relationships.

Men have been catered to.

Men’s sexuality is much more physical, whereas a woman’s sexual response system is more emotional and sensual. Yes, these are generalities, but because of the way males and females have been socialized, this isn't far from the truth. But that's changing.

Men have been selfish lovers.

Pornography is rampant on the internet, and sex and the selling of sex is a big industry. Prostitution is one of the oldest professions.

There's also a double standard in society and culture saying it’s OK for men to be sexually promiscuous, but a woman is considered a whore if she sleeps around.

A woman expressing her sexuality must show restraint.

But what a man craves is
more than just a dutiful wife.

That's an unspoken societal rule. And sexual duty is a common plight of women.

So, women get stuck satisfying their man, and the couple's sexual relationship becomes nothing more than satisfying him.

He goes to bed at night, starts pawing on his wife, and they engage in sex. He gets it over pretty quickly with a few slobbery kisses, rolls over, and falls asleep.

Maybe she gets up and cleans herself up. And then she finds she can’t fall asleep that easily because something in her was awakened, but she has no idea what it was. She’s not connected to her body nor her divine feminine essence.

I read somewhere that intimacy bonds a couple like no other

Final thoughts

Being in a relationship, what do you value the most? Maybe having similar hobbies is good if not crucial to you in order to be in a relationship with someone.

Regardless of what you believe is most important, know that a healthy sex life can be incredibly rewarding. Especially when you know all of the health benefits of sex. Men who have sex often with their woman have healthier postates. Women who have sex often are happier than women who obstain from having sex. Sex significantly aids your mental health. Making love can give the immune system a boost  and healthy levels of sex can help lower risk of cancer and heart problems too.