There are a number of ways a woman can tell if a man seriously wants her in his future

 That moment when you are caught staring at her Assets?

That look she gives you when she catches you drooling.

She will catch you staring at her with a look of awe, a warm look captured by her beauty and wanting that beauty all to yourself.

Men are not touchy people but they become so when wanting to secure a woman. He will insist on hugging her, he’ll find his hand brushing her skin, holding her waist. When she and him walk their bodies will bump on to each other showing comfort and trust. Read his body language

 There will be questions on his face. She will feel at peace with him but sense there is something more he is not saying. Questions such as: when do I propose to her? Am I doing a good job loving her? Does she know how much she means to me?

 “He will not rush her into sex”

She will not feel any pressure to have sex with him because sex is not all he is after. After all, if they will have a future together there will be plenty of sex for them ahead.

 “He will ask  many questions”

A man who is interested in a woman will study her. He will want to know who she is, why she is and how she does things. She will feel searched out, women love a man showing interest.

“He will handle her past”

A man keen on building her future will seek to understand her past, her past explains why she is the way she is. Her battles will become his battles, her joy his joy.

“He will not pretend”

A serious man has no time to pretend to be a man he is not, he wants her to know him for who he truly is.

 “He will build her up”

Because he sees her in his future, as his wife; he will not hesitate to correct her when she wrongs, confront her when she strays, direct her to opportunities or challenge her to be better.

 “He will hint at a future together”

If she carefully listens, she’ll notice him hinting at a future together whether directly or indirectly. He will ask hypothetical questions that suggest a husband and wife scenario, trying to pick her mind on what her desires about marriage and parenthood are.

“He will not spoil her at the expense of her future”

A man who is working on a stable future will not waste his wealth today just to please the woman. He will not take a loan to impress her or go into debt to win her. He would rather enjoy today with her within his limit as he invests in a better future.

 “He will allow her to  love him”

A man who is serious about love will allow himself to be vulnerable to the woman to empower her to show him love. When he is lost, discouraged, down, in need of assistance, broke or hurting he will lean on her and confide in her. Her love will be the oasis he runs to.

 “He will appear as a father figure and husband”

The more she looks at him the more he will look like a husband and father in waiting. He will handle her like his wife even though they are not yet married. Faithfulness will be unheard of, disrespecting her will not be an option

“He will include her in his decision making”

Because he wants her to have a stake in his future, he will seek her opinion before making a move.

 “He will get to know her family and friends”

He will slowly fix himself in her friends and family circle. He wants to appear as the man making in roads to her heart, he will not hide from the people he could be interacting with a lot in the future.

Final thoughts

Ladies, have you ever dated someone you thought was “the one” only to find out months or even years into the relationship that they had no intention of making it official?

It’s heartbreaking, isn't it!

It’s the kind of news that can leave you reeling for a long time and cause you to distrust new partners from the very beginning.

All of a sudden, you’re one of those women who is asking if he wants to get married and have kids on your first date so that you don’t waste any more time on him if he’s not interested in the same things you’re interested in.

It’s tough, Right?.

But to avoid looking like you’ve got a one-track mind and to make sure you protect your heart, here are some signs to help you see whether or not he’s in this for the long haul or just messing around for a while.

There are signs jam-packed with insightful information about how he really feels and what he wants.

Men don’t usually tell someone they love them unless they want a relationship with them, and they’re confident that their love interest loves them back.

So you can be sure he wants a relationship with you if he is telling you he has feelings for you.

However, don’t be too disheartened if he doesn’t tell you he has feelings for you.

Why?

Because not all men are honest with their feelings. And that’s normal.

It doesn’t mean he doesn’t want a relationship.

You just need to build trust and rapport before he feels comfortable enough to tell you how he feels.

And you’re going to have to pick up on the signs to figure out if he wants a relationship with you.