So how does a man instantly recognize a good woman

 

the question one might ask is.... If a man has to go through a journey to become a good man.. what does a woman have to go through to become "a good woman?" Does it just come naturally to women? Or does she have to deal with the hard knocks of life ? You see things are so different for men and women. Men evaluate women, thinking how "will she serve Me, best" and if she has a history of service then the guy might not  want to deal with her bagage.  

Since we are social Distancing,
 I will tell  you how  I define a good woman.

“No man succeeds long term without a good woman behind/beside him. Wife or mother, if it is both, he is twice blessed!"

Let me start by saying... I'm not going to claim to be able to do the recoginzing  instantly.... But since I have known good women pretty much  all my life I 've come up with about 11 points that I have used in the past, to evaluate a potential mate.

He eyes shows her history the brighter her eyes the more pleasant her journey.

The following are the things most men want in order to classify a woman as a "Good woman"

• 1. She inspires you to be a better person. A good woman elicits positive energy that makes you feel you are capable of doing anything. ...
• 2. She understands your differences. She’s a woman who will not drag issues in your relationship when you have fights. She will explain herself to clarify any misunderstanding. ...
• 3. A good woman is your biggest fan. She can equal or surpass your best friend when it comes to being your biggest fan. ...
• 4. She makes you feel lucky to be with her. Because of her positive energy, you feel that you’ve hit the jackpot knowing she chose you out of all other ...
• 5. She’s not insecure. She’s not the type who will get easily jealous if she sees you talking to a woman or if you have a good relationship with your ...
• 6. A good woman won’t do things to make you feel jealous. ...
• 7. She has her own goals but she regards your relationship as a team. ...
• 8. She allows you space. A good woman won’t cling to you, smother you, and depend on you all the time. She gives you space to pursue your own interests. ...
• 10. She gets along with your friends and family. A good woman is someone who gets along with the people who have known you before you even met her. ...
• 11. A good woman doesn’t have unreasonable relationship expectations.. 

Final thoughts: there are no exact standards that define a good woman. As such, you might not recognize that you have this woman in your life when your relationship is still young. However, you will see some subtle signs that will tell you being with this woman is probably the best choice you have made in your life.