After a divorce she might just wants a male friend to talk to!

Divorcing after some  years of marriage can leave most women financially devastated maybe even almost homeless. Some  years later, she may emerges from the fog, but during those first few years she may have  made some embarrassing mistakes along the way. So she now wants a friend to talk to about it, not necessarily a new lover.. Although marriage and children may have been her goals .Once she  became smitten with a man, and a whirlwind romance resulted in a pregnancy after a few months of marriage  and baby number two soon follows. When both husband and wife  worked full time, and  grandmother may not be available to helped out with childcare..... as  many young couples are nervous about strangers watching their kids it's really tough on a couple,and can lead to stress in the relationship. this can result in adding to the stats 50 percent divorce rate. Unfortunately, it wasn’t meant to be. the pressures of modern day living may have taken  a physical and financial toll on  both individuals . Most of a woman's income may have paid for day care, transportation, and the smaller house bills. Her then  husband paid the mortgage (sometimes on time) and spent hundreds each month on gas,  and other expenses that were not in their budget... just picture her having to carry the full load now. As her children — and their needs — grew, the few days a week she was required to be in the office, after the divorce, became a logistical nightmare. This is just an example of what a woman, who get divorce go through, so new men who are stepping to her..... after all that she has been through  need to understand and be patient and not force  the issue of a relationship.

Hey "Girl " who's your Daddy?

What??

Well it is most definitely not YOU A$$hole!

Are those kind of exchanges.... sound like something you have witnessed, well I have......

Women today have to deal with so much crap from the following types of men they run into:

she will identify them as the following:

1. Mr. " who are you really ..I don't really know you, I just met you!"
2. Mr. " You don't have the looks, I'm looking for"
3. Mr. " You are not established enough for me!"
4. Mr. " You are not what I dreamed of while  growing up"
5. Mr. " Is this the best you have done with your life?"
6. Mr. "you are not tall enough!"
7. Mr. " I can't bring you home to my folks"
8. Mr. "what country are  you from?"
9. Mr. " Can't you wear a better class of clothing?"
10.  Mr. " why don't you own your one home yet?"

And the list is endless ...the real  truth is....... (he) is not ... and will never be your "Daddy" He is not who you will belong to at no point in your life (from a parent and child    perspective). The fact that "he " could ask you that Question shows that your responses could  qualifies or disqualifies him..... to control you, own you, Imprison you... OK......maybe you just have that invisible sign on your forehead stating:"  I'm looking for you to do the following for me... i.e. "Will you Be my Daddy!"

Now this  is my BAD perspective....Ladies, ladies ladies if you are not doing any of the above qualifiers then you are looking for a potential mate a Partner , to Stand by  Me/You   kind if  a man. not a Daddy figure with Deep pockets, Sugar Papa, etc.... If you had a daddy in you life ad even if you didn't have one, while growing up, you shouldn't be looking for One when you are a grown woman.

Please allow me be to be as candid as possible. Women don't need a "Daddy" no more than men need a " Mommy!"   Now you can give each other those nick-names when  you have children together because you want the kids to mimic what you call their father and mother etc....

So get your lives in order so that you don't have to deal with a subordinate positioning your relationships- you should be partnering with your man, and you both  should b "Holding it down" as two  adults.