Hey "Girl " who's your Daddy?

What??

Well it is most definitely not YOU A$$hole!

Are those kind of exchanges.... sound like something you have witnessed, well I have......

Women today have to deal with so much crap from the following types of men they run into:

she will identify them as the following:

1. Mr. " who are you really ..I don't really know you, I just met you!"
2. Mr. " You don't have the looks, I'm looking for"
3. Mr. " You are not established enough for me!"
4. Mr. " You are not what I dreamed of while  growing up"
5. Mr. " Is this the best you have done with your life?"
6. Mr. "you are not tall enough!"
7. Mr. " I can't bring you home to my folks"
8. Mr. "what country are  you from?"
9. Mr. " Can't you wear a better class of clothing?"
10.  Mr. " why don't you own your one home yet?"

And the list is endless ...the real  truth is....... (he) is not ... and will never be your "Daddy" He is not who you will belong to at no point in your life (from a parent and child    perspective). The fact that "he " could ask you that Question shows that your responses could  qualifies or disqualifies him..... to control you, own you, Imprison you... OK......maybe you just have that invisible sign on your forehead stating:"  I'm looking for you to do the following for me... i.e. "Will you Be my Daddy!"

Now this  is my BAD perspective....Ladies, ladies ladies if you are not doing any of the above qualifiers then you are looking for a potential mate a Partner , to Stand by  Me/You   kind if  a man. not a Daddy figure with Deep pockets, Sugar Papa, etc.... If you had a daddy in you life ad even if you didn't have one, while growing up, you shouldn't be looking for One when you are a grown woman.

Please allow me be to be as candid as possible. Women don't need a "Daddy" no more than men need a " Mommy!"   Now you can give each other those nick-names when  you have children together because you want the kids to mimic what you call their father and mother etc....

So get your lives in order so that you don't have to deal with a subordinate positioning your relationships- you should be partnering with your man, and you both  should b "Holding it down" as two  adults.