Are you holding it down like you should*

I got you babe,  I will hold it down until you can carry the load again!

We men of the 21st century are very vulnerable to many of the ills of the World we live in today, mainly economically and  socially.

Our women are having a bit  more success in the work market, than many of men.. and that could be messing things up between couples. Even if you are just dating lacking resources is making it difficult for men to feel like men. in the relationships. 

So what is a woman to do when her man is down in the dumps about his personal finances etc... ? 

Check yourselves if you are doing any of the following: 

You Have a Permanent Pout

Why are  you scowling?

If you’re in a relationship and you find yourself scowling a little too often, it could be time to rethink your life. Good loving from a great guy should be enough to turn any frown upside down. However if he is feeling your, frustrations then you are adding to his more than you realize. 

You're Slacking on Personal Upkeep

If you’re behind on your, private, landscaping, you definitely haven’t gotten any action in awhile. Assuming that your man is not noticing that you are not being your best for him... he may be feeling like you are quieting on him already because of his situation.   Don't make matters worse by not looking your best for him.

You're Picking unnecessary fights

What are we fighting about again?

It’s been proven that a lack of sex can make men and women more irritable over all. If lately you’re the one who’s always starting something and being moody. Try romancing him instead of scolding him for what ever, an extra romp or two with your boo could help, cope with the stresses.

You're Going Through the Motions

If the work week’s are starting to blur an you can’t remember whether it’s Tuesday or Friday you may need a little more late night loving to look forward to.

You Feel Like Something is Missing,so you show disgust

Just a little alone time is needed here!

Your relationship was going strong and you were both on cloud nine all the time. Then something changed and you just can’t put your finger on it. There could very well be a little “tension” between you. Plan a getaway and do nothing  “de-stressing” while you’re there.

You're About to Go Off at the drop of a hat.

If you find yourself minutes from telling a certain someone exactly what’s really on your mind, and it looks like the people you love are tiptoeing around you, it might be time to assess: When was the last time you had a little “release”?

All the above are understandable when you are frustrated but, think about how frustrating in must be for the person on the receiving end..... the man who can fix things because of lack of resources.