Who is deeper you, my lady..... or the dude you are probing.

are you ready to take the test? Are you?

My responses are in Italic. following each statement.



The deeper you are, the harder it becomes for you to find someone who wants to have a relationships with you. You can go out on a lot of dates but at some point the relationship fails to progress any further and that is mainly

because of the intensity of your depth. Not every man is strong enough to handle a deep woman.

Here’s why:

1. A deep woman asks deep questions. A deep woman will probe further into your life and ask questions that you may not be prepared to answer. Even on the first date, she will dig deeper and ask personal and philosophical questions – she will never enjoy a shallow conversation.
• This is OK.... if she is willing to answer the same types of questions... of a man  digging into her life and philosophies. A man can be as open as a woman is willing to be... "Keeping it real" is a multi-lane  information highway  .
2. A deep woman is honest. Too honest – often blunt.
   A deep woman takes her integrity seriously and one thing she believes in is honesty. If you ask her anything, she will tell you the truth and she expects the same from you.
• Fair enough! Men can  work well with women  who are upfront with their integrity. We men are not always sneaky and underhanded. So if she is upfront and forthcoming then we are on the right path to getting  to know each other.
3. A deep woman knows what she wants. Or who she wants.
   A deep woman knows right away if she likes you and doesn’t need to date around or explore her other options to be sure of her feelings. Her heart only beats for a special few people and she knows them right away.
• Well not all men are players...... some are even tired of all the games the dating game seems to be about these days.. Knowing what you want in a man... makes it even easier for the man ... he doesn't have to guess.... as much.
4. A deep woman wants a deep relationship.
   She wants long conversations about your life, she wants to hear stories about your past, she wants to understand your pain and she wants to add value to your life. She wants a real relationship that goes beyond going out and having fun.
• Oooh Wow, this is exactly what a straight-forward  guy wants... Questions that get personal is not meant to be used against him in a court of law... so if you are up to the task then women and men will both benefit from the knowledge gained. 
5. A deep woman is not afraid of intimacy.
   She is not afraid of getting closer or risking getting hurt in the process. She doesn’t think it will entrap her freedom or make her vulnerable. Her depth and intimacy go hand in hand and she will always cherish the beauty of intimacy in relationships
• Well say "hello" to the straight-up vulnerable intimate  conversations and truth telling ...because the stronger the truth is then there is not much room for lies in the mix.
6. A deep woman sees through you.
   She can see who you really are and what makes you vulnerable. She is not the one to hold back from pointing out what she sees in you or how well she can read you. Even though it makes you uncomfortable, she wants you to know that she understands you and that you can be yourself around her.
• When a man knows that a woman is not playing games.. he can relax. Zero  chance of "I got you"  true confession games.. Just straight up frank conversation.. Men may "cry in the Dark" but we don't want you women to accidently turn on the lights  and ask:" are you REALLY crying?" 
7. A deep woman craves consistency. She gets turned off by inconsistency or flaky behavior. She desires a strong connection and a solid bond and she knows that consistency is the foundation of that bond. A deep woman will not participate in the dating games.
• Okay...nothing makes a man run faster away ......than knowing he is about to be played like a fiddle by a female with and agenda.... So if you are not willing to be  "a payee" then straight-up men  are not going to play you. 
8. A deep woman is intense.
   She may be slightly intimidating because she brings intensity to everything she does. Her emotions are intense and so are her thoughts. She will never be indifferent about things that matter to her – not everyone is strong enough to handle her intensity.
• Hmmm.. when men know what they want  in a woman..... everything she brings is expectable...
9. A deep woman only knows how to love deeply.
   If you can’t love her deeply, she will walk away. She doesn’t know how to casually date someone she’s really into or be friends with someone she has feelings for. A deep woman knows when someone can’t meet her halfway and she will slowly detach herself from anyone who is not willing to give her the deep love she is looking for.
• Well Love can be as deep as the river or the ocean.. two people in-love will define how deep is deep enough.
10. A deep woman won’t wait for you.
    She will not wait for you to make up your mind or watch you be hesitant about her. She is strong and passionate and will not waste her emotions on someone who doesn’t appreciate their depth. Even though she is looking for a special kind of love, a deep woman is not afraid of being on her own
• Let's call it simple truth ... men who are still running around will hopes that the right woman would wait...are fools... Let's just say waiting.... for someone can be  him having to take care of business.. i.e. maybe like defending his country or finishing his divorce court case.... or even drilling for oil of the coast of Antarctica. 

K.I.S.S.... IT DOES NOT  have to be complicated.