What does S/he need?

Listen! I need lots of attention.......... can you handle that?

Some of us start of relationships doing somethings wrong... then we later want to change things.
Like all great truths the answers is surprisingly simple: To the degree you give others what they want, they will give you what you want!
It does seem incredibly simple. Perhaps it is, if you really understand it. But very few of us do!
For example, 1) The employer must give praise and recognition, First, then the employee will put forth the extra effort. 2) the parent and Teacher must express confidence in the child, First, then the child will produce better grades.
when we first give others what they want, then they will give us what we want. But wants and needs are totally separate. Wants are sometimes frivolous and unnecessary. Needs however, are deeper currents of one's existence. They're much more meaningful.
The following are some examples:

• People want sympathy, but they need empathy 
• People want riches, but they need fulfillment
• People want prestige, but they need respect
• People want adoration, but they need Love.

What do others need?

Start by looking within yourself for a clue.

What do I need ?

What I need , others need. and what others need, I will try and give First..!