Never under estimate what it takes to get to a man's heart!

Sometimes it's the simple things that grabs a man's attention.

Who knew that just chilling and being myself would get me noticed!

Genuine and true love is so rare that when you encounter it in any form, it’s a wonderful thing, to be utterly cherished in whatever form it takes.”
 – Gwendoline Christie

We all talk about love, (those wo have experiencedit at some point) and how we felt it at those points in time in our lives, but how exactly is love defined?

Love is about an expansion of the self whereby another person’s interests, values, social network, and finances become part of your life just as you share your resources with them. Love does not mean that you give up everything for another person. Rather, you possess sufficient trust to give them the keys to things that you can access, and grant that person equal access.

Ladies-----if you think it's special for you  to know a few things that men want a woman to do, to keep his interest ....Getting that special someone’s attention can be difficult in some cases. You want to show him that you’re everything he’s ever wanted and needed, but how? Actresses from romantic comedies have been doing it for ages, but translating that into the real world isn’t quite the same. There are some important things to remember when you’re looking to get a guy to fall in love with you. If you follow the right steps, you might   succeed. By doing the following:

BE YOURSELF.... NOT FAKE.

Clinical psychologist Merry Lin writes in her book ‘The Fully Lived Life’,Faking your way through life is believing that if you let people know the real you, they won’t like you. The tapes that play in your head (on replay) says that if people really knew what was going on inside you, they would lose respect for, and interest in you. While you play those roles, juggling those masks you have to wear and hiding your pain … the pressure increases to keep pretending you have it all together.

Therefore, none of this  connecting with someone will work if you’re pretending to be someone you’re not! You want the guy to fall in love with the real you, not someone you’re pretending to be. So, ditch your who/what ever character from the end of your favorite movie  persona and just be who you are.... it will yield you better results.

2. LOOK YOUR BEST, AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE

OK ,you might not have to go on a diet and change your hair to look your best. All you have to do is maximize your best features and make sure that you look as good as possible. Your beauty is unique, and may not need any major changes.

3. LISTEN AND TALK LESS

Having good communication skills is about more than being able to communicate effectively. It’s also about being able to actively listen.

No matter how bad things are, give a guy a chance to speak. We all tend to jump in with an opinion before we’ve heard each other out. Don’t scream, keep your cool: it makes a big difference, your tone makes a big difference. So often, things can be resolved/discussed by learning to listen.

Men can have a lot to say (surprise) and when you show that you can listen, men will be more inclined to say the things that matter.

4. LAUGHT- DO NOT GIGGLE

It’s proven that laughter is contagious. So, when you’re laughing, you’re setting off chemicals in a guy’s brain that feel good. It can be totally addictive. If you’re trying to attract a guy, laughter is the best way to draw him in and keep him wanting more.

5. HAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE

People with poor attitudes are often extremely negative and not fun to be around. Having a good attitude about things, especially when things might not be going right for you, is extremely attractive and charming. A guy is going to be drawn to your ability to stay positive, inspite of what you are going through.

Plus, by taking care of what you need to in your own life, you bring out a more positive attitude back into the relationship. The other person will start to treat you differently—without you having done anything major other than shifting to a positive energy in your own life.

6. BE SWEET NOT SOUR
Everyone has the ability to be a little mean –these days- but there’s no reason to be.... if you are attracted to someone! Turn off the part of your brain that wants to be catty and try being kind and sweet instead. Any guy will find that attractive. After all, you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.... can result in: "I'm so into you, let the feelings flow!"