Is Marriage for you? So what are your options?

If mind-blowing sex was all that you needed to make it works long-term then most relationships would last forever and even until death do you part. Many had  mind-blowing sex but could not make it last.

The divorce rate is almost 50%. So if it is that high,  why would you want to get married at all these days? If you are with the right person, marriage can be wonderful, that’s why! Being married can be like being with your best friend every  day. There are also some health benefits that go along with being married. 

1. More s*e*x: Married people generally have more s*e*x than people who are not married (despite the jokes that state as soon as you are married the s*e*x disappears). S*e*x is great for your health as it burns calories and releases endorphins.
2. Kids: Children see marriage as a solid foundation in which they can build their future relationships off of. Kids from a home where the  parents remain married have been shown, in studies, to have a fare life than those of divorces.
3. Support in the home: When you come home from a bad day at work, or when you have a new dream that you can share. It's the best when you have someone who willl listen to you in the home 
4. You are legally recognized as a couple everywhere not just in your circles, as opposed to people who live together. This makes a difference, at tax time, among other times. you want someone there who will support you or will let you cry on their shoulder. Venting your frustrations is a benefit to your health as bottling everything up can cause depression or stress.


It is pretty nice to have someone to share things with, without having to worry about  being taken advantage of. 
So what are your options if you are between the age of 30 and 48,  and you can't find that ideal person in your age group to walk down the ail with?
Here are a few things to consider: Try a  younger partners or older than yourself.
Warning: if you like the younger partners option you have to prepare by  having an exit strategy,
 Cougars and cubs

 So how often do these relationships really work well enough to  lead to marriage?

In the movies and with celebrities some of these relationships do last for some time. 5 to 10 years on the optimistic side,if you are compatible, (sounds like a jail sentence .)   But in real every day life of most average people, not that long. It can be fun for the Cougar for as long as the Cub is still  interested in herr but before long it might change as the cub grows more mature and becomes a lion.         Don't get me wrong I'm all for these relationships that grants a woman a period of time of happiness and living out her fantasies. We men do it for a life time with younger women, so why should a woman not  have the same kind of fun for a period of time...  As a matter of fact I like to encourage women to do it if they are not married by the time they hit 40. Get it out of your system, we know you are wondering If you can handle the excitement. Hurry up and do it  before you turn 44 and want to get married and settle down with a Lion who does not want to hunt for new prey any longer. 

 

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Lions and Kittens. 

Now here is where I know what I'm talking about. This is a Match made in heaven for us mature Lions. If you don't believe  me...... read the bible.  

 

A Lion will open doors for you.

To the mature Lion, a woman who is at least 10 years younger will always be his young beautiful bride (a special lady.) He will be proud to show her off to his friends, and will be the envy of his male friends. He will have the experience in taking care of a good woman's needs. especially if he was married for many years in his previous life. Just think: the best compliment a woman can receive is being told everyday from her very sincere mate that she is his" beautiful love Kitten." That will not change because he will mean it .... Let say if he is 50+ and the lady is 20 years younger. even when he is 90 she will be the young sexy kitten he fell in  Love with 40 years ago. You really can't go wrong here. If he takes care of himself he will take care of you, age is nothing more than a number to him. if the lady is 30+ and he is 50+ you match up well maturity-wise.... If he is youthful and playful then he will never get to be a boring old man. If he  stays focused on staying in good enough shape to satisfy your needs. So take the chance on a younger cub for the excitement in fantasy and then find the right Lion and settle down with, after, for a life of wedded bliss.   Checkout the look on this older dude's face in the picture. He has no regrets. and will not have any for years and years. A younger dude might be questioning did I make the right choice, he would be checking out your friends out of the corner of his eye.