Unconventional Habits That Supersede All Others in keeping a happy partnership.

We’ve all read a hundred and one posts on habits of happy couples. The lists look pretty much the same and talk about similar ideas. This list I have for you is very different. It’s the habits I’ve compiled from many married people who are still married and that I’d practiced and executed myself  for about 25 years, so I know they work. No rah-rah, quit expecting to get what you will not give  and look-at-how-awesome-your-life-is with-a-spouse. Just cold, hard habits that will hopefully scare the pants off you and make you take action, to avoid getting divorced! 

Adopt one of these habits, and you’ll see a significant change. Adopt them all, and you’ll probably join the club-of-most-happy-couples at some point in your life. Read the list of habits, laugh, and say maybe next year, and I’m willing to bet you will remain unfulfilled. The choice is yours. I’m here to inspire and guide you; the rest is up to you. 

If you walk in and she looks like this,
what do you do?

Here are  unconventional habits that supersede all others:

1. Believing in the impossible, regularly. (dream big together)
2. Doing what you say you will do.
3. Waking up and doing the things that need to be done.
4. Chipping away at your dream (hers/ yours).
5. Giving for no good reason. (flowers are cool, but be more original when ever possible)
6. Solving the communication problems. ( never stay mad)
7. Recharging with a trip to somewhere you've never been before.
8. Meeting for lunch once a week.
9. Coming from a place of love, always.

What you believe will determine most of how your life turns out. The number one habit you want to practice to be happy, fulfilled and successful it to believe that anything is possible. Drop the pessimistic mindset that society has ingrained in us and have hope. Have faith that anything that may seem impossible initially only needs a few, smart people and time to solve. I mean, if you are going to read at night, then this habit is kind of non-negotiable. (your partner should be doing their thing and give you your space) 

Lock eyes during orgasms!

What have you got to lose? The impossible is where all the joy lies, and it’s what 99.9 percent of people are not prepared to do. Do you want the results of the percent who believe in the impossible, or do you want to be like everybody else? The choice is yours. 

Everyone talks a good game, but doing what you say you will do is also rare. The habit you need to practice from now on is to talk only about things that you are actually going to follow through on. If you want to go even further and become a happy couple then add this simple habit on top: don’t just do what you say you will do, do more than partner expect you to deliver. 

Have you ever noticed how the things that will change your life  the most are so very straightforward? That’s because success and achieving your dream together isn’t as complicated as you may have thought. There’s plenty of hard work involved but not a lot of complicated unknowns that require rocket scientists to solve. 

put in the work before you have to deal
with all the other stuff the new day brings

Get your partner on the same page as you are. 

You’ve all seen the ‘early to rise’ tip on some list of successful habits, written on some website, somewhere in the world. Let’s drop the half-ass-ed approach though and get specific. Yes, you need to wake up early and service your partner. The question is, are you prepared to do something crazy, like wake up at 4 am? Four in the morning is when nobody else is awake and when you can do three times as much work. But it’s not about working harder. It’s about capitalizing on the time when you can be most productive and satisfy her/him before you do anything else that day.