Hold HER Hand.... and do things together!

Go Shopping With You (and Wait With the Bags)

Only a guy who's all-in will endure daylong shopping excursions and double as your boyfriend and butler. (Wink!)

This  is called "do onto others as you will have done onto you...." We guys hate being put in position that we hate.. however a special lady can have us doing cartwheels to make her happy.... But ladies when he want you sit and watch the Cavaliers VS Warriors NBA finals.... then it's your turn.    

Hold Your Hand
If your hand always has a warm and cozy spot inside his, trust us, he's already smitten.
Warm hands .... may be comforting but as the saying goes  "cold hands warm heart"... We can be  hot blooded.... but not always when you want us to be... and  neither are you, ladies!

Dream With You

A man who sees you as a permanent fixture in his future , ladies,  will dream aloud with you and invest as much time and energy into your goals as he does his own.

Times have changed ...  so fellahs.... she has dreams that are within her reach... where as you may have dreams that are far out of your reach.... help her get to her dreams and you both will benefit... yours may take awhile... and you will need her to help you get there 

Take A Bath With You

When you share a tub filled with bubbles and bliss, it's as intimate as it is romantic. If he wants to hop in the tub with you, let him and feel the love.

OK... thing about the benefits of rubbing soap all over her..... Her doing the same to you .... it's all good... So don't be a shower only type of dud... and miss out on the buildup to a wild after party.  

Show You Off On Social Media

When he's head over heels and proud of it, you'll make regular appearances on his social media feed.

The buzz  of the day is Social Media... if you are willing show that you are off the market... by posting That you are locked down, then you will give her the feeling that she has a  guy that is willing to stick around long term. 

Wash Your Hair

The gesture is as sensual as it gets and the ultimate bonding experience for two. Grab the shampoo and share that love.
Women  may have  experience things with other men, but this is special.... if you want he to thing about you every time she washes her hair..... then make a lasting impression by doing a good job  and condition her hair too. 

Keep Your Secrets and Share His

If he's willing to confide in you, his heart is wide open. Just be sure to return the favor.
LOL this goes in the column of "do it at your own risk".... she may think it wonderful that  she can share with you and not have to worry about hearing it on the street. But if you take the risk of sharing with her... you might be staying up at night wondering if her BFF knows something about you.. that you didn't want shared.  

Cook For You

Whether he can throw down in the kitchen or not, if he's willing to dirty a few pots and pans to surprise you with a home cooked meal, he's auditioning for the role of "keeper."

A single man that can't cook these days is dude that spends too much time and money in Restaurants... If you want to really impress her develop some cooking skills. 

Celebrate Your Presence in His Life

When a good man falls for a great woman, he's smart enough to know that's cause for celebration. If he values and cherishes your time with him, keep him close, ladies.

Develop a memory for good/great moment.. and celebrate every anniversary.. it could be monthly, Quarterly, annually.. so be like Nike "Just do it" and she will see you as the guy who swept her off her feet. 

Vacation With You

If he's already packing his bags for a romantic rendezvous with you, you've got this one in the bag, ladies.

Let face it unless he is a traveling salesman, men don't often have luggage at hand... So..... fellahs make sure your are ready to go at the drop of a hat.   Be spontaneous!

Share A Home With You

unless you've agreed to wait until marriage to share an address, a guy who's willing to go apartment or home shopping with you is showing that he's in it for the long haul.

This here... boyz is the lock-down of all lock-downs... Once you go here you have to figure it's for good. It's good  if it's your place she is moving too.. better if it's place you go out and find and agree to share... I will leave it there. Peace out!