There is just something about classy ladies in red Dresses!

Dating sucks in general, but it’s even worse for women who know what they deserve. After all, they can’t just  settle for someone decent when they know that they’re meant to be with someone very special. That’s one of the many reasons why dating is the worst for women with high standards.

1. they hate themselves for putting up with stupid boys instead of real men.
 Unfortunately, dating involves a lot of B.S.  around about who’s going to text first and who’s going to initiate the first kiss. Women hate themselves for letting men play those mind games and for spending so much time praying he’d call them. They  know they’re  better and deserve than that. 

2. Women with standards won’t settle for mediocre men.
 Women have friends who can pretend that their cheating boyfriends are good guys, but they can’t follow in their footsteps. The whole “ignorance is bliss” thing just doesn’t work for them. They won’t let themselves be blinded by some unreal  feelings.

3. They rarely find men worth dating.
 Most men in this century are lazy...well maybe not really lazy. They don’t want to put in the effort to make women feel special or to dress up when they go out to dinner. That’s why women's first dates hardly ever lead to second dates with a guy who will not go the extra mile to impress.

4. Some women come on too strong. 
Men are used to women skating around their feelings, which is why they can be a little thrown off when strong women tell them exactly what they’re looking for. But women also know what they want and aren’t afraid to let everybody know it. There’s nothing wrong with that, even though they think there is!  conflict of having to deal with what society

 will say..

5. They know someone better is always out there. 
Even if a guy seems nice, they’ll eventually find a flaw or two. Once that happens, some women won’t know whether to continue dating him or to toss him to the curb. We know no one is perfect, but classy  women also know they can do better.

6. Men aren’t used to women who won’t put up with their B.S. 
Men are used to women that they can manipulate in order to get sex. When women come around, they don’t know how to talk to them, or if they even want to talk to them, because they know these women aren’t going to let them to get away with murder in their eyes  like other women have.

7. Society actually criticizes women for having high standards.
 Whenever someone comments on how they’re “too picky,” what they’re really saying is that women should settle for someone, just so they can say they’re in a relationship.  some would rather be alone than in a relationship without real love.

8. They hold themselves to a higher standard, too. 
Some would say they’re perfectionists. Won’t leave the house unless their eyeliner is on point and we won’t arrive at a restaurant without topics prepared. These women try to be on their best behavior during dates, just in case the man they’re sitting across the table from happens to be their potential soul mate.

9. They  already love themselves.
Some men are intimidated by strong, independent women who don’t actually need a man to survive. Men want their women's lives to revolve around them, and that’s never going to happen with these types of ladies. Yeah that’s okay, because they're perfectly happy without a man.

Well all of the above was me trying to understand what women with standards are all about... I may not have gotten it right, but at least I tried to  picture what it's like being a high standards woman these days.  My best examples were women in my own family. Mostly career women, some found Mr. Right and got married and had kids... while  some never married and didn't have kid of their own... My own sister ( cousin raised by my parents) is one of these who never married and had a few joker knock on her door , who didn't make the grade, she just told them to get to stepping after awhile.... The questions she always got was: "how come you never got married, you were and still are very good looking woman..." Her answer remained the same "no jokers allowed!"