I love BWWM - Beautiful Women With Maturity

Do you think you are mature in relationships? Relationships can come with their own unique struggles, but there are some things that are universally immature and worth avoiding for a happier relationship.

Check out some things mature women don’t do in Good-relationships.

1. They Don’t Sacrifice Other Relationships

Many people drift apart from their friends during a relationship. While this is understandable during the initial ‘honeymoon’ period, it is important to remember that that your friends and family have been in your life for far longer than your new partner. Mature women make sure they have a happy balance between all of their loved ones.
Now you might think that mature men have these same above qualities.. I'm here to explain why many men do not have the above qualities.... We guys have friends, that we ran with..... back in the day... and even when we have matured these friends may still be BAD boys. ...  this can lead us.. not so Bad man, astray easily ,once the war stories start at  the weekly happy hour. The  conversation can cause triggers of maybe I still got it......and there is that fine lady at the end of the bar looking alone...... I'll just say hello.

2. They Don’t Forget To Thank Their Partner

After you have been in a relationship for a while, it can be easy to forget to appreciate all of the little things that they do for you. Mature women realize that sharing your life with someone is a gift – so don’t forget to say please and thank you!
Yes, guys who have good manners continue to have good manner...  if a guy was a gentleman in his best days he will not change much.. unless it is not appreciated. 

3. They Don’t Give Up Financial Independence

No matter how well off your partner is, completely giving up your financial independence can actually mean giving up your independence. Mature women don’t have to ask their partner for everything – it makes them feel proud and happy to be able to buy things with their own money.

The above is a blessing and a curse, because men do give up their financial Independence once they have met the woman they settle down with. What's his becomes hers.... but not Vice Versa,in the above case.  

4. They Don’t Focus On Their Partner’s Bad Traits

Mature women try to focus on their partner’s best traits rather than the negative ones. They focus on the good things their partner does and says, and they try not to judge their partner for their flaws, instead understanding that they too have flaws.

Okay! I have not met that woman yet.... who does not remind a guy of his BAD habits or what ever BAD things  he does in her eyes...over the years!

5. They Don’t Give Up Their Dreams

Mature women understand that a great relationship doesn’t drag you down – instead, it should bring out the best in you. A good relationship encourages you to pursue your dreams, and a mature woman would struggle to be happy in a relationship if she stopped following her dreams.

Cool, I hesitate to comment on this one.... Men often alter their paths to please the woman in their lives... his dreams may remain in his subconscious mind.... but her priorities become more important to him .. if he want's to keep her happy.  

6. They Don’t Think Their Version Of Happiness Is The Only One

Mature women understand that everyone’s idea of happiness is different. If their partner enjoys space, they give it to them, and if they enjoy affection, they give them that instead. Most importantly, they do not make assumptions about how to make their partner happy.
LOL, I must have not met her yet!

7. They Don’t Give Up Their Self Respect

It is normal to change slightly during a relationship, but mature women don’t allow their relationships to take away their self-respect. They don’t allow their partners to speak to them negatively or condescendingly – they expect their partner to treat them just as well as everyone else in their life.

Yes I agree.... but is it always mutual?  My experience with her tone of voice of tell a slightly different story... implying condescention to their man. 

8. They Don’t Take “I Love You” Lightly

Mature women understand the importance of those three words, so they work hard to keep the words special, no matter how long they have been with their partner. They don’t say ‘I love you’ at the end of every conversation – instead they say it at the right moments, to show their partner how much they appreciate them.

I can agree..... however it is also a way of putting a man on the spot.... if he is not being reciprocal then he is no longer viewed as her true love! 

this is what true love looks like!