THE BIOLOGICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTORS THAT AFFECT A WOMAN'S LIBIDO

I invited you here to do naughty things to you,

like a spider playing with a fly!

While it is true that women can and do enjoy full sex lives at every age, their physical response to lovemaking and requirements for pleasure evolve. “ women’s bodies and libidos change as they age due to a variety of biological, psychological and social factors that come into play in their lives,” Here’s what you  should know about how sex changes as women age.

She might not even want to wait for the man to propose!

In her 20s, her body’s natural drive to procreate heightens her libido, but not every twenty-something is a volcano of sexual energy. “Women in their twenties can experience low sex drives. When they do, it is often due to hormonal birth control, which can lower their libido and cause moodiness and vaginal dryness. speaking with a health care provider to rule out any other possible causes is recommended.

In her 30 

Dude you hit the spot all spots that made my toes curl. Want to do it again, I’m game!

By the time they reach their thirties, most women have hit their sexual strides. They know what gets them going, and they’ve become more vocal about asking for it. However, this period of increased confidence also coincides with increased responsibilities. At this point, women’s lives often become more complicated as careers, husbands/long-term partners and kids come into play. Sex may not be as frequent as it was in their twenties. Also testosterone begins to naturally dip during this period, which can have an impact on sexual desire. Communication with your partner becomes crucial. Being forthcoming about your needs and feelings can increase support and intimacy between the two of you. And taking time to connect with herself and show herself a little grace can help boost her sexual self-esteem.

You still got  it, Sir!

The forties and fifties bring a set of hormonal changes as women enter perimenopause and menopause. During this time the ovaries gradually stop producing estrogen, which impacts her libido, mood and the vagina itself. Women may find that they are not as easily aroused, are less sensitive to touch and may not be as lubricated, which can make sex uncomfortable or painful. But just because the motor may need a bit more priming doesn’t mean it’s time to put it in cold storage. The more sex you have during this period, either partnered or solo, the less likely women are to experience the sexual challenges and vaginal changes that occur during menopause. Which is a good thing, Women in this chapter of their lives [and later] still have fulfilling sex lives. In fact, the National Social Life, Health, and Aging Project found that about 85 percent of women age 57 to 64 were in some type of romantic relationship and almost all involved some type of sexual activity.

Final thought

We men better take notes as to which stage a woman is in, if we want to be happy and make her happiest. So, Do your own research there is no one size fits all situation. If you have experience with women you should know that using the one size fits all approach can deprive  both of you of satisfaction. In times of uncertainty, let your heart carry you in the right direction! If your default setting is set to “truth”. Then humans have to work very hard to disbelieve something about you.

***Note: Bodies have electromagnetic charges that stretches out about ten feet. 

I'm ready to go to bed
if you are ready to service me!