she is an overthinker so come correct.

Sorry, I don’t have  time for  your B.S.

The men who get into a relationship with women who are overthinkers better be ready to come direct and correct. 

Here is why…. Women who are overthinkers do serious Analysis considering more than just a few scenarios.

Guys, You have to be extremely direct and forthcoming with over-thinkers, here is why, their minds think of too many different scenarios and they start analyzing each of them, one after the other,

I’m not over thinking this, you should have given 

it more thought before talking to me about it.

Behind every great relationship are difficult and uncomfortable conversations we rarely get to see. Great relationships don’t just fall into our laps.They require people to move through their fears and insecurities and do the hard work to move wounds into healing. ~Vienna Pharson

Deep conversations with the right person are priceless. So having a conversation with an overthinker can be very cost effective. You will get an in depth analysis on the subject matter. A worthwhile investment in time. 

If you don’t have patience to deal with an overthinker then just bail before you even get started.

You can’t convince her to come along just to get along.

Final thoughts 

Women are often better communicators than men. Women just practice more therefore making them better at it. If a man is not a good listener then he better not start a conversation with an overthinker. Here again is the problem, you don’t get to look and see an overthinker, because she is not presenting that label on her forehead. A man’s best bet is to study her interactions with friends, from a distance, before approaching her because she is almost never very transparent, her thoughts are her weapon that she will use against you if she has the option.

Assuming what we see is the truth.

What we see in our World is a mirror of what we have in our minds. ~ unknown

“nice, hot and sexy,”

Let’s picture for one minute that what we are seeing is not what it really is. Men and women see things differently, Without a doubt men are visual, we see, we like we chase,period. While women see what they like, and then hope they will attract what they have just configured in their minds. 

-A man will see a woman and thinks “nice, hot, very sexy,” and he goes after her with a hunter’s mindset, maybe he has  a chance with her but he has little or no idea if she will accept his advances or reject him.

- A woman will see a man and think” tall, well built, looks daching” and she sets her attraction vibes in motion. She is not sure if he will be attracted to her or not. 

“I guess that 'come get me' vibe worked”

That assumption is what makes women seem like they want to be chased and hunted.

The laws of nature are so complicated.

The mirror of what both gender see is so different, because our minds are different.

As we try to figureout what is the best approach is to meet eachother in the middle, we have to first understand what it is that makes connect and why making the wrong moves can be fatal to a potential connection. A jokercard  has no counter part.He may connect for short period of time but will not last, because the Queen want a King…. And do not want to waste time with a joker. King wants a King and does not want wast time chasing an illusion.  

The RTL(Ready To Love) series on Youtube  

actually mades  a complicated situation, seem like it is so very easy.

Final thoughts

Hallucinations are sensations that appear to be real but are created within the mind. Examples include seeing things that are not there, hearing voices or other sounds, experiencing body sensations like crawling feelings on the skin, or smelling odors that are not there.

 

    

I hate the term Ride or die!

"I'm your ride or die , boo"

Is there "really" a blessing in every lesson?
People each want to have power. Men and women. If a man chooses a woman, he is telling her you are "the one" however in the 21st century women want to also choose who they want, Are you RTL Ready To Love, If you are not ready to receive Love then just being chosen, has no value. You are energy (Vibe) so how you are shaking is what will attract the right energy. Women read men and men chase based on looks. Being on the market for a long time makes it even harder, for some women.

where has she been  all of my life.

He has the greatest looking package

                                  

But when you bring the right energy to the mix you can have what others have with someone you  chose, women are not going to wait for you forever. Warning  women tag situations as "red flags"  Let's face it times have changed and when you hesitate  you might lose just because she "assumes" you  can't make up your mind you don't know what you want.  When you got it together you might see how receptive  she might be. Her body language is telling you she is a RTL woman. If you are sceptical then talk to her in real live situations leave the drama on the back burner. She will not tell you "her life history" until she ready to share with you. Men want to know, so men, don't ask unless you are ready to listen without judging.  If you work on your question... ask yourself how would you react to the question if it was asked of you.

We came together after a process, of give and take

Women keep "tabs", Fellows, if you say things that women can go back and check out what you text, she, can read it again. voice msgs will come across with  tone and voice inflections etc.  emotions that she can hear  and there will be thought that you might even be ware of because of her history. We men find ourselves ad a disadvantage because "times have changed" women are not "Naive", men need to learn how to understand what women may have experienced in their past will come into play in present time encounters. some are "Orange or yellow flags," if you don't recoginze her discomfort  they will become "red flags" overnight and you will not understand what happened or why! 

Damn I can't blame it on autocorrect. She is right...

Final thought 

women are far better communicators than men will ever become. Women may not like a guy that speaks  and say too much. Men may want to be a mystery. someone who needs some over the counter medication, does not need ICU treatment.... women can't automatically read all your vitals. If she does not know  you  she needs to understand what you are about, instantly, try to meet each other half way.  When you both chose each other you can have harmony.  You  to understand each other. Everyone will think what they think, but getting the other person to understand what you are about without communication...... you will not understand each other. Emotional intelligence is key!

Is it really a broken heart or a bruised ego?

women are players , now! Like dudes were/are.

Are  you feeling  hurt  as a dude or  you have just been  getting  played?
OK women can play games as good as men can. But men can't handle being played!


Would you like to become the man that every beautiful woman is dying to have?

Would you like to have women chase you for sex, love and commitment?Would you like to become the man that women secretly have fantasies about?Sounds impossible? 
Instead, I went out consistently to meet as many attractive women as I could!
A female player has no problem asking for what she wants. She may take a smooth indirect approach or a very direct one. Either way she will get the point across and you will have to decide if you are willing to give her what she wants. If you choose not to she is likely to get very upset with you. This may be done in a loud and harsh manner or she may use the silent but still strong approach. She will have you feeling that giving in to her demands is the only way you can expect to keep her around. She may not even be your girlfriend yet but she knows how to play on your desires to get her and she will use all of this to her advantage.
When a woman genuinely embraces having a relationship she is willing for an emotional attachment to occur. When she decides she is going to be a female player she already perceives emotional attachment as her enemy and wants no part of it. That’s why an emotionally detached woman who is dating may be a red flag. She dates to get the benefits she is looking for but she isn’t interested in the emotional risks that come with truly trying to be with anybody right now. She also understands it is easier to maintain this position dealing with multiple men vs. dealing with just one man consistently. She is the woman capable of having sex with you and not requiring any “cuddle time” afterward. Essentially some may view her as “like a guy” when it comes to her approach to relationships and sex.
~STEPHAN LABOSSIERE.

My skills got better, and during my journey I was honored to meet some the most talented and realest players in the game. I learned everything about female attraction from watching and speaking to these powerful women.

From that time forward, 

When a woman is a female player she is not with you for your benefit. She entertains you for her benefit and at her convenience. If she gave you more than she received then that would defeat the whole purpose of keeping you around. So her goal is to milk you for whatever she deems appropriate. Now a really smart female player may still do things for you here and there but don’t be fooled. She might buy you lunch but you will be buying her groceries.  She might get you something nice for your car but she may have you paying her car note. One way or another she is going to make sure she is getting the much better end of the deal.

I hope this helps some of the men wondering what to look for when trying to avoid the female player. Don’t be so quick to let her beauty blind you and be willing to take a deep look at who she really is as a woman. If any of these signs come up always be willing to properly address them and talk to her about it. Sometimes it may not be that she is trying to play you but you will get a clearer picture after you properly express your concerns. If you do happen to fall victim to one don’t hold on to bitterness and negativity. Just because one woman hurt you doesn’t mean you have to turn around and take it out on every other woman after her. Stuff happens and you just have to learn from it, grow, and focus on being the best man you can be.
When women refer to receipts these days they are not talking about shopping receipts. They are talking about facetime and texting communications, they had with you, fellahs. Watch what you say and text. It will be used against you! Your "Miranda rights" do not apply here. You have the right to remain silent, because anything you say or imply will be used against YOU.


Final thought

So what is the difference? Are women establishing the upper hand now?