she is an overthinker so come correct.

Sorry, I don’t have  time for  your B.S.

The men who get into a relationship with women who are overthinkers better be ready to come direct and correct. 

Here is why…. Women who are overthinkers do serious Analysis considering more than just a few scenarios.

Guys, You have to be extremely direct and forthcoming with over-thinkers, here is why, their minds think of too many different scenarios and they start analyzing each of them, one after the other,

I’m not over thinking this, you should have given 

it more thought before talking to me about it.

Behind every great relationship are difficult and uncomfortable conversations we rarely get to see. Great relationships don’t just fall into our laps.They require people to move through their fears and insecurities and do the hard work to move wounds into healing. ~Vienna Pharson

Deep conversations with the right person are priceless. So having a conversation with an overthinker can be very cost effective. You will get an in depth analysis on the subject matter. A worthwhile investment in time. 

If you don’t have patience to deal with an overthinker then just bail before you even get started.

You can’t convince her to come along just to get along.

Final thoughts 

Women are often better communicators than men. Women just practice more therefore making them better at it. If a man is not a good listener then he better not start a conversation with an overthinker. Here again is the problem, you don’t get to look and see an overthinker, because she is not presenting that label on her forehead. A man’s best bet is to study her interactions with friends, from a distance, before approaching her because she is almost never very transparent, her thoughts are her weapon that she will use against you if she has the option.