I hate the term Ride or die!

"I'm your ride or die , boo"

Is there "really" a blessing in every lesson?
People each want to have power. Men and women. If a man chooses a woman, he is telling her you are "the one" however in the 21st century women want to also choose who they want, Are you RTL Ready To Love, If you are not ready to receive Love then just being chosen, has no value. You are energy (Vibe) so how you are shaking is what will attract the right energy. Women read men and men chase based on looks. Being on the market for a long time makes it even harder, for some women.

where has she been  all of my life.

He has the greatest looking package

                                  

But when you bring the right energy to the mix you can have what others have with someone you  chose, women are not going to wait for you forever. Warning  women tag situations as "red flags"  Let's face it times have changed and when you hesitate  you might lose just because she "assumes" you  can't make up your mind you don't know what you want.  When you got it together you might see how receptive  she might be. Her body language is telling you she is a RTL woman. If you are sceptical then talk to her in real live situations leave the drama on the back burner. She will not tell you "her life history" until she ready to share with you. Men want to know, so men, don't ask unless you are ready to listen without judging.  If you work on your question... ask yourself how would you react to the question if it was asked of you.

We came together after a process, of give and take

Women keep "tabs", Fellows, if you say things that women can go back and check out what you text, she, can read it again. voice msgs will come across with  tone and voice inflections etc.  emotions that she can hear  and there will be thought that you might even be ware of because of her history. We men find ourselves ad a disadvantage because "times have changed" women are not "Naive", men need to learn how to understand what women may have experienced in their past will come into play in present time encounters. some are "Orange or yellow flags," if you don't recoginze her discomfort  they will become "red flags" overnight and you will not understand what happened or why! 

Damn I can't blame it on autocorrect. She is right...

Final thought 

women are far better communicators than men will ever become. Women may not like a guy that speaks  and say too much. Men may want to be a mystery. someone who needs some over the counter medication, does not need ICU treatment.... women can't automatically read all your vitals. If she does not know  you  she needs to understand what you are about, instantly, try to meet each other half way.  When you both chose each other you can have harmony.  You  to understand each other. Everyone will think what they think, but getting the other person to understand what you are about without communication...... you will not understand each other. Emotional intelligence is key!