Are you really Hot for her or will you cool off after some time

Women may think, based on experience, that men don't stay Hot for them for ever after. 

It started off Hot but the stone has cooled off a bit

What does a girl really mean when she tells you she needs you?

She convinces you that you’re very important to her and that she needs you. She makes herself appear weak and helpless without your advice and emotional support. She tells you she needs you, and that she’s very close to you, and she doesn’t know what she’d do without you in her life.  She blows hot and cold.

Well  some women who think this way may have a good reasons!

Here are some things that you ladies might be thinking about:

• His Behavior is “Hot and Cold”. Hot and cold means he acts like he’s still in love with you one day and then acts as if you don’t exist the next.
• He Tries To Make You Jealous. Is he putting up pictures of himself with hot girls on Facebook and Instagram?
• He Reaches Out Even Though You Asked Him Not to. The “No Contact Rule” is a post-breakup must for one reason: it works.
• He Calls You When He’s Drunk & Makes Emotional Confessions to You.
• He Shows Strong Emotions When It Comes To You. The opposite of love isn’t always hate.

Final Thoughts

When past experiences play as a constant movie on replay in your mind, you find yourselves drawing comparisons. They impact your thoughts consistently, this can be a good and bad thing. Good if these thought can prevent you from making serious mistakes. And bad if they stop you from moving forward with someone who could make you happy. Not all situations will be the same with a new person, as they were with some you were once with. 

example: a lady once told me she liked me because I was mot that dark, but didn't trust me because I was not that dark skinned.  SMDH.  I left her alone after that because I felt she was stuck in a rut. comparing me to someone else or multiple other individuals.  

Sometimes when the past grabs a hold of you it does not let go.