Good things come to those who wait, but not to those who wait too late

You mean my window of opportunity has closed?

When you wait too long, opportunities can be missed, especially when it comes to men and  women relationships. 

Let me talk to the Martians here first on this one.  

Since women are not from Mars even women who are lesbians are all still from Venus. They don’t think like men do.  

When a comedian writes a book “Act like a lady, think like a man” you need to start laughing because the joke is not realistic. 

Allow me to explain:

When a man thinks ‘hmmm I think she likes me, I will just wait for her to come around.’  He will be waiting way too long. Why? 

For a few reasons. 

- women don’t want to be seen as “thirsty”. 

- Women can be aggressive however they want to be wanted, needed, they want to be persuaded, etc. 

- They don’t want to be the one to chase a man. 

- She wants “the mountain” to come to her.

These are facts… not to be debated just because you don’t want to believe them.

I was told that… "All good boys go to heaven, but BAD boys bring heaven to you?"   

As a man who has many different experiences with women, I'm not boasting. I grew up with many women in my own family, was married for 25 years, dated before I got married and after divorce. So even the  women in Chicago,Atlanta, Miami, Caribbean Islands  and N.Y had these same things in common. My now ex-wife and ex girlfriends were from different countries, Islands, Cultures and they all acted the same way when I became interested in them.

My actions had to be thought through carefully. So I learned a few things, over the years  even now I’m still learning.  

She might be a bit shy, 

so don’t approach her like you are  a predator. 

I’m on vacation and want to have some fun.

Let’s find a guys that rolls my way 

and makes my days and maybe even my night, 

an experience I will never forget. 

Every woman is unique, even twins are, so men need to explore what is special about her . do not assume you will find the things in one and also in the other. She will surprise you.

I once overheard a buddy of mine say “all women are the same…” My response to him was….. ‘so you have never had experiences with more than one woman, then!’

Needles to say he just disagreed with me as if he thought that I was judging him as an inexperienced guy. 

If you have not  taken the time to try to understand women you might think to yourself “why bother just treat them all them the  same way.” Guys who do this…. Find Out that treating women the same, is like driving different means of transportation the same way. You will crash a few times until you realize a sport vehicle handles differently to a sedan, and a SUV does not handle like 18 wheeler.  

OK, women are not vehicles but I think guys will understand what I’m saying here.