AMAZING can become what is expected.

Tell me again why I’m Amazing in your eyes!

Time can alter  your memory. Folks can’t help what they start expecting based on their experiences. Mature  folks, often say these words “ I remember when!” this can be a conversation starter to  traveling down memory lane. OK I’m one of those guys who was lucky to have been in relationships with some “Amazing  women”. So now I’m still expect a woman to be “Amazing” not just “Eye-candy.” 

So let’s define Amazing  by my categories.

1. Beautiful  in looks and having a beautiful heart.

2. Kind and giving.

3. Unselfish, when it comes to sharing. 

4. Willing to go the extra mile with you. 

5. Strong in the areas of values

6. Forgiving

One or more of these categories can make an “Amazing woman” be the new expected partner potential....

“I’m so glad your six pack is still visible!” Love is  often rekindled when tested. 

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Men seldom classify “women forever after,” because we are visual creators. We expect her not to change…. We want her to remain Amazing in looks, and in other categories. And if she can be that, she will be a good fit for a very long while. 

Women have become so much like men…. that it has become  scary. If  women see a slowly aging man, they call him a “silverfox” when his hair start to grow grey. If he stays in reasonable good shape, with no over size belly etc. He is a catch worth keeping, maybe !

But some women are so much more realistic than men. Men feel if we can still attract a younger woman we will put in the work to  have a “Trophy queen” for years into the future (but, dude will she see you as her King?). Older Women who can still attract a man who can still appeal to his senses, will find themselves not having to compete as much  with other women in their age group. Women who do not appreciate the men they have, will lose them to women who will still appreciate them.  

No  smart man will let go of an Amazing woman unless he has to do it, but women often let go of a good a man, who is no longer “Amazing” in her eyes.

   In my view You are so very “Amazing” and I see you as “the one in a Million”, as my life partner! (think about which one of these two individuals would say this)

 

Final thought

To feel better about your partner, write down what you feel about what is good about them. (Try to let go about the not so great things) Instead of writing down your feelings you may also choose to do the same process in your mind. Simply refrain from trying to review what happened in your mind in your imagination, just imagine you are saying what you feel, think, and want-- without editing yourself in any way. By carrying on an inner dialogue expressing the complete truth about your inner feelings, you will suddenly become free from the negative grip.