So what are the signes that she trust and loves you

There are signs women only do with the Men they love. If you have ever had a reason to ask, “does she really love me?” then this Post is for YOU. The signs she loves you are something every man should know, well maybe man who take the time to understand their women. A lot of this really just comes down to female psychology and knowing what women really want.

Understanding how to tell if a woman loves you is simple (thankfully) once you know what to look for. This includes knowing how women think, what women want and how to know if she loves you. When you understand this, you are able to tell when a woman loves her man

I would not waste my time if I didn't love you

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In all honesty, there’s a big difference between knowing if a girl likes you and knowing if a girl loves you. And the truth is knowing if she loves you is pretty critical, right? Can you imagine how heartbreaking it would be to think she loves you when she doesn’t or to think that she doesn’t love you when she really does? If that happens, she’s just going to move on because she’s heartbroken.

Whether you have someone special in mind or you just want to be prepared for the future being able to tell if she loves you is going to help you avoid heartbreak no matter how you look at it. So if you want to make sure you avoid that heartbreak make sure you watch to the end. Now before we dive in if this is your first time here, welcome!

Now before I dive in and start giving you the specific list of things women do when they love you, we need to set up some guidelines, okay? I’m going to assume as I start this that you already know what toxic women are. The truth is toxic women will actually do these things to use you, to be perfectly honest with you. So it’s very very important you know how to identify toxic women, you know what they are.

If you haven’t yet seen this video (Toxic Girlfriend Signs) and this video (Avoid These Toxic Women) be sure to check them out.  watch them, they will save you so much heartache. Because again toxic women will do these things just to use you.

And the last thing I want to mention is there is a huge difference between knowing if a girl likes you and knowing if a girl loves you. Liking you is obviously the first step and that’s very important to know. Where loving you is obviously much deeper.

So the first thing I'm going to talk about that woman only do when they love you is that she wants you to meet her family and spend a lot of time with them. Her families, usually, are really important to her and that’s her safe place.

And so, if she wants you involved with her family it’s because the people who mean the most to her, she wants them to know you because you mean so much to her, and she wants you to know them because they mean so much to her.

So, if she wants the most important people in her life to meet each other that’s because you’re one of the most important people in her life. Now one thing I want to mention about this and everything else that is to come is you need to make sure as I'm going through this list you are looking for 80% to 90% of the things, I’m going to be sharing with you.

Each woman is a little bit different. Some women are a little more open about certain things than others which is why you can’t just count on one sign. For instance, some guys will say “yes! I met her mom, she’s in love with me” even if she has nothing else on the list of things, I’m going to be sharing with you.

Just make sure you’re looking for as many signs as possible that she loves you otherwise you’re going to end up rejected and heartbroken. So yes, one of the main things she will do is she will want you to meet her family. Just be careful you don’t just see that and automatically assume that she loves you.

2. She Dates You Long Term

Number two is that she keeps dating you for a long time. One of the best ways to know that she loves you is that she wants to date you long-term. So many people, the reason they end up being heartbroken is that they just rush into a relationship, and they think “oh hey, this is fabulous. We’ve been on like three dates, and she loves me. “

No, she doesn’t love you, she doesn’t know you well enough. She probably likes you, but you have to actually know someone to a certain level before you can actually be in love with them.

And so, if she dates you for a long time, no I’m not talking years and years, but if she actually dates you for a long time well yeah, she’s definitely interested and definitely wants you to be a part of her life and loves you. So, if you want to feel confident that she loves you make sure you are dating her for a long time.

3 – She Confides In You

Number three is that she confides in you. She tells you things that are kind of vulnerable and that she wouldn’t just share with anyone. That shows us a huge level of trust. When we are in love with someone that’s something we want from them, is being able to confide in them.

So if you notice that she tends to confide in you about a lot of things that’s a huge sign because that is something women do with the man they love.

4 – She Spends Time With You Over Her Friends

Sign number four is that she rather be with you than with her friends. Now obviously she needs to be able to spend some time with her friends, that’s just normal and healthy. But if you notice that sometimes she’ll put off things she could be doing with other people to spend time with you, whoa, that speaks volumes for how she feels about you.

5 – She Feels Comfortable Enough To Not Be Perfect

Number five is that she feels safe enough with you to not always be super done up. If you notice that sometimes she’s comfortable not having her hair done perfectly, maybe wearing sweatpants or working in the yard type clothes or not having makeup on all the time that can be a huge sign that it’s because she trusts you and she feels safe with you.

Now obviously you don’t want to take this to the extreme. If she loves, you she also wants to look pretty for you. So if you notice that she never looks nice to you that’s actually a sign of a toxic woman. But we’re all human, right? We don’t always look our best and so if she feels safe with you to sometimes look less than perfect that is a really good sign that she loves you and she feels safe with you.

6 – She Stops Dating Other Men

The sixth thing women do only with the men they love is that they stop dating other men. If you start noticing she’s only dating, you well that’s because she cares about you. If she’s keeping her options open, if she’s still looking for other men, if she still has other people she’s flirting with, she’s not in love with you.

But if you are exclusive with her, again especially if you’ve been dating her for a while, well then yeah, she’s in love with you. A lot of men will assume “oh she totally loves me even though there are other men in her life.” No. If there are other men in her life, then she doesn’t love you. She may be interested but she doesn’t love you.

So if you notice that she’s exclusive with you and you are alone and she doesn’t have eyes for everybody else well then yeah, it’s because she loves you.

7 – She Sees You In Her Future

Number seven is that she plans her future with you in it. Do you ever notice that when she talks to you it just kind of sounds like you’re always going to be a part of her life? If she’s planning, her future with you in it it’s because she wants you in it.

8 – She Wants To Meet Your Family

Number eight is that she actually wants to meet your family and wants to spend time with your family. Just like she wants the most important people in her life to know you she also wants to know the most important people in your life.

9 – She

talks to You About Most if not Everything

Number nine is she wants to tell you everything. I already mentioned that she’ll confide in you and tell you some things that are kind of vulnerable or really personal, things like that.

But in addition to that when a woman’s in love with a guy she thinks about you all the time and she just always wants to talk to you. She wants to tell you everything. Big things, small things, she just wants to spend time with you and really connect with you.

10 – She Wants to Know Your Opinions

Number ten is that she actually wants to know your thoughts and your opinions on things. If you notice she asks for your advice and for your input that’s because she really respects, you and really cares about your feelings and how you think about things because she cares about you.

11 – She Looks Past Your Faults

Number 11 is that she’s very aware of your faults and your weaknesses. We all have them, right? She’s very aware of them and she’s okay with it. She understands that you are not perfect, and it doesn’t bother her and she’s not trying to change you.

She just cares about you and likes you for you because ultimately, she loves you for you. Honestly, this is one of the best signs of a really good relationship. Someone who just totally gets that you’re human and they absolutely adore you for it anyway.

This is actually the power of knowing how to get a girlfriend the right way. When you set your relationship up for success because you have the right game plan then you have a happy relationship.

12 – She Remembers Things Important To You

Number 12 is that she knows the things that are important to you and she remembers them and makes an extra effort in that area. If she is taking the time to remember things that are important to you, that’s huge, that’s because you really matter to her.

13 – She Tells People You Are A Couple

Number 13 is that she lets people know you are a couple. I can’t tell you how many men have told me “yeah I’m really in love with her and I really think she cares about me too but she doesn’t tell people we’re a couple.“

If she needs to hide that you’re a couple it’s because she does not love you at all. She is sadly using you. If instead, she can’t wait to tell people you’re a couple and she’s excited to share that with people it’s because she’s crazy about you.

14 – She Can Compromise With You

Number 14 is that she can compromise with you, and she is willing to compromise with you. Relationships in general just require a certain amount of compromise. And so if she feels like this relationship is worth compromising it’s because she sincerely cares about you.

15 – She Makes You A Priority

Number 15 is that she makes you a priority. If you don’t feel like you’re a priority in her life well then, it’s probably because she’s not in love with you. But if she sets things aside and rearranges her schedule and makes sure you are always a priority then YESs she definitely cares about you greatly.

16 – She Involves You in Family Traditions

Sign number 16 is that she involves you in family traditions and things that are really important to her. Let’s face it. If you think, there’s a possibility you’re going to break up with someone you really don’t want them around for a special event or occasion or tradition because it leaves awkward memories in the future.

But if instead she wants you to be a part of that and wants you to be a part of things that are really important and special to her well yeah, it’s because she sees you in her future and she truly cares about you.

17 – She Tells You She Loves You

Sign number 17 is that she tells you she loves you. This sounds obvious but it’s not obvious to everyone. If she tells you she loves, you that’s a huge sign that she does in fact care about you because that’s not something she would just throw around for the fun.

Again, I’m not talking about toxic women like I mentioned at the start. But if she actually goes out of her way to tell you things about how she cares about you then that’s huge. So, if she tells you she really loves you, believe her. Do not ignore that.

Are you being selected or rejected

 In this new world of online dating a way of dating... swiping left or right is a new way of REJECTING and most empowering feeling of persons of the opposite sex selecting you.

I picked you for very sincere reasons

How to Overcome Feelings of Online Dating Rejection.

Feelings of online dating rejection can be one of the worst experiences a person can have.  But it doesn’t have to be this way.   If your self-esteem has taken a hit since you started online dating, be sure to read this important post.

take as I am, because I will not change for anyone

I may be known as one of the best online dating experts in the world today, but I’ll never forget my first couple months of online dating.  During those first few months I couldn’t get a single woman to respond to my emails.

 

I had no clue what I was doing and tried just about everything I could think of.  With each day that passed, I got more and more depressed.  But during the height of my rejection, I remember writing one email in particular that truly defined my hopelessness.

 

In the email I explained to a woman that I knew she probably wouldn’t respond, but that I just wanted to let her know that any guy would be lucky to date her.  Think about that.  I was so convinced that I was a failure that I rejected myself before she could even reject me.  Talk about defense mechanisms going into full gear!

 

She responded out of pity to thank me for the kind words, but she had zero interest in getting to know me.  How sad is that?  After 3 months of online dating rejection, my only response was pure pity.   I left online dating feeling broken, empty, and hopeless.

My smile is meant to be inviting so select me

 

So what do you do when you try online dating and rejection shatters your self-esteem?

 

When this happens, it’s easy to write off online dating as a shallow medium that only rewards the best-looking guys or women.  But what I need you to understand is that this is not necessarily true.

 

There was once a time where I blamed everyone and everything for my shortcomings online.  Women are shallow.  Women only care about money. Women only like assholes.  These were the lies I told myself.  But they weren’t true.  They were excuses.

 

It’s been nearly a decade and men of all ages and backgrounds have founds success through my teachings.  My turnaround was not some rare anomaly.  It was about understanding the medium of online dating and learning how to make the right adjustments.

 

So if you are feeling down from online dating, the first step towards feeling better is to understand that all your problems are completely fixable.  Let’s take at how you can overcome online dating rejection and get on the right path to online dating success.

 

If you like what you see, select me.

Take a breather

If you’ve been experiencing online dating rejection, this means online dating sites have been a symbol of frustration and negativity for you over the past few months.  So take a breather.  Distance yourself from this environment the same way you would remove yourself from a bad relationship.  Eventually the bitterness and negativity will fade and you will be able to return with a completely new attitude.

 

Work on your mental health

 

Online dating rejection can shatter your self esteem.  It’s your job to build it back up.  Before you return to online dating, work on yourself as much as possible.  Work out more.  Take on new hobbies.  Read a few inspiring books.

 

Whatever it is you need to do to get your mental health in order, take care of that.  No matter how down you feel right now from online dating rejection, I can assure you that you will feel drastically better once you start making improvements to yourself.

 

My lashes are turned up so they don't prevent
 me from looking directly at you.

Thoroughly educate yourself about online dating

 

When I first struggled with online dating in 2008 it far from mainstream.  Not many people were writing online dating tips for men so I had to figure everything out on my own.  Luckily for all you men out there, there is now an abundance of knowledge available and free advice all over the Internet.

 

Every single article and book I write comes with nearly a decades worth of experience in the field and helping others.  I give away endless amounts of information for free, so take advantage and read up.  You can’t succeed at online dating if you don’t have the tools for success.

 

For plenty of free online dating advice that will get you started on the right path, just click here.

I was engaged multiple times 
 so I know how to select a mate with potential

 

Go back and self-reflect

 

Once you have enough knowledge on how to succeed with online dating, pinpoint just  why you weren’t succeeding the first few times.  Were you too nice?  Were you using the wrong language? Did your visual story need improvement?

 

The definition of insanity is repeating the same mistakes over and over and expecting a different result.  Figure out why you were failing the first time and make the right adjustments to avoid any possibility of online dating rejection going forward.

 

Start laying the foundation that will help you avoid online dating rejection going forward

 

these lips were meant for kissing, so
don't espect too much else.

Once you have the knowledge it’s time to lay down the foundation for your success.  The two most important components of this are the written portion of your profile and the visual story you tell.

 

You have two options here.  You can take all that knowledge you’ve been acquiring on this website and tackle it head on, or you can hire a professional profile writer and allow the experts to take care of it for you.  Either way, make sure the foundation you lay is correctly built or the whole operation will crumble.

 

 

Get out there and begin your re-birth

 

If you properly educated yourself and laid the right foundation, you will see your inbox fill up fast and furiously when you get back out there and online dating rejection will soon feel like a memory of the distant past.  When it does, please share your story with me.  I’d love to hear about it.

 

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Final thoughts

there many reason that you make not get selected. Here are a few that come to mind but you will not know. 

-"I'm looking for someone a little older."

-"I was trying to find someone who lives closer to me."

 Dating Sites Are a Different Environment

Disinhibition- People behave in a far less inhibited way online than in face-to-face environments. This is known as the online disinhibition effect, and one reason it might occur is the feeling of relative anonymity online. Indeed, the effect may be more prevalent in an online dating environment, where people have not met the person with whom they are communicating, compared to social media, where it is likely that people are already known to each other.

Further, the asynchronous (non-real time) nature of the communication may foster a feeling of distance between people online. One consequence of this feeling of distance is a lack of empathy between people, perhaps resulting perhaps in a lack of concern for others, which may lead to total disregard when someone replies to a message.

Online Etiquette- Attempting to date someone using a mainstream online dating site can be frustrating if you continue receiving replies similar to some of these or no reply at all. Whatever type of response you get, it's important not to take things too personally, even though it may be a little tough to get over what might feel like constant rejection. This post is not trying to examine why some of the reasons why online rejection happens. I'm just stating that you may not be making a connection with just or profiles that read like a resume with pictures.

Ghosting, or breaking off communication with another person without notice, warning, or reason, is increasingly seen as quite normal. Following a brief exchange in online dating, a person may choose to just not reply to a message. While such behavior may initially appear rude or disrespectful, it now seems commonplace in online communication. There is good evidence that ghosting has become extremely common: A survey from the Plenty of Fish dating site found that 80 percent of users between the ages of 18 and 33 had experienced ghosting, with many of those who reported having been ghosted likely having ghosted others themselves. Some possible reasons for ghosting may include the relative anonymity of people on dating sites and the fleeting, short-term nature of the hook-up culture, which ultimately results in a lack of empathy or concern for others.

She COULD leave for these reasons.

10 Reasons Why Even a Woman Who Loves You Madly Can Leave You for Good

She is walking away!

Many men realize that their women are charmingly mysterious and unpredictable, but that only happens until THEY pack up and leave. They may slam the door and go away forever while you are at work.

In this Post, I have listed ten situations in relationships when women choose to leave their partner, even if they still love them.

When men are not reliable.

We all understand that everyone in a relationship needs private space and freedom. It is the same for women. However, in some periods of their life, they still want to have someone to lean on when they need. Only a reliable person can make them feel comfortable.

Even women who love their freedom a lot want to be able to lean on somebody when they need them. And there are periods in women’s lives (like pregnancy or maternity leave) when they need men a lot. Only a reliable person can make a woman feel comfortable. 

She is tired of meeting your demands.

Responding to many requirements of someone will make women feel tired. Do you ask her always being in great shape and a good mood, cooking unique food, reading intelligent books, and being able to communicate with your friends? If the answer is yes, you are asking too many things from her.

She doesn’t feel like she is the only one.

Not only for women, anyone who is in a relationship always wants that they are the most important person for their partner. If a woman cannot see that you love her, she will choose to leave you.

She is tired of your lack of trust and need for total control.

Trust is an important key in a mature relationship. If you try to control all her relationships, she will feel suffocated. It is ridiculous when she has to spend a week to get your permission to see her friends then having to answer your calls and texts during the whole evening. Too many suspicions is not a sign of a healthy relationship. Will you feel tired if you are in a relationship with a jealousy person? And if you have real reasons to not trust your girlfriend, why not leave her first?

You are a source of negative emotions.

Finding bright new emotions is a good way to maintain the feelings in a relationship. But all ideas from your girlfriend are denied by you because you think that they are ridiculous. Or you are always unhappy, feeling low and lazy to try something new, she will want to move on and make her life more interesting without you.

You are from 2 different worlds.

When we begin a relationship we only see our partner and our world revolves around them. We can’t think clearly, and we ignore a lot of things like our  own family, who our friends are, and so on. Only after a while, when the excitement fades, do we realize that a man's friends are people you will never talk to or that her family is unbearable.

 You act too childish.

Women always want to have a mature man to lean on. She wants to have children but you want to leave your job and spend your time and money on a trip to Phuket with your friends. Or you want a new gaming console and the biggest piece of the cake. There are exceptions, but in general, women are not ready to date immature men.

She is tired of giving without receiving

A healthy relationship does not work in the way of giving without receiving. 2 independent adults can be together only when both of them really want to invest in the relationship equally and when they consistently express their feelings in words and through actions

She is not sure you know what you want.

As I shared above, women usually prefer someone that they can lean on, count on. They cannot support you if they are not sure what your plans are. And no one can achieve anything serious with a person who changes their mind all the time

Your plans for the near future are not the same.

Another reason that makes a man's girlfriend leave him is his  plans for the near future are not the same as hers. When you cannot find a similar goal, it is difficult for both of you to support each other and try your best to gain achievement together. For example, she just finished some design courses, learned a language, and is looking into jobs abroad. But you plan to build a small house with a nice garden not far from your parents and not willing to move to another city.

Is there any other reason you could think of, that a woman will leave even if she love their partner a lot? 

Final thought

I used think that some of the above reasons could happen but the number one reason why women leave men is because they feel neglected. People rely on relationships for three basic needs: love, support and attention. When a partner feels they are not receiving these things, they become fed up and often check out. Neglect is also a large reason why women cheat, or leave.

Women who have professional careers are very confident in their apearance

But are they as confident in business meetings?

Women in the Workplace: The Myth of the Confidence Gap.

True or false?

1. 
   Confidence is seen as a necessary positive leadership trait and women are not promoted as far or as fast as men because they don’t demonstrate confidence.
2. Women are less confident in their abilities than men.
3. Women need to step forward, lean in, be more assertive, demonstrate confidence, claim a seat at the table.
4. Women who are confident and assertive are often seen as unlikeable, unpromotable and less likely to be hired.

Take-charge behavior is rewarded when exhibited by men and punished when exhibited by women.
No one (male or female) likes a shrill, bossy woman. 

Alas, the answers to all of the above, with the exception of number two, are, more or less, “true.”

Recent research suggests that the widely held idea that women are less confident in their abilities than men is an incorrect interpretation of appearances. This alleged lack of confidence has been cited as one of the contributors to inequity in promotions and the poor representation of women at the top levels of corporate leadership.

 In fact, women are likely equally confident, but warier of self-promotion, and for good reason. They may accurately perceive that self-assertion will lead to less acceptance rather than more.

A therapist recently summarized the emerging research on the false premise behind the so-called confidence gap in an excellent article in the Atlantic. The problem isn’t that women aren’t confident but that confidence in women is not rewarded in the work world.

The therapist concludes that the onus to change is on the workplace. Rather than exhorting women to up their confidence game, each workplace must make deliberate efforts to track and acknowledge everyone’s work contributions and develop “specific policies and collective structural changes, [which] would do far more to help women get their work recognized than any pep talks aimed at boosting their personal confidence.”

That’s all good, but there is another layer to the problem.

Gender Norms

A competitive, powerful, forceful woman surging forward with her own agenda is simply not complying with widely held gender norms. As a result, she tends to make people uncomfortable if not resentful, angry and alienated. Despite the emergence of “non-binary” thinking about gender, gender norms are not just going to disappear. They are psychological and cultural structures that persist for generations and are deeply resistant to change. 

 The gender norm for women continues to include the expectation that a woman will have a greater focus on the community around her—looking out for others’ needs, tempering her own drives, making sure everyone is doing okay. And really, that’s not such a bad thing.

Pretty much the opposite is true for men. A hard-driving man promoting his own agenda is seen as a promising leader. But a man who is finely attuned to the emotional experience of others and focused on the overall good of the group is likely to be seen as weak.

The solution is straightforward if not easy to sell or implement. Incentives need to be put in place so that all of us, of whatever gender, are encouraged—or even forced—to exhibit behaviors of the opposite gender norm and these behaviors have to be rewarded.

What would this look like in practice? Here are a few ideas.

• Managers could make sure that women speak first in team meetings—or at a minimum make sure that they speak at all. This is especially important when calls include remote participants.
• “Talking over” a woman could be framed as bad for the 
• company and bad for business and called out whenever it occurs.
• Women team members could be asked to lead presentations to a larger group whenever possible.
• Men could be asked for their assessment of the potential impact of decisions on various stakeholders. This might train them to be more adept on the empathic community-scanning behavior that most women do automatically.

In a recent article about Google, I wrote that the company is proud that there is a 0% gender pay difference in their workforce. And justifiably so. Other companies can’t make that claim.

But that statistic refers to the fact that women and men doing the same job are making the same pay. The disproportionate presence of men in higher—and therefore better paying—leadership positions is tremendous. Only one of Google’s top five executives, CFO and Senior VP of a corporation is a woman. And of their top 35 

executives, only 23% are women.

What do these numbers tell us?  That to a large extent, change towards greater diversity is going to come down to the commitment and actions of men. And when it relates to racial diversity, to white men. Men sitting in a board meeting are going to have to ask, “Why aren’t more women in the room?” White men at a leadership team meeting are going to have to ask, “Why aren’t more women and people of color in this meeting?”

Then they have to practice the leadership competence of empathy. 

They have to wonder what it is like for women or other minorities in a leadership group. They have to think about—and act upon—what would make it easier for “outsiders,” because that’s what women and minorities are, to feel comfortable with power, with speaking out, with speaking up.

Final thought

Believe it or not, of the 7.8 billion inhabitants on this Earth, women are the majority. Ironically, numbers are not in their favor and women worldwide enjoy only a fragment of the rights of men. And although a lot has been done to improve social mores and implement reforms to empower women, gender inequality in the workforce persists.

Tech companies, for example, nourish a cycle of hiring same-gender employees. The latest women in the workforce statistics reveal that only 26% of jobs in computer-related sectors are occupied by women. 

The purpose of this post, however, is to explore women’s representation in the workforce and show that despite the hurdles, women are leaping across mountains and taking on the role of breadwinners.