Learn how to make Her Fantasies Come Through

Most women aren't very good at asking for what they want, especially in the beginning of a relationship. And by "beginning," I mean anywhere from the first night to the first 2 years. For one thing, they're hopelessly romantic. They imagine that the right guy will instinctively grant them every sexual favor they've ever fantasized about, without them having to say anything. Ridiculous, sure, but its a girls dream.

Also—trust me here—they dread being perceived as high maintenance. They see how put out we guys are by the idea of phoning them once a day or escorting them to a cousin's wedding. So asking for 45 uninterrupted minutes of cunnilingus seems outrageous to ask simply because she knows we fellas hate to be timed when it comes to sex.

The good news is that they are fantasizing about sex. (Wow—they do, too?) And they will get around by  requesting their favors just as soon as they feel comfortable and confident enough. If your partner isn't there yet, let me give you an idea of what those favors might be—maybe you can coax them out of her. help her by saying repeat after me: "I wish you'd . . ." tell her to fill in the blank.

1.Fellas to capitalize on her fantasie always  Shower before bedtime.
Seeing you emerge from a steamy bathroom with droplets of water clinging to your biceps makes her want to dry you off . That includes all those  sensitive places—but only when you're Zestfully clean.or Irish Spring fresh.

2. Talk dirtier.
OK  much more dirtier than normal. Trot out a variety of nasty words one night, and if she grunt and moan in agreement, kick it up a notch. When she respond with total silence, dial it back down.(She no liking your choices of expressions)

3. Mow the lawn in jeans and no shirt so she can play desperate housewife from the window. ( woman love to watch a dude break a sweat doing work for them.)
Then when you comes inside and   smelling of fresh-cut grass, sweat, and pheromones, make love to her  on the dining-room table. Oooh wait, that part is my fantasy.... she might not go for that one.

4. Ask her  to perform yoga poses naked.
If she is athletic she has been preparing for it every week while bent over and staring through her  legs at the mirror on the yoga-studio wall. This is not a performance she'll volunteer for. She need a little encouragement, goading even, but she will give in. And trust me a fella  especially likes the views when she is  in a camel pose and standing bow.

5. Let her confess her latest sexual fantasy.
Like tell me what you did  with/to me in a dream. That will allow her  to maintain the illusion that it isn't something you used to do with an ex-hookup since it is her dream, or some idea you picked up from porn. she might not agree to reenact every thing she dreamed about , but telling  you about it will make her feel like your naughty little confidante, which is very hot. Bonus: It'll give her the courage to tell you more.. So just be her listing sounding board and let her fessup..

6. Read up on sex.(Yes fellas, reading is fundamental)
There are books on boinking that are worth the embarrassment of buying them. Like Ian Kerner's She Comes First, you will understand why  TGIF now means ---Tongue Goes In First--- for example. It's a guide to giving oral sex so well that your partner will insist on cooking you blueberry pancakes the next morning. Yes, you're an amazing lover already, but Kerner has a Ph.D. for a reason.

7. Ambush her in the shower and direct a strong stream of warm water precisely at the hot spots. Adjust your aim even as she  giggle and squirm around the tub. She's  done this by herself, plenty of times, but having you do it to her is way sexier and a hundred times more fun.

8. Allow her to Make the first  move the second you walk in the door.
Or while you're still in elevator or the hallway. She doesn't know what, if anything, happened between Benicio Del Toro and Scarlett Johansson in that elevator, but if Del Toro acted as if having sex with her right then and there was the only reason he was put on this planet, she will  feel that  she  should be obliged to try the same type of crazy fantasy. When a guy lusts after  woman  so urgently that he can't even wait the 90 seconds it takes to get to the bed, it makes her feel like a movie star.

9. Ask to take black-and-white photos of her naked.
She want you to, but she's not so cocky as to suggest that her body could be a work of art. That's why she need you to do it for her. Bring it up after you've had sex not before. Tell her that the curve of her hips needs to be immortalized. Then, one rainy Saturday night, produce a bottle of wine and a camera. close the drapes.


10.Treat sex like a buffet.Starting with appetizers.
Take breaks during intercourse to go back for appetizers. Too often, making out, manual stimulation, and  caressing get cast aside when the more serious stuff starts. But without generous amounts of all three from start to finish, the female orgasm is infinitely harder to achieve.
Don't ask me how I know all this stuff, this is just my BAD analysis from being a personal trainer for years....
and listing to women talk to me just because I'm a good listener.

And last but very important ask her if she has any costumes she would like you to evaluate...

Here is my all time favorite.