Don't ask, because I will not tell.

What's with the questions about the Number.... of sex partners?

Revealing the number of women you’ve hooked up with is fine when you’re throwing back brews with your buddies. Otherwise? Avoid the topic like the plague.

Here’s why: A majority of women will lose respect for you if they believe you have   too much casual sex.

But let’s say your new fling won’t stop badgering you about your number. What do you do? Do you dish, regardless of whether the tally’s 5 women or 50, or do you keep your mouth shut like a steel trap?
My advise is Mum is the word!

Deliberate no more. Here’s your step-by-step plan for attacking the decision—and leaving your girlfriend’s place in one piece.

1. Figure Out Your Stance
If you really don’t mind discussing the matter and you’re not ashamed about  your sexual past, then talk about it. I don't suggest you give a number under any circumstance. But if her persistent curiosity rubs you the wrong way, there’s nothing wrong with keeping it a secret. Sharing meaningful, even powerful struggles from our past can be a great way to bond. But I’m not one to believe that we need to share everything in our past just for the sake of sharing

2. Avoid the number entrapment trick!
Suppose you’re in the middle of post-sex pillow talk when she randomly drops her number: 7 guys. Don’t panic. Don’t feel the need to automatically spill your side of the story. And definitely avoid lying or dropping a number that’s close to hers, just because you think it’ll smooth over the situation. Making up an “acceptable” number isn’t just dishonest; it buries the real mystery at hand, which is why she’s interested in the first place. If you don’t understand the fairer sex. You’re not alone.

3. Uncover Her Motive
So maybe she’s just curious—and that’s completely fine. But usually there’s something more to her probing,  Tell her you don’t mind having some discussion about it, but ask her why the number really matters: Is she worried about whether or not you’re carrying an STD or an STI? Is she concerned that she’s being compared physically and sexually to your past hookups? Is she scared you’ll see her as   too inexperienced?
What it really boils down to is, talking about the number is an unproductive conversation to have. It can raise jealousy and insecurity, which is normal, since it’s hard to think about your partner being with other people.  So put the number to bed, and get deep. The goal is really to stick to the productive conversation you need to be having.Your  best bet is try to set her at  ease by saying something like: "Honey, a gentleman never ever talks about another woman to his LADY........ Don't worry about anything you are the only one for me."


Since this subject  is really taboo, I will end this post by saying no more!