The 90 day rule and the $200 minimum date!

 here is one of my favorite statement. 

As some folks  think of New Rules, dating can take great strides backward or forwards by creating new rules or changing old rules...

Example: Rule #1
Steve Harvey came up with a New Rule: "The 90 day Rule" We men are still secretly planning to execute him for having the nerve to talk about dating after he got married. When did a comic become a relationship Guru.... OK it sold books .. Act like a Lady, Think Like a Man ( I alway say the title is to catch women who want to  have the greater advantage. because women don't want to think like men) If They  understand how men think they win, Harvey suggested women  treat men like an employer would  a new employee by placing them on a 90-day probationary period before a man can have sex with her. Does that really work? the jury is still out! Though the premise makes sense logically (men think logically), matters of the heart and body often aren't treated the same as matters of Finance and livelihood. Is it sensible for women, to punish men for each realtionship that failed in the past.
Dating in my book a  is process of elimination if you don't impress me,  you will be scratched from the list. So the longer you hold out  (keeping the cookie) the less chance you have of becoming the "Special One" in my book.
 
You might be sitting at the edge of the bed, 90 days later wondering what went wrong, while I go to sleep, because I have nothing I want to share with you ( it was not worth the wait.).
So a guy needs to wait like a new employee but still spend $200.-- on a first-second-third date?
OKay, Now I have your attention.  Remember now a guy is entering in the area on probation.  Who can afford to spend that kind of investment in this economy just because someone  came up with a silly rule.
Example of Rule #2.
The US$200.-- Date rule.
Apparently, a date isn't a proper date unless a man spends at least $200.--.


 Maybe "KISS--- Keep it Simple Stupid" might be less costly but  more impressive, if you have  maximum privacy, to talk and get to know each other.
I'm pretty sure it's been picked apart on Twitter at least one million times.In any case, the debate is baseless and everyone has varying expectations of what a date is or isn't. Location, cost of living, profession, personal preferences and standards all determine what a dat should be. An initimate conversation over coffee or tea at a coffee house for one woman is the equivalent of dinner and drinks at five -star restaurant of another. Here is where I stand on the subject: New rules on dating  are created to make  movie... and sell fictional books.

The best Rule is be honest and straight forward with the person you are trying to establish a relationship with. 

This should also apply to Real women, be honest and tell the truth don't hide the truth just so that you can keep a guy interested.