Halloween Fantasy romances, break out the cool outfits!

Halloween proves that women can make anything look sexy—whether it's a nurse's outfit or a cop uniform or a nun's habit. (Especially a nun's habit.) Whatever your preference, there's very likely a woman somewhere who's willing to finish it off with fishnets and a low-cut top. And now's the time to bring up your fantasies: Halloween gives both of you cover. Anytime she's in costume, taking on another identity feels safer. And that gives you permission to embrace it. Try this four-step plan for a kinky night.

1. Jump-start Her Fantasy
First Gauge her interest. It's important that she does not feel pressured. That'll kill her arousal. You might just ask, 'Have you ever thought about dressing up?' When a woman just thinks about a sexual fantasy, she releases testosterone, which is linked to desire, within 15 minutes, Good to know. . Fantasies tend to be specific, so consider selecting costumes together,.She may love being a French maid, but what's hot to you may be tacky to her and vice versa. What, was the feather duster too much? <smirking>

2. Commit to a Character
The costume is just a start. Now you need to actually commit to the fantasy. Begin with some gentle reassurance: Tell her how sexy you think she looks in that bunny  getup, or how much you dig her Thai  accent. These compliments add up: There's an old saying: The better part of desire is being desired. Nothing is hotter than seeing lust in your partner's eyes. But remember, one night of role play won't revitalize an otherwise dormant sex life. Great fantasy requires that you already have a sexual charge going. It's a way of celebrating your sexual attraction to each other, not creating it.

3. Maintain Some Mystery
Now for the easy part: The positive reinforcement. The next morning, tell her how amazing you thought the night was, and leave it at that. In the meantime, just allow the memory to simmer—it will leave both of you wanting more. Fantasies take their power from the fact that they're things we dream about, If they happened with any regularity, they wouldn't be as special. In other words, there's no need for in-depth post-game analysis. Patience will lead to your payoff. Slip in a reminder, like 'Remember Halloween?' And that, of course, is the best time to spring an erotic new idea on her.

4. Raise the Sexual Stakes
Don't just send the costumes to the dry cleaner. What started with dress-up should lead to other, more creative experiments. Shared secrets, for instance—especially when you're doing something others may disapprove of—can be a potent aphrodisiac. So you might try a subtler move, such as asking her to wear lingerie under her work attire or surprising each other with R-rated Snap-chats when you're apart. Fantasy,  can also open the door to kinky new directions. Forty-seven percent of women, in fact, have tried bondage during foreplay and intercourse, according to a 2012 survey by the Swedish sex toy brand Lelo.  Now how would I know this?  Remember my initials are B.A.D. and I didn't just arrive on the scene yesterday!
 We are just 2 months away from Christmas so I'm placing this request  early.