Alpha women aren’t like most other women.

If you’ve ever come across one, chances are good that you immediately recognized that she is different. These are the women who most people perceive as intimidating, even though they can’t really say why at first. Then, they find out that it’s because they have ambition, drive, confidence, and aren’t afraid to tell people the way it is.

Dating an alpha woman can be difficult, but it’s not impossible. In fact, alpha women make for some of the best partners. But, you have to make sure you’re doing your part, otherwise they’ll likely kick you to the curb. 

My male perspective: I'm a man who prefers a challenge so Alpha  women go ahead step to the head of the line... and I will recognize you instantly. 

Here are five things every alpha woman needs in a relationship:

She needs to be able to be independent 
You probably saw this one coming, but it’s very important. Alpha women place a high value on their independence. She’s spent a great deal of her life being determined and motivated to chase after what she wants out of life, so you shouldn’t try to stop her. Of course, she loves being in a relationship, but she also needs someone who will let her make decisions for herself and who can respect the boundaries she establishes.  
My male perspective: When a weak man steps to an Alpha woman he will not be able to deal with just how secure she is..... and how independent her life is.. her togetherness might just run him over. However if a man knows he has solid footing.. he can see her for who she really is and will appreciate those great qualities that she posses. 

She needs respect 

Alpha women understand that in order to get respect you have to give it first. She thinks very highly of herself as a result of developing a high self-worth over the years, so if you fail to give her the respect that she knows she deserves, she’s not going to keep you around. Alpha women need partners who respect them, and trust in their decision-making.

My male perspective: This is a "No-brainer" R-E-S-P-E-C-T should be given even if she is not an Alpha female. We men sometimes wants 

what we can't handle..... we may say she is  my kind of woman and secretly be thinking " Damn I need to change her so I can have a tame.... agree with me all the time female."

She likes being challenged 
If you can’t compete with the alpha woman on some level, whether it be in the bedroom or some other aspect of life, she will likely get bored with you. Alpha women crave excitement in their relationships. Not only do they want a partner who can keep up with them, they want one who will test their limits every now and then.

My male perspective: <smirking>Just ask her to go skydiving with you on your first date. Hang gliding might even be better... If she thinks you are going to be able to do the things... you are changeling her to do then your macho image, with a hand written sign on the front and back of your T-shirt stating "I'm your hero just call me when you need me... "This might Let her know that as a man you are down for all that she is down for. Well maybe with a few exceptions. 

She needs someone who can make her laugh 
Alpha women tend to be diligent, hard workers, but as you know, all work and no play makes Jill a dull girl. She needs a partner who can lighten the mood and make her laugh; someone who brings a bit of balance to her busy lifestyle. If you can make her laugh and smile and forget about the stresses of life for a while, she will definitely want to keep you around.

My male perspective:  Having a good sense of humor , this makes you an interesting conversationalist... But don't try to tell Eddie Murphy jokes if you are not able to remember the punch lines, Or worse yet No Chris Rock jokes  if yo are going to forget the middle part. Tell funny things about yourself and your experiences  where  this might be more or less than very impressive to others. but it might make \her chuckle 

She needs a person to call her out when she falls out of line 
Being independent, opinionated and strong-willed is great, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re always right. Alpha women need partners who are confident enough in their own being to be willing to call them out when they fall out of line or starts acting poorly; a partner who can bring her back to reality when she gets sidetracked by something else.

My male perspective:  OK. step lightly in this area. It may seem like a good idea to call her out. but do it with tact..... never ever in public and never ever in front of her subordinate..... There is a place and time for everything ... take your  time and wait  for the right moment to show that she is not on point!